Should I sleep with him just to get experience?

You should probably sleep with someone for experience, since that's what you're looking for. I'm not sure that the delivery guy who whips it out for his client would be good for a first time--save him for when you're having a dry spell.

Your first time should be with a guy who'll be at least nice, if not romantic, who won't get pushy if you get nervous, and who you can talk to if talking is what you need.

Keep looking.

No sleeping with someone "just for the experince" is always a bad Idea because you will end up regreating it later one way or the other...Insted of veiwing your virginity as a curse you should veiw it as a gift that you can give to a guy you really care about and love and loves you back. if you do that then you will be much happier..trust me on this..

A buddy of mine in college told me about his first time. He hooked up with some girl at a party. They didn't have a committed relationship, were somewhat drunk, and he left feeling like sex wasn't all that impressive and hollow.

Personally, my wife and I both waited until we were married and it was as fulfilling as I expected, perhaps more so. (Nothing pathetic about it!) It is so nice to be together and know we aren't being compared to any past partners.

So my belief is you should save it for a committed, trusting, loving relationship, even if you don't wait for marriage.

Okay, let's sort out the major issues here.

It is okay to be a virgin at any age, and you get to decide how to lose that status anytime you want. I urge you to think about the questions that you will have to answer regarding your "first time", and under what conditions or circumstances those might be.

Your future life partner will ask because they are going to want to know your sexual history, and for the most part they will be able to discern the truth based on your level of knowledge and skill.

Your daughters will eventually come to you and ask you questions about your first time (if you work to develop that kind of relationship), and they will consider your actions before making their own decisions. Having sex for the first time is taking a big step, for sure. However, waiting for Mr. Perfect may mean losing out on valuable experiences and lost opportunities.

Sex without emotion is okay. Sex with an emotional attachment is obviously more meaningful, but not necessarily better. Either will work, and millions of women and men make that decision everyday without even thinking about it. So, what ever you decide, you will be in good company.

Are you sure the delivery guy in this situation is equally emotionally unattached? We girls can't condemn guys who "love us and leave us", when we go out and do the same. Before you agree to a casual encounter, be sure he is on the same page you are.

Another question to consider... Does he know you are a virgin? If he does, and he is still willing to move forward, then ask him to make it special for you. This event is not something that you really want to have over and done with in 20 minutes or less. Do some things that will make it memorable - play soft music, have a glass of wine, do it somewhere you won't be interrupted - look for ways that make you feel comfortable. If the guy is "cool" he will agree to be a gentleman because you will always remember him as your "first". If he can't be "cool" with it then I would look for a different partner to celebrate your "change in status".

And, be certain to protect yourself.

I think banging the delivery driver is perfectly fine. I was a late bloomer too, when I lost my virginity. Although I deeply cared for him, it was one of the most uncomfortable experience in my life. He was a virgin, too BTW! I guess I have more of a liberal view towards sex because I'm older and in my thirties. Women are expected to find the 1st Mr. Right. Newsflash, not every woman marries their first sexual partner. With the horrific sex (as much as I loved him}, thank goodness I did not marry my 1st partner.

The key words here EMOTIONALLY DETACHED. This is a good thing. At least you will not go into this situation with high expectations. Be sure to let him know. Why? You want him to be gentle...not to RAM it in like Dirk Diggler!

do whatever feels right. but just make sure you always use protection. and try not to have sex with just any random guy. you don't want to look like a whore.

Ah. Hold on. I would not recommend sleeping with someone just for experience. This can make for incredibly awkward social situations in the future, and if it is your first time, you will have to reflect upon the fact that you spent it on some random guy who doesn't mean much to you and who might not be very nice about it.

Ultimately it's up to you, but just make sure that it's what you want to do.