My guy asked me to have a threesome with another woman and when I asked why he said because she could give me oral because he never does. Now I've never wanted a threesome, something about not liking to share and not playing well with others anyway. He said he'd like me to watch him f*** another woman. I told him I would not like that. He kept after me to consent to it, finally I got fed up and I asked him if he would like to see some other guy f***ing me and he said NO, NO not at all and NO. ( just to make things clear he said no)
So my real question here is why would he think it would be ok for him to have another woman but he is not comfortable with the thought of some other guy doing me. In my opinion it all would be cheating and I'm not interested in bringing someone else in, man or woman.
I think about a threesome with my wife and another girl a lot. Not so much the lesbo stuff but her watching me do another girl. I wonder if she would get aroused and involved. I also think about my wife having sex with a well hung man and I would love her to come really hard. I think that all these are healthy fantasies but I think also that's what they should be kept as. Too many what ifs. What if my wife fell in love with him, or what if I opened a side of my wife where she discovered she enjoys women more than men. So I share the fantasy with my wife and we both enjoy it and we both agree that wed never act on it.
He is a typical man who thinks his gender is better, more powerful, and smarter than women. If he thinks that you would be comfortable with that ( knowing how emotional women are) , and he wouldn't be okay with it if it was vice-versa, than I think you should dump him. He sounds really stupid to me and not worth your time, and you could do so much better than that.
Simply go out YOU pick the girl ''make sure she's a real ugly fat slob'' and say hunny f**k that! Lol But in all serious, say No Why should he get to play when you don't get a move in it? 3 ways only lead to a mess anyway, No fence he sounds like a prick but that's my opinion! Sit down and talk about it, don't just leep into this. It could make or break the two of you. But have a chat to him see both side's and if you are'nt happy show him the door ''lol kidding'' iff he wants to go threw with this a little threat doesn't hurt. '' time you wore the pants I think just for a little bit :)
And I would suggest you state to him: ''If you say NO no no to me having sex with another man how do you think it makes me feel to see you with another girl'' I also suggest add a little kink to the bedroom, Tease him make him want YOU. I think oral sex should be 50/50 you have to give a little to get a little!
have you ever? if so. give me details. how about being cheated on.?I've never cheated. I would just break up with the person. if I ever felt the need...
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me and my boyfriend of three years had a threesome with one of my friends I was my boyfriends first and I guess you can say she was his second. but it...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
An ideal 1st date to me would be a movie. If I like the guy I'm with I'll pick a scary movie so I have an excuse to move in closer. I would wear a hoodie and jeans because I don't wanna come on too strong, I like serious relationships. First I like to put out my true personality to see if they like me for me and not what I would do with them. It would end with a kiss on the cheek if I like him
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He will know that I'm no easy but if he spent time with me and got to know me I'm a real wild one, I'm pretty much up for anything if he's willing to commit. I'm not a doormat....
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 4 months ago
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 4 months ago
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