If she freaked out (like panic attack honestly freak out) and asked you to stop before the actually act would you be mad? Would you break it off? How would you handle it?
I'd probably laugh my head off! Hahahaha. I would be patient with her but only to an extent. If it never leads to any sex at all, I would break it off after say, oh, two months or so. The good news is that at my age, no virgins will be found so I won't have to worry. But if this were to happen back in my youth, I probably would have laughed hard and long on it. Thankfully, I am more even tempered and level headed in addition to being sober so I would calmly walk away.
Morally and legally, no means no whenever she decides to say it and you should follow her wishes.
I can also understand that you would be angry if that happened but you need to manage that emotion. Hopefully you just walked away from the situation.
I guess you're left with a choice now; either carry on with the relationship or move on. I think you will appear pretty shallow if you walk away because she said no but that is your right in this too.
It is easy for you but to a girl/woman it's harder, Do you mean virgin? If so. It's going to be her first it will hurt and you need to think about this, to her it might be a big deal you're her first! For men it's like sticking you're dick in apple pie. See the difference lol Talk to her tell her she doesn't have to do this until she feels ready!
Well stay calm 1 the first time is always scary 2 she has every right to cut it off before it happens I mean it is "her" virginity 3 sometimes people think their ready but when it comes time for it they find out their not ready if she is around your age then yea your both still young so it is a totally new thing for her so don't bug her about it ask her if she wants to talk about it if not its fine forget it and maybe you'll get lucky next time but if she is willing to talk then be kind and understanding I hope I covered everything and helped good luck
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I think every first date needs to be different but I will generalize. I think starting off some where fun like events, parks, or beaches to chat and learn about one another. Then head to a coffee shop to warm up sitting next to the fire. Then head out to eat if we feel up to it. Ask if she would like to ride on my motorcycle. Stop some where romantic chat for away then drive her home.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I like the outdoors, I can chat about anything over a cup of coffee. She will learn about me and what I like to do and then she will learn how much I love riding my motorcycle.
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