Bi or gay... or still straight?

I, personally, think it's ok for a guy to try things *and* be gay, but to answer your question, I think it's fine. It's just part of exploring who you are. If you're curious if you'd like it and you're actually comfortable enough with who you are to try it, BRAVO. This doesn't even make you bi - if you like it, you might decide you're bi. Or it might fall under the heading of not-terrible-but-not-for-me. Or it could freak you out and make you go *squik*, in which case you're not even bi.

I've never actually done anything, but mostly because I've not met a girl that I'm attracted enough to to try. There was this girl, back in high school, but I thought she was 100% straight and didn't want to screw up our friendship (and I think she thought the same thing - she's now pretty much 100% lesbian). Now, we're at different points in our lives, but if I felt that way about someone else, I'd be cool with it.

I prefer to think that I like the people I like and don't discriminate - I'm not attracted to you because you're male or female, but because you are who you are.

I think I rambled on a lot past your original question, but I'm not 100% sure if you were talking about just the physical or anything beyond that. And I get talkative, so I just covered everything. :)

I think a guy should first look to his future and decide if he wants a wife and a family, if he wants a boyfriend, or if he wants to be single. I'm talking 10-20 years in the future.

If his answer is wife and kids, then why even try anything? Why hurt your future wife before you even meet her?

If your answer is a boyfriend or single, which it sounds like it isn't, then go ahead. I personally think it is a poor and immoral choice to make, but I won't try to force my opinions.

I had a very good friend try things and he now has a girlfriend who he has been with for about 2 years. He tells me he regrets everything he did so much. But everyone is different!

I don't agree. If you are attracted to the same sex then you are bi-sexual.

Yeah, in my opinion it is. You're curious. Big deal. You're trying things.

Many straight guys have been curious.
If you try anything once, no problem. But if you go back for it a 2nd time, you are probably bi-sexual.

If you honestly like both sexes, then you are considered Bi.

Reveal to any straight guy that you're "open to relations" then you are gay.

Girls may accept you for a Bi male, but straight guys will consider you gay and Gay males won't care.

This depends on what you are trying. Kissing another man is gay. Receiving a penis in your ass in a one on one environment is gay. Just about anything one on one would likely mean your gay, If so called 'gay' activities happen during a threesome or group sex activity then not necessarily. I am not gay or even curious, but if my wife was interested in trying things with me I would do it.

Yes. It's also okay to BE bisexual or gay, if that's who you are. But to answer your question directly, many straight guys have experimented. Again, be safe about it.

You're bi-curious, just like Butters from South Park LOL!

Most people do. Just be safe about it.

I believe it is. Some people have thoughts of bi-curiosity, some don't. Some act out on those thoughts, some don't. I knew a guy that occasionally sought out sex with other men, because he liked the act of sex, but he was only attracted to women in a way that could lead into true and lasting love. Kind of weird to think about, but with men, it was all about sex and nothing more.