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Sex on the second date

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regina49 (Age:Over 45)     When: More than a year ago
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Well he finally called and left me an apology message that he did not want a relationship right now, I called him and left him a message that I did not want one either and just wanted sex. But now he keeps calling. What should I say?

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
What should you say? That you want the sex!
You're not 17 where you have to take it slow. In your 40's you're entitled to have some fun. So just go for it!
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UltraDramatic
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UltraDramatic (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Are you serious? You don't know the answer here?

YOU told HIM that YOU just wanted sex, and you act surprised that he keeps calling? HELLO?!!? To him, that was an open invitation. If you meant you were just looking for sex ONE TIME and then nothing more, then that's what you need to make clear with him. Otherwise . . . you have sex with a guy once, then tell him that you're only looking for sex, OF COURSE he's going to keep calling.
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PureFury (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
If you really just want sex then just have sex with him I guess. If you lied and you do want a relationship, then go find someone else. I hope you don't make these kinds of decisions all the time, cause they are dumb ones. Don't have sex with the next guy until you find out whether he wants the same things that you want.
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rosynante (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
You aren't making much sense. If you didn't want to talk to him, why call him in the first place? Just ignore his calls, he'll get the message.
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