How can I get her to finish when I'm down south?

I like fingers going in both holes. if you have a long nose you can use it to stimulate her clit.

Ask her what she likes. My guy loves to go down on me and he has asked me what I like. It really increased my pleasure and his. Stay attuned to how she responds to what she likes when you are eating her out, he can always tell if he is doing the right thing by how I respond. Also have a session of mutual masturbation, watch her, see what she does to make herself cum. If she masturbates regularly she will know what brings her to orgasm the quickest. Hope this helps. Good luck

Try some serious foreplay to get her blood boiling. Wait a few days before having sex with her again to get her and yourself really fired up. Sometimes technique does play a factor. Just muffin-diving is not good enough, you must lick the vulva and just inside the vagina folds long enough. Humming while you are lapping away works just like a vibrator.

But if she not into the mood, forget it. All she will do is just lay there. Talk with her, find out what's wrong and what you can do to help.

Some women are uncomfortable about receiving oral stimulation and often get stressed out over what you can see, and how bad they look down there. For the most part making a woman feel sexually satisfied a lot of it is about her feeling comfortable about her looks. Very little of it comes from technique. Focus on making her feel comfortable and relaxed and constantly reaffirm her beauty and sexiness. Sometimes a 69 is a good idea because then she is distracted and she can tell that you are still aroused by her because she's got your joystick in her mouth.