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Just sex or something more??? (angry dude)

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XoconfusedoX (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I have a boyfriend, but I'm breaking up with him and I'm not in love with him. I have been recently interested in this other guy who says that he wants to date me but always asks if we can have sex. He seems to get pissed at the fact that I am in a relationship even though my boyfriend lives 400 miles away. What I don't understand is that how can you be comfortable with having sex, but not about dating. So I don't really know if he wants to or not and he seems to get upset when I ask him what's up. I told him that I don't think he wants to date me and he flipped out about how I need to chill out and go with the flow, then he said "u have a boyfriend so w/e I don't even care". Help :(

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archer86 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
First of all, you must decide what you want. Do you want to have sex with new guy? Do you want more than just sex? Once you decide what you want to do, then your course of action will be much easier to follow thru with.

This new guy seems to come off wrong. Sure he wants sex and has made this clear to you: + for him. But he is blatantly angry that he is not having sex with you and continues to try and sway you into dong this. -2 for him. He must be young and foolish boy. Once a woman says no, that's it. Even God himself cannot change a woman's mind...unless a man offers a LOT of $$$ and even THAT is no guarantee.

My suggestion is to break contact with the new guy and find someone more mature and even tempered, but mature in mind and heart, not necessarily in age. I applaud your decision in dating even after these breakups and drama scenes, do not get frustrated that you have met up with 2 failed boyfriends. It is impossible to tell you that men will not look at you with lustful desires, I would be struck by lightning for lying so badly! Nor would I ever convince a woman to not put out. But there are plenty of nice guys out there for you who can and will treat you better than this.

Hope my wisdom has been helpful.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
He doesn't want to have a relationship. He just wants to hit. If you have sex with him, don't expect much out of him because he's pretty much letting you know how he feels.
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Leticia (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Just sex. Why would a guy keep pestering you for sex if he really loves/likes you?

If you don't like your boyfriend anymore, then break up with him.

Think if you want to jump into bed with this other guy with a clear head before you do something you might regret in the future.
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