Like the others said, to avoid embarrassment or trying stuff. But also there's that idea that we have (which turns out to be true quite a bit) that guys don't like girls who've slept with other guys. We want to be valued for ourselves and not how many people we've slept with. So to avoid being judged, we just tell you we've never had sex before and hope that changes the focus.
In some instances I agree with you, no self respecting guy wants to know his girl is a freak or town slut especially it he wants to try certain things like 69. However, saying that your a virgin mean that your clean (having no sexual diseases) or in some countries you have never masturbated. Which means your untouch by men. Personally, I would rather my girl to tell me I have done these things but not to the full extend( meaning how much men she slept with) just not virgin good for me. - 4 months ago
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You could say shallow - yes some guys are shallow about it. But I think it's human nature to (usually) want to be the only one they've been with. I don't mind knowing that a guy isn't a virgin, but at the same time, it kind of gives me competition, where I want to be the most beautiful/pleasurable/etc girl he's ever been with, and I know it's unrealistic but it's still there. I know guys who are the same - they want to feel special and have the girl 'give herself' to him and for him to be the - 4 months ago
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Only one to touch her, and also that way he's her 'best.' Even some really nice guys have this complex. I've seen some let it get in the way where they want to know but then when they do know they get all upset and ruin things, and I've seen some simply ask not to know any more than is absolutely necessary.
I'd say it's a cultural thing but it happens the world over... girls were always valued more if they were virgins. Personally I wouldn't lie, I mean, it's sort of pointless to me. But then - 4 months ago
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I can also why a guy wouldn't want to know intimate details. It's a strange topic really. - 4 months ago
Girls may say they're a virgin to try and keep guys from trying stuff, They may say they aren't because of embarrassment. I don't know any girl who's ever lied about it either way though.
I can understand where you are coming from but for me, I'll rather a girl just come out and and say I am not a virgin if I ask here in stead of lying. For me being with such a girl is just like being with a slut, they will do anything to get the bricks. I have no respect for such girls. Any how, guys does not asked this on the first date anyways, maybe a few months later why should they be affaid if they are selling themselves right. - 4 months ago
I've known women holding up the lie for years. It made their husband happy XD He never knew. - 4 months ago
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I have known several girls that had done this, also I have heard many of my friends talking about this when I was in high school. I have known guys that have gotten married to ladies and they have lied about being a virgin and not having any children but after a wild they have found out that they had. - 4 months ago
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In any case, I prefer a non-virgins over virgins. - 4 months ago
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