Does it make me shallow if...

4 some reason I get turned on when a girl can take on a larger guy even though I'm not large I'm maybe below average.

i think its healthy and natural to want a larger man down there. I can understand why you would break up with a smaller guy because some guys are really small. but I wouldn't limit yourself to just bigger men. because some smaller guys like 2 watch their girls with bigger men.

its no diff from guys they want a super tight p**** but its not something they think about often its just the luck of the draw.

Absolutely. And this is coming from a guy that is "not small".

Not really, it just means you like them big...

I think that having a preference for certain physical traits can be shallow in some situations.

first, if it's a deal breaker, top of the list quality in a person. that's shallow. "i only date well-hung guys" is exactly as shallow as "i only date blonde girls with big boobs."

second, if the preference is more important than their personality and other factors, that's shallow too. certain traits in women tend to catch my eye -- but it'd be shallow if I said, "she seems like a fun person ... but I never date redheads."

No. What would make you shallow is treating all the other guys as though they were inferior. But you don't do that do you?

I believe it makes you deep, literally.

Well, I'm a 'boob man' since I love big boobs. Why can't you like big d***s? In the end though it was her personality, her spirit that has attracted me to her.

oh if only you could have watched live at gotham last night... one of the comics spoke just of this very "condition." haha

Nope.

no not at all. we all have our own likes and dislikes. find your self a boyfriend with a big one :]

I would like to clarify something here - how small is "small"?

it seems you should answer the question for yourself. Are you looking for a meaningful relationship at the moment, or do you enjoy the time with your "partner" more than a relationship?

There are several factors to consider:
1) Relationships require a lot of work, while a FWB is "on-call" and requires no maintenance.
2) The feeling of satisfaction, do you feel fulfilled doing what you are doing?
3) Have you considered the potential for STDs and HIVs? Are you trying to prevent them?
- The list only continues

What makes you truly happy, just like what makes you feel fulfilled, varies from person to person. You need to identify your own values. Some people will see this as being shallow, others will accept you for being who you are, and then there are people that will appreciate your free spirit.


Best regards,
ArtistBBoy

I'm a hobo with a monster c0ck, do you love me?

Let's find out how shallow you are. If you met an awesome guy. He has everything you can possible want in a guy. Good looking, a stable career, he knows what he wants and where he is going in his life, exciting and when you're with him there is never a dull moment... but when you have sex with him he has an average d!$k... Would you leave him for not packing a big one?

Yeah...its the personality and how attracted you are to them that truly counts. Your not completely shallow, you probably just enjoy being destroyed. hah

trust me girl you're not the only one

no and yes. if you get a smaller guy and tell him we need to break up then yeah you are shallow

No, of course not...its not shallow to favor a particular physical characteristic in a man...

i agree with professor zoom and xenophobia
but most girls would probably rather have a guy with a bigger one than small
i know I would
but if you meet a fantastic guy but he has a small one and you don't date him for that reason then yeah your shallow but if you can look past it then you are not