So, my girlfriend and I have been together for a while. She gives amazing head. When she chooses to. Which is not very often. I crave it. I need it. But she refuses. And she knows exactly what she's doing in the head giving department.
It's been probably once every 9 months. Maybe. Possibly less frequent.
When I ask, which happens, once every few months, she claims that she has no problem and is surprised that I might think that she doesn't enjoy it. She may have an aversion to the penis altogether, because the hjs are less frequent than the bjs. But again, she claims not to.
She has no problem with sperm. She's actually asked me to finish on her belly.
What's a boy to do?
Update: She won't let me go down her. I wish she would. And if she did it all the time, it wouldn't diminish it at all.
6 months ago
That guy's wrong. It could be multiple reasons; maybe things are dull for her and she just doesn't wanna do you that kinda favor often. She could just want you to go down on her, and she'd do the same for you. Or maybe she wants you to appreciate the head, but want sex more than her giving you head. I'm not sure if I explained it clear enough, but I tried.
Now correct me if I'm wrong, but if she did it all the time, you probably wouldn't appreciate it as much. Do you return the favor? If not, maybe that's what she wants. I don't give my boyfriend head very often because it's like a "special treat" that I want him to appreciate, not expect.
HAHA man this girl has got you stung out! :D it's a good thing lol, but man does she have a hold on you. If she has any friends in Houston.
Being serious, I would say she wants you to appreciate it to have the control to get what she wants in the relationship. Your love, loyalty, lust, whatever she likes from you (which is ok). I would try the reverse on her and make it fun. Give her some mind blowing form of sex (or something you know she really loves and craves from you) and use it as a rare special treat ( I would give it to her after the aforementioned super-fellatio)
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