This guy I have been dating for 6 months (we did not discuss being exclusive) said he need time to figure things out. He had a woman he met online come visit for 2 days. He and I talked the day after she left and he told me about her and said the break was to find out if he wanted to be with me or not. He said he realized he missed me and wants me and him to be exclusive.
He said that the woman and him only kissed and she slept in other bedroom. Him and I were starting to have sex but he kept going "soft" and it was never like that before our break. Do you think he had sex with her? Was it cheating even to kiss her even though we were not exclusive?
Update: Btw. The break we had was only for one week.
7 months ago
Update: Thru a source the woman said she spent a week with him and had sex. She had no reason to lie since she had no idea I even know this guy (source). Do you think she is telling the truth or should I believe my guy? Should I confront him on it?
7 months ago
Considering everything, I don't think you could call this cheating. And maybe he went limp because he felt guilty, and that's all. He didn't necessarily have sex with her. But, if he's good to you now, and is faithful, that's all you can ask for. Hopefully the two of you will have something good going.
He cheated. Leave before you cause yourself more agony. He will cheat again. All the people I know that have cheated, have continued to do so, and especially if they chose to not be honest in the first place.
Red flags all over. Leave him, or live with the consequences.
Well I guess it all depends on a matter of opinion. "Technically," no its not cheating. But my opinion on the subject is it is if you both have strong feelings for each other, any unwanted contact with another person is cheating because there is no such thing as a "break."
Those are juts excuses to do something with someone else (cheating). And how would he know that WITHIN ONE WEEK all of the sudden after being with another girl that he only wants to be with you and make it exclusive. Maybe guilt is playing a factor in that. But is also depends on how well you trust him.
You're not married, just put it behind you and see if this relationship works. His going soft on you sounds like a problem, unless of course you're both very young and he's sexually inexperienced.
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