How many guys really want a girl to put a finger up their you a**?

if its gay to do anal play then must be gay playin with your d*** as well

i watched road trip when it first came out and it refrenced a finger up da ass to make him cum...i eventually tried it and liked it...now married with children have my wife play with it wenever she wants...she actuallly wants to strap-on me...i don't kno about that but f*** it I'll try it...i think its a guarentee that once you try it your gonna like it...u tried stroking your own d*** before and liked it why not get some lotion and stick a finger up your ass while stroking..it leads to a great orgasam but you cumm fast..powerful though think I might of broke a world record with how far my come went

NEVER! MY Girlfriend SAID SHE WANTED TO DO THAT I TOLD HER I WOULD KILL HER IF SHE TIRED, NOTHING IS REALLY SUPPOSED TO GO UP A BUTT HOLE ANYWAY

I had a girl do it to me before and I fell in love with her.

I've actually heard that a lot of guys like that. But it's def not a spur of the moment thing to do during sex. I'm sure he has to hint at it. DONT TEST THE WATERS. Lol

i'm not 100% sure myself, I suppose its 1 of thoes things I'd be willing to try once, and either it'd be nice or it'd suck.

You have really answered your own question and are obviously a bright girl.

You can divide men into two groups. Those that think the anus is for one purpose only and any interest signals a homosexual. Then there are those that actually enjoy the sensation of having something inserted gently into their anus. I do not know the percentages but I have heard that some 40% of men are interested in this sort of thing either receiving or giving. It has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality so no worries there.

Some men, leading on from anal play, enjoy having enemas. They like the feeling of the rubber tube in their anus and the flow of warm water in their colon. They also like the feeling of cramp that will occur when full and the fading away of the discomfort when they relax. In these men, an enema will prompt an erection and if the tube is gently stroked in and out a little bit, an orgasm can result. This orgasm is in the anal canal and not caused by the prostate. As far as the prostate is concerned, it can lead to an orgasm if it is massaged by the proper device.

Women, too can enjoy the same procedures but without a prostate their pleasure can come from their G Spot which is located as a small area inside the vagina and to the front and which can be stimulated through the rectum. They can also enjoy anal orgasms via enemas or other means.

There are many web sites that answer questions on the sexual sensitivity of the anus but there are also opinions and information given by people who have done no research and have just jumped to conclusions as to the statistics of the subject. My impression is that there are no reliable figures on who likes what as the subject has been taboo for so long and medical researchers have tended to turn their backs on such matters for fear of being unprofessional. It is quite clear, however, that doctors recognise that pleasant sensations can be experienced during anal/rectal examination and that is why, if they digitally examine the prostate, anus or rectum, they make sure that they do it very roughly in order to ensure as much pain as possible. The same applies to vaginal examinations. It is hard to understand this brand of cruelty as body massage is supposed to be pleasant and relaxing so why cannot a medical examination in the anus, rectum or vagina be allowed to cause a fleeting moment of pleasure in some recipients while the doctor carries out his/her professional duty.

I once asked a doctor his opinion on colonic irrigation and he said that people have colonics because they enjoy them. He then said with a shrug that there was nothing wrong with this if it is enjoyed, then enjoy it.

NO WAY

I'm a teenager so I of course jack off a lot and I tried it and it made my orgasm great! It is actually pretty awesome.. If some of these guys would try it maybe they would like it!

yes its cool, its all nerve endings.

Yes we like it and it is a different type of orgasim, its a good one but I don't know if it is the best one. And guys I am straight and you really can't knock it till you try it!

yes love it! and with some lube

I love it and want it. I think a lot of guys would or do enjoy it but they're to embarased or homophobic to admit it.

I haven't tried yet but I'm curious. Who knows?

Yes I like it sometimes about an hour into her having about 5 orgasms and I am totally heightened from her pleasure I like it usually pushing towards my prostate while she on top but learning how to do this yes depends on communication and the will of the man to not fear of this act as homosexual! it's called relationship not relation SHIT. So I can also obtain a different orgasm usually from this act and carry on several body gasm's for up to 15 mins or better just like a woman which makes for closer and deeper love between the two performing the act.
But woman also love to be fingered in the ass as much if the man knows his partners likes with it.(communication is key) so play with the idea with him! make the suggestion or just try it, we also like plenty of lube as the woman.

Sure ...try it ... assplay is a great way for each partner to empathize with the other's sensations.

I am a virgin there however, with the right woman and the right time, I may experiment!

Love it, love it, love it! I keep my balls and ass hole shaved, and stay clean. So I guess it is a natural invitation. I have had some wonderful sensual woman lick, suck and finger f*** my ass hole to make me come so hard I saw stars. Love tongue in there as she jacks d***...or a finger in there as she sucks me off. What a cum! Of course, you just shove a finger in with no warning. Take it slow. Like one woman said below, tongue his balls, and go a bit lower. Then a bit lower. Let him say yes or no. Although my tongue and fingers are always up my girl friend's asshole way more than she is up mine, I still love it every time we get around to it. Guys -- SHAVE YOUR DAM PRIVATES. We expect women to keep it clean down there. Why not us too? (U need a litle baby powder to help balls slide around -- no one needs bat wing. But that just adds to the clean feeling.) It has helped my sex life a lot!

You're getting your advice on men from a women's magazine. That spells trouble. Get it from the source. Most men don't like it. I don't like it.

A finger is all we can ask for? What if we wanted something more... they make toys specially designed for this, after all... ;)

man if this is really a frequent practice then...man...i don't even know. I can't get that at all. thas gay I mean that's what gay guys do. I just can't believe this... to answer your question NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAY IN THE DEEPEST, DARKEST DUNGEON OF HELL WILL I SUBJECT MYSELF TO THAT!

yes please. I've tried it. feels good, my girlfriend likes the excess come on her too.

it can be pleasurable, but at the same time emasculating... I know I like the feeling but I would never let anyone go there.

hi
i love my bumhole being played with and I think most guys do,but only as they get a bit older, I think young guys are worried that they might be gay if they have there ass touched, but I love it
dan x

i can't understand ur question?

im straight and I started playing with my ass as a young teenager...wen I was younger I f***ed myself with a pool torpedo. now I just keep it small and simple though, and my old girlfriend used to like it wen I would sit on her face and rub my crack and hole all over it...but I don't know about everyone

I have written to you about this before and wanted to give you an answer away from the homophobia, that exists here and elswhere regarding anal sex play, ie licking, fingering, etc. I wanted to send you a private message on your profile but see that you are anonymous and I cannot write to you.

If you feel motivated, please write me a "message' to my email address, and I will try to answer you in a straightforward way without all of the backlash from the homophobs that have replied to you here...and have given me some "feedback"

"'Thats the kind of everything goes view that's gonna lead to a future full of trannies!" - 25 minutes ago

Much of the advice you got here is based on nothing but "editorial, uninformed opinion"

This is not Greece in the third century before Christ...

The girls I have known and loved and enjoyed have really loved a tongue in THEIR rectum as well as their other orifices...Some liked it as much as on their clitoris.

not my cup of tea

girls, don't listen to any of these homophobic dudes on here that don't know what they are talking about. any guy that knows his body and is comfortable with his sexuality loves this move. most guys actually masturbate that way!

try this move on your guy... reverse cowgirl, and then stick a finger in in time to your rocking... but only if you want it to be over real quick! LOL

enjoy!

no, no chance, I would not want to try that. I would not want to stick anything up her ass, only vaginal, so I wouldn't want anything up mine. any form of anal sex is just not for me.

SO... a girl having her finger... in a place where the sun don't shine... my body...
yeah I am going to have to say that's not a great plan.
I wouldn't mind her feeling it on the outside in fact I would probably enjoy it but no not going near the inside.

I wouldn't want a girl to do that, but don't doubt cosmo, I've read it a few times and everything I've read from it has been 100% accurate.

BTW, I'm impressed that you were willing to openly say you like butt sex. I think most people would be way too chicken.

f*** no! that's my butthole you talking about! that's sick(in a bad way)

I would rather her suck my frigging nipples & ain't no way that would ever happen, not in this lifetime anyway

the bumhole is for outgoings only!

the only way I would ever allow ANYTHING up my ass would be if my girlfriend begged me.
I ain't a f*kin homo, I don't want stuff up my ass, I'm straight I want to be in a p****! or girls ass.

I'll choose 'ick' as my answer, lol - honestly we never tried it and I'm not prone to the idea unless she asked, in such cases why not give it a shot?

N
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It's not something I want, but then again, I would not know until I've tried that now would I?

uh no.

never tried it, but the thought is just...weird

I might try it if she really wanted it, but she'd have to try something that I really want to do

i have to say I really enjoy it!

What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander...If he doesn't want his Girlfriend putting her finger up his butt, I'm guessing he thinks it's homosexual or something...Good God, I bet most guys are interested in your butt though ?

That's retarded advice.

I'd smack a bitch if she puts anything in my ass.

hell de hell yeah!
I f***ing LOVE when a girl puts a few fingers in my ass when sucking me off, its the best orgasm ever!
Id like to have a girl f*** me with a strapon too.. but strapons are quite expensive :(

when I was younger I didn't want a girl going near my butt, but then I asked if I could do anal with this one I had been dating for a year and a half and she said no unless I can do it to you. So I asked a couple more times and thought about it. Then the next time I asked her I said sure. She went crazy and started to look for something to stick up there. I felt sick to my stomache but turned on at the same time. Then she came out with a toothbrush and some kind of lub really wasn't lub but it worked as a save alternative. And she said lay down and we did it. I enjoyed it. It worked out in 69, the shower, oral, sex when I am on top, and finally it lead up to some role play but that was awesome. We've broken up since then but god damn I need to find another girl like that. Most guys opened mind of sex we say just a finger.

If you ask me I am gonna say know. But, no pun intended, if a girl tried it I suppose I might like it. I think we would have to have had sex for a while and be in a good relationship. It would freak me out a little to be honest. I mean being penetrated in the vagina by something Is hardwired into the female brain as something they desire, at least from certain guys, so its not that different to get a penis in the mouth or the butt I suppose, some girls don't like those but quite a few do. Guys have not association of getting penetrated being natural or pleasurable in any way. We want to stick our thing in things, because it feels lonely and tired of holding itself up I suppose.

lmao...
HELL NOOO...

there are always gonna be people who like weird sh*t, but not I said the rooster...

WTF... ahhh? NEEVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVV! scetchbag

Cosmo? You might as well take sex tips from Hilary Rodham Clinton

Don't touch me there!

WTF kinda guys do you date? Bunch of homos if you ask me.

Its all good and fun in a good relationship :)

its fun,its hardcore turn-on for me! unexplainable experience

Inserting the finger up and to the front of the guys body you will reach a walnut shaped impression inside. That is the prostate and you can massage you to make a guy have an orgasm 400% the amount even a woman experiences lol. It feels weird, but it's REALLY enjoyable.

I would absolutely love it but have yet to find a girl who is comfortable with that area. It is difficult enough finding a girl who will let me play with their butts (fingering and licking) but almost impossible to find a girl who will do anything to me in that area.

I have had a few women do it without asking and I have to admit it was enjoyable. Just a finger. I wouldn't want it all the time though. Its an enjoyable and different experience, but I wouldn't say it feels better then a BJ. It supplements a sexual experience nicely from time to time.

I even had a girlfriend buy me an aneros prostate toy, because I've never had direct prostate stimulation. It's still sitting in its package a year and a half later.

I think most men are weary of it for multiple reasons. The first is that its penetrative, something that is culturally unmasculine. The second is the obvious homosexual tendencies fear.

I also don't have too many long term relationships and I have an unreasonable fear that a women that I break up with might go around telling everyone I like it in the bum. :-) Silly, I know-but it is a fear.

Yes, but cut your nails first or use a rubber glove or finger condom. Those nails are sharp, and they don't feel good there, if you know what I mean.

Anything to do with the anus is gross, and a complete turn off for me.

If anythings going up my butt, it will be for a prostate exam, and I'm hoping I never have to take that damn thing.

Guys are better equipped indeed: link
Wikipedia: link

Think about the taint if the anus idea is too gross.

Nope, because its unheard of for a guy to do that

Well, but...

One of my weirdest experiences was with a Nurse when I was 19, I enlisted in the Army...This lady was a red HOT MILF... And when she gave me my rectal exam, I accidentally "popped" - I didn't even know that could happen!

In any case, I was extremely embarrassed. And she was nice enough to explain that she had examined my prostate gland, and that this was a "normal" reaction for young men "that had not had a sexual experience in some time", (which was true!). Since I was "in", I hadn't.

She was very professional about it, and she said I shouldn't worry about it... but if you wanna know the real truth, I've been waiting for a woman to touch me like this again. It was AWESOME!

it's called milking the prostate...not exactly like milking cows...lol

I'd like to be the guy who doesn't squirm at such things, and girls who are into it should finger to their heart's content.

NEVER

I don't want anything going near my ass

I hate having a prostate exam done on me. I can't imagine it feeling any different than for you to put a surgical glove on and stick your finger up my ass. So, my answer is, NO.

Not a finger or my baby licking it but I love anal toys

ehh that's a hard one.. never had anything near my butthole and the thought of it freaks the crap outta me (no pun intended) I know a few guys that have and enjoyed it very much. But as for me I probably wouldn't take my chances..

Hmm never heard of that one before and I probably wouldn't do it if he asked!

My boyfriend has asked me to do that so I put a condom on 2 fingers, put lube on them and fingered him, and he likes it,hes told me he's even put stuff up there himself before.

LOL that's just weird. but if youve been with a guy long enuff, youd be surprised with what kind of things they wanna try to spice things up

Men aren't supposed to be penetrated, that's gross. ):

I love how a lot of guys pull the "homo" card. If getting a finger up your butt is homo, so is sticking it in a butt. Just my opinion.On to my answer!

My boyfriend likes it occassionally. I'll admit, the first time I had to get him a little drunk. I made sure I had no nails to speak of and plenty of lube. Whether it was emasculating to him or not, I don't know, but I know I got a kinky sense of accomplishment when I gave him a prostate only orgasm. I felt a little dominating, and it kind of felt good :) We don't make it an every day practice, but every now and again when we're feeling kinky, we do.

lol funny.

it took me foooorrrevvverr to get my boyfriend to let me explore his unkown lol. till one day I just was sucking his balls while jackin him off and went lower and lower hehe and finally I got permission and he loved me licking it, I tried to finger it real gently and slowly but he didn't like it as much, I wish he'd let me play with it more! it makes me so mad how guys have to tell each other its gay, if my boyfriend would let me milk him id have an orgasm just hearin him moan. Period.

There is a g spot up a guys butt..! COURSE THEY WANT IT!.. some do anyway.. no-one I know personally but some do..

one thing to say. if a guy likes his butt hole being played with at any point he mine as well be gay!.

My ex let me try it after I asked him for months to let me finger him. It was just the once, he didn't seem to like it, and he never let me again (though I did try!). We have hooked up since we've broken up (over a long weekend), and he admitted that he really liked it when I did it months back, and asked me to do it again. This time, he was so much more receptive and went absolutely wild when my finger was up there, especially when I did it while giving him head.

And ps, I'm so sick of guys being homophobic about anal play. Yes, I know you aren't gay. I just was unaware that having a finger up your a** made you gay.

loool I was wondering the same thing as you, I have heard stories how guys like it etc, and whenever I have sex with my boyfriend I think of it, you he's on top and I satart thinking I could make my finger travel its way down there and see what happens, but I'm soooo afraid of that what happens next that I've never tried it!:PPP and I guess I shouldn't by the guys" answers!:P

I am answering on my wife's account. There is nothing homosexual about experimenting in the bedroom. I haven't had the opportunity to receive any anal as my wife's nails are very long. I'd say yes to her doing oral or using her fingers in that area if she was comfortable with it. The only part I'd find uncomfortable is that I have a hairy crack and it's hard to shave and also I'd want to make sure the area is very clean beforehand.

guys love it! trust me that's where there "g-spot" is located (: my boyfriend loves when I finger it with a little lube during sex, and when I lick it (I know sounds gross but its not) he moans and loves it, so yes they like it. TRY IT !

I don't think my boyfriend would find that arousing at all .

i would not like to stick my finger up a guys ass. Just, no.

I've done it to a number of guys and I can honestly say I've not had one yet that hasn't enjoyed the experience. I had one guy, bless him, ask me if he was gay afterward because really enjoyed but had never had it done before. Personally I find it a massive turn on to do it, but I generally combine either with a hand job or oral first just to ease them into it. Usually once they've gotten over that whole mental block and realized how enjoyable it is there's no going back!

The trick is go easy, plenty of lube and don't usually go any further than your knuckle. If they want extra fingers they'll ask.

My husband likes it, and I like to please him. I see nothing wrong with it and 9/10 of my guy friends will tel me they want their ass to be played with or have and liked it.

I asked my guy about this cause I thought it would be something new and fun for him and he totally flipped out, he's like if you evern go near it were done!