Sex talk.

My parents are WAAAAAAAAAY too worried. I mean it is annoying to a point. They regularly talk about drugs even though I have never done or even been in a group doing any. They also ask about sex a lot. If I meet a new girl and talk to her a lot they hint towards it. They tell me "Don't do anything stupid with her." It's like Argh leave me alone. I'm very responsible and sex is a long way off for me. I will also never do drugs or smoke. They do care a lot for me but I kinda wish they'd let me run my own life sometimes. So in response to your question yea that's a typical worried parent. It's not always a bad thing. It means they love you a lot. Some parents don't give a crap about their kids, which is why some kids turn out messed up. So feel lucky you have loving parents it's not necessarily a bad thing. I know it sometimes annoys me now but I'll likely thank them later on in life. Hope this helps =)

Hi Abbie,

Parenting is kind of like a job, one with a lot of responsibilities that start before a baby is born and pretty much never end.

I think that you felt like you were going to cry because your mom hurt your feelings - by implying that you were having sex, and you are not and don't plan to for a while.

My dad had the same talk with me and I was so embarassed, I couldn't speak. I already knew what he told me - so it didn't accomplish much.

You didn't mention what you said to your mom; but if you had said what you wrote in your note: "I'm not having sex and I don't want to for a while," it would be a big relief for her.

So, she probably didn't think you were doing it, she probably felt that she had to have this talk to you, well, because she is your mom are loves you.

Hope that helps. Dan

well, as a mother, its her responsibility
to make sure your not screwing up your
life or anything. its not your aunts duty to
talk to you about sex. is your moms duty.
after all, she's the one that had sex and had you.

It could be she wants you to be able to make an informed decision should you decide to have sex. You're a desirable young girl and guys will soon, if not already, hit on you for one reason. What ever you decide to do, vaginal or bj, make sure he's wearing a condom. Buy some for yourself to have on you just in case he doesn't have any and expects to just 'go without'. Be prepared.

Hey Abbie,
Just because she gave you the "sex talk" doesn't mean she thinks you are actually doing that.Every girl or boy goes through the sex talk once they reach a certain age,whether it comes from your parents or a relative.It's seen as the parents job to have that talk.Do know that I'm sure her bringing up that subject was just as hard for her to talk about, as it was for you to listen to it...I mean face it,how many teens do you know that aren't at least interested in sex?
She's just being a concerned mom,give her some slack...She just loves you and is trying to be a good parent.That's all...no worries :)

She is she wants to make sure that if you are you're not going to do anything to endanger yourself there are far too many diseases floating around out there for this talk not to happen. I would feel better that it came from her though because at least you know that when the time comes when you make the decision to start having sex. You can come to her and not feel like you have to hide anything from her in fear of her being in shock or getting angry.