Ahahahaha. I'm now at about 20 to 0 with my boyfriend. Not because he doesn't want to return the favor. I'm just not there yet somehow. Different people are different and ready for different things at different moments. As long as imbalances aren't because one person is lazy or doesn't care to return the favor, I don't think it matters that much. I've always found receiving much more intimate and nerve-wracking somehow and though I will get there with my guy, I'm not ready yet. So it is a little hard to answer your question. It isn't something I'd let a guy do on a first hook up. But assuming I was ready to accept, I would wonder why he wasn't interested in having me return the favor and would want to re-assess the situation verbally. That said, if he just wasn't ready to receive and I was, well I guess it would be okay.
That's weird because it should be giving and giving back instead of just giving and getting nothing in return. To me I would feel used if that happened to me.
Why would you feel used if he wanted YOU to get off, but didn't want to get off himself? - 4 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
I would think that something was wrong with me yeah I'd appreciate that you got me to orgasm but I'd want to return the favor and it would be a little upsetting to not be able to give back
Well, the first time my boyfriend and I hooked up, he did that. It was a bit weird, I couldn't figure it out. I thought for awhile that it was something wrong with me, like did he think that I was incapable of getting him off or was he just not enjoying what I was doing.
I would automatically be ready to please you so if you said no it would make me feel like what's wrong? What does my pussy taste bad or something. Wtf. Seriously I would end up asking why and if you didn't have a good reason ( maybe. I'm a virgin) then I would probably feel very awkward. Why wouldn't you want to anyway, just out of curiosity. Because once my husband starts eating me out I usually am wanting to f*** him within 5-10 minutes.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First the guy would come and pick me up at my house. He would have flowers. Then we would go out and eat chinese food because he knows that it is my favorite. Then we would go and see a movie. During the movie he would ASK to hold my hand. We would go for ice cream afterwards. When he takes me home he kisses me gently on my porch, after he walks me to the door, and calls when he makes it home.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He would know that I was a shy but sweet girl. He would know that I really liked him if I was out on a date with him. He would know that I believed in love. He would know that I was funny and fun to hang out with. He would know that I was sensitive. He would know that I was unique. He would know that I respected him if he respected me. And he would know not to break my heart. <3
Have you ever wondered why that girl was playing hard to get? Moral conflicts? Always a safe guess. A little go-naked shame? Happens to the best of us. Innocence, perhaps? Unusual, but possible. What...
Disclaimer: First off, before anyone says, I don't want to hear a sermon; I'm not going to bring up religion in anyway. I'm not a preacher and your religious beliefs are yours to choose. Second, I'm...
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
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