Ok, so am really curious. Would a guy have sex with a fat girl? Am not saying that it's a bad thing or anything but just because guys like coke bottle shape girls. Is there something wrong with a girl being fat, I mean she is a human being, right? Maybe this is why fat girls are really insecure with their bodies. All am saying is can you make a fat girl really sexy in bed? Can you make her feel like you would to any skinny girls? What part of the body do you like in a fat girl (men only question)? Would a guy see a fat girl naked, literally, especially in bright light?
Basically, can you love a fat girl just like you would with a skinny girl? And can you have sex with her and make her feel good in bed just like you would with a skinny woman?
Now,girls is it ok to have sex with man even if your fat. What are you thoughts on that. Even if he says he loves you for who you are. I mean I just want to know.
For me minus the whole sex part, I do not really find skin and bones all that attractive I like average to above average, few extra lbs, or better yet thick and curvy, but if you are with someone they shouldn't try to make you feel uncomfortable or disgusted about yourself especially if they love you and vice versa, after all the physically is only initially and does fade I mean sure an attraction between two people is nice but personality is what can make a woman more attractive to me, if two people mesh and like each other I would like to think everything else can be thrown out the window.
Lets face it the world is full of superficial people hung up on looks and physical appearance among other things, I think I have meet all the ones that are girls....lol
It is a very shallow person who couldn't see someone for who they are and not what they are. A person's soul is where their beauty is.
I'm not sure the point of the question. If you are above your ideal height to weight ratio then are you questioning yourself in which case you have low self esteem. If you are right on or below then...?
This is a very sensitive question as it can make people look mean and unpleasant. I will not deny that overweight women(and I mean BIG) are much less desirable, but obesity can be overcome. I have had sex with a really big woman once, and well, it wasn't very good. But she was very happy with me, which made my day as I enjoy giving happiness to others. The bad news is that once she was on top, it was over! She crushed me like a grape! HAHA
There is an old saying: "Better Dead Than Fat". Most overweight people know they are fat and despise looking at themselves everyday. Our culture has no room for fat people anymore than it tolerates ugliness or short men. Unfortunately, people just do not look past the physical and what makes the person on the inside. Big people want to improve themselves all the time and have the desire to do so. But it takes effort and time.
"Now,girls is it ok to have sex with man even if your fat" What a despicable question why shouldn't it be ok. One of the sexiest girls I ever knew was overweight. She just exuded sex appeal far more than some skinny girls I've known
I know that. That's why I have to know. I've known men that are shallow so I was curious. I never said you can't have a man if your fat. I wanted to know more about it because people are hurting about this and I was wondering why. - 4 months ago
Poor poor sarafina. You have some serious self esteem issues. Don't you know that beauty is all how you perceive it. A lot of men won't find a woman attractive that is totally insecure in herself. I know a number of overweight women that love who they are and the way they look, and that just makes them appear sexier. But on a personal note. My wife is overweight. And she is completely beautiful to me.
Be proud of how you look and who you are. And if the man you are with can't appreciate you for that. Then he is a cretin and doesn't deserve you anyway.
I had an opportunity to have sex with a fat girl once and took it. Curiosity more than anything else drove me to do it because I really don't find fat attractive. However, I'm also a believer in the saying that you must try everything once.
Anyway. It wasn't a great experience. Perhaps my mental disposition towards fat had a lot to do with it. And it was very uncomfortable for me. Her on top was a no-no. Way too much weight pressing down on me. Her on bottom wasn't much better as I couldn't get much penetration. From behind was just way too. Eewwww. All those blips and bumps and valleys. There was fat everywhere. I tried closing my eyes and doing the fantasy thing but wherever I put my hands, all I could feel was fat. Eventually I had to give it up. There was no way this girl was going to make me cum. I was waaayy too turned off.
There are guys out there who are into this fatty thing and love to have sex with an obese woman. I just know it ain't me. You can keep the details of that story to yourself.
My boyfriend always tells me I'm beautiful, that he loves my body and he wouldn't change a thing about me. I don't agree most of the time. I hate my body and feel as if he could do so much better than me. I'm trying to change my view of myself because I've never had a positive image of myself. I can't really see myself being naked with him because of how much I hate my body, but I'm trying to change. I love him and he loves me for me, so I guess I should love myself for who I am. I'll try, but it's going to be hard.
Well, I'm on the lower side of my healthy weight zone however if I were over weight you can bet I'd still be having sex with my significant other because that is perfectly acceptable.
You need to remember that everyone likes different things, like you might like a color that I don't like, or a song that I don't like, it's the same way with people. I personally am more attracted to skinny guys, my significant other is attracted to skinny girls. Works out great for us, however his best friend is more attracted to heavy set women, and my brother is more attracted to heavy set women. My best friend adores boys that are bigger, as well. It depends on the person and what they like. And of course it's possible for a heavy girl to feel sexy in bed, why shouldn't she? Beauty is not one size and shape. Imagine if it were, we'd all be bored out of our minds by now.
I think this question is very mean, you talk like people who are overweight are less then human. As if they don't have enough issues with their own thoughts of insecurity running through their heads now you've implanted your thought like "is it ok to have sex even if you are fat" OMG I can't believe you said that it shocks and appalls me to the core how f***ing insensitive you are. Wow the stupidity of this question amazes me. I know some people are so stuck on having the perfect body, the perfect hair, the perfect everything, but the rest of us, the real people in the world, realize love should not be just for the perfect people in this world. Don't you know anyone who is not perfect personally. Would you expect them to not have sex or love in their lives because they were not your idea of perfect. How cruel is that, these are real people your talking about not some substandard race of mutants.
Of first of all. You MISUNDERSTAND the whole point of this question. There is a reason why I ask this question. I have a large body ok, and I wanted to know why guys always do this. They always talk about how disgusting it was, or how unattractive it was and all of the above questions. I know exactly how big people feel. You have no right to tell me that am not sensitive because you are wrong. I have to be very specific of what I wanted to know, this questions was not suppose to hurt someone. - 4 months ago
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Then you need to learn how the write your story so everyone understands, we can only go on the information you give us, and what you gave us, made not only me, think you were bashing everyone who was overweight. Asking if "it was ok to even have sex" if you were fat made me think you were some skinny twit who was just looking for people to agree that fat people were a substandard race of humans. Sorry if my comments hurt you feelings, that was not my intent I just wanted to bash the basher - 4 months ago
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It's ok, I know you meant that in a good way. Sorry for not being cleared. but it's so hard to lose weight and that's where am heading. Any tips on losing weight and eating healthy? - 4 months ago
I would recommend starting with reasonable goals - don't think in the long term, don't say "I'll lose ___ pounds in a year. " start with "I'm going to try and lose one or two ponds this week. ". Goals like that are easier to reach and they keep your confidence up, whereas doing things the other way, you may think, "wow, I'm no where near where I want to be. " and feel discouraged. Ask yourself why do you want to lose the weight, remind yourself of that whenever you feel tempted to binge. - 4 months ago
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Thanks. i'll think that way from now on. - 4 months ago
When I say fat I don't mean as in huge, just a little extra weight or just very curvy. My question is that why do most guys prefer a slim, petite girl...
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