Rushing to have sex

They are not necessarily rushing. Some of them just want to do it because that's what they want. And others just want to keep up with their friends.

Peer pressure mostly and plus it's marketed in pop culture as something "cool" and "standard".

Thats what I wanna know...virginity is a special thing to me and I want the one I LOVE and not the one I LIKE to be my first....but it might be peer pressure or fear that the other might not like them or think of them differently...idk...message me and we can talk more n depth about it if you want.

It's because they are teaching the kids that's its ok to do it if you wear protection or are on birth control, they don't teach that you shouldn't do it, and you could also blame a lot of it on TV, not that TV is bad but it pretty much says its ok and that everyone should be doing it, depending on the show you let your kids watch.

Because in my opinion they feel that they have to and the peer pressures of today are just too much and people also want to feel what it is like to have something inside of you or being inside of someone else you understand me ??

Besides they want to feel cool and maybe always have a mate and never be alone and all that.

Everyone pressures you NOT to do it. Your parents, teachers, rules of the society and all. So you get more curious. Then you also hear from others how it was and that it felt good and whatever else. Then, there is also the peer pressure. You feel left out if your friends had done it while you are still a virgin. Last but definitely not the least, it feels amazing with the right person.

Monkey see, monkey do. Everyone is just trying to be like eachother. They are just immature and trying to be grown and I honestly can't respect anyone like that. Me being a teenager myself find it very amusing and interesting that people will do anything to fit in. I don't follow the crowd, or the hype. I do my own thing. I hate it when girls give it up, then regret it, then fall into your lap crying after you've told them millions of times that they're not ready.

They don't it's just a lot of young people now a days feel they are ready for sex that's not to say a lot do just rush in for the sake of doing it

Curiosity, mainly, and of course, they hear it all the time and want to fit in , peer pressure, TV, and just life itself. You see sex everywhere so it's kind of hard to not want to do it right away.

I've not had sex yet. I'm waiting. I know...it's really depressing when 14 and 15 year olds are talking about 'getting slammed' by a guy at a party. But remember: there are those of us out there with enough self respect to wait.
And it's going to be worth the wait.

I am not rushing, I am still a virgin and waiting for the right guy.

Curiosity is the biggest. The other is probably peer pressure.

Because sex is everywhere. Plus, when you're young, an easy and enjoyable way to rebel is to have sex. I wish people would wait...!

Why is everyone jumping into bed? It's because of too much sex on tv, billboards, magazines, clothes. Sex is everywhere. Sex sells everything, even kids' toys. Do you really think a 4 year old cares if Barbie has double D's.

Now if you are wondering when to have sex, no one can really tell you that. But if I were you I'd hold of as long as I could. Just because everyone else is doing something does not mean you have to. Be a kid, have fun and enjoy it.

Curiosity