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Have you gotten attached?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
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Guys have you ever become attached to your friend with benefits? Explain

Is it possible for that to happen and for you to want that person to be yours only.

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Lollipop19
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Lollipop19 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Fu*k man we always do don't think that we just think with our dick we have a heart too ok maybe some guys are sex addict lol but the real guys get attached that mean they have good feeling that all
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Kenographer (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Yep, we plan on getting together. She just wants to make sure that I truly am the one that shell live forever with. We are not dating, we are just greatest of friends. to her, that's more then her best friends. I am emotionally and physically attracted to her, and I believe she is to me. I can't read her mind, so that is what I think.

It is possible, it sounds like you have slept with the person more then once. So, there's probably something there. Don't assume that he loves you though. I have seen a guy use his friend just for sex. He was single, just didn't want her. Just ask him the simple question, "Are you just using me, or do you truly care for me?" that is if you want to be more just friends.
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pearl1979 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I think that it is possible under any circumstance. Right now me and my guy friend are having sex but we are just friends. He is calling me a lot more than normal just to say hi or how I am doing. This has been going on for about three months.
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tammymac (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
I'm not a guy but I'm going to answer your question anyhow.

I think it's inevitable to have some sort of feelings for the person you are sleeping with on a regular or semi regular basis, unless you are a sociopath. Humans (men & women) want that contact, yes even the ones that don't want a relationship want that contact. I think it's a basic human need and when you find someone who gives you attention, weather it's with sex or what comes before or after the sex, you can become attached to the person. After all they are giving you something you want/need.

I do think most women get attached faster then most guys do.

If you are worried enough about getting attached to your FWB to post this question, chances are that you already have those feelings and are wondering if its possible for him to feel anything for you. Men are not without feelings, he has them he just might not know how to deal with them.
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Answerer Thank you for choosing mine as the best answer. I am astounded at how many people there are out there that are currently in, or have been in a FWB relationship. When I was doing it I though I was the only one, now I see how wrong my thinking was. Shocking! - 4 months ago

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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Awhile back I dated a guy I was FWB with. No surprise, he wasn't one to be tied down and so he cheated on me constantly, just because that was how he is.

But of course you can become attached. I became attached to him, he became attached to me. But as it turns out, it wasn't as much fun as just 'messing around
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