What do you think about a girl being a virgin?

Stay a virgin please! We need more of you.

Value your virginity. It is the one thing that you give away, and can never have back. It is a piece of your innocence. Maybe the final piece. Kids get so anxious to grow up and be an adult, but with sex comes a lot of responsibilities that most teens just aren't prepared for. There is no shame in being a virgin, and there is no harm in being a virgin. The right man with come, and then you may give yourself to him. But don't allow guys to pressure you into anything that you are not ready for. Be proud that you have kept yourself pure in such and impure world.

Good comment XPER1534 but with some huge flaws. How many teens do you think have gotten pregnant or contacted an STD because of having been involved with a multiple sexually active partner no matter how many precautions they've taken? A TON! How many men & women do you think consequently lie to their spouses before they get married? A TON! Good way to start out a marriage relationship. Yeah right! There are much better things to do for entertainment or instant gratification than having sex for fun disguised as love. Having sex was designed for love and marriage for mankind's benefit. I'm no preacher, but Jesus condemned fornication and adultery which is sex outside of marriage. If you wanna gamble with your soul, go ahead! Your choice! That's how you'll be judged.

Boys your age are dying to have a virgin for the thrill of being the one who broke a woman's cherry. Yet the contradiction is that if a girl is still a virgin, then she is impossible to gain anything from: sex. It is a no-win situation for American women. If you put out, you are a slut. If you remain "pure", you are a tease. What to do? Hmmm.

I have said this at least a million times in this website alone: virginity is overrated. Sex is a good thing, actually it's a great thing. But not so much a great thing to be saved for marriage be it when you turn 21 or 41. Saving this "prized possession" for only one person defies the logic of being able to love and trust someone enough but not when it comes to sex.

I didn't get laid until I was 19, simply because no girl in my school wanted me; had to find a girl out of town. When it happened, I was absolutely mad as hell for having to wait till 19 for such a wonderful thing. I felt lied to, cheated, and missed out on something wonderful in my youth. I denounced every religion after that and view "morals" about sex as ludicrous. Many here will obviously disagree with me as they normally do, but that's my view. Saving your virginity is illogical. But at your age for now, virginity might be best.

Very good question! I think the reason a lot of guys, (i wouldn't say most! ), seem to you to not want to be with a virgin is because they're only into it for sex and they don't want to feel guilty taking away your virginity for free. Like they have that inner feeling that they can just have sex with a girl that's more of a slut. So if you're not a slut, then be very proud of yourself because you're retained soo very much value that will mean soo much to the guy that really does love you and you love him. To the sluts, they envy you because they've lost one of their more priceless possession. Having sex for fun is cheap but it's very risky and can have ramifications that can last a lifetime. Just don't look up to those guys and girls that are having sex for fun because they have nothing better to do or think they have a right to sex just cause they call their guy their boyfriend or their girl their girlfriend. You have it over them so much. You are just awesome!

I'm 26, I'm not afraid to say I'm a virgin. I'm not waiting for anyone special or "the one". I could easily go out and pay for it but I don't. If the question ever comes up in the workplace or elsewhere, heads do turn but at the same time they give me the thumbs up because I stand tall and proud for believing that I don't need sex to keep on living. When will I have sex? I have no idea, I just know that I'm in no way obligated to do the deed just to satisfy everyone around me.

As for a girl like yourself being a virgin, don't worry about it. When you are ready, you'll know when it's time. Don't feel pressured by your peers just because they are doing it.

Mad respect, wait for him don't break for temptation.

I think it's "Cool", you are unique, you have something that all the girls who are having sex, Don't Have," Purity," you are a virgin, you have something special , that you can't get back once you give it away, You can honestly save yourself for the right guy. Your husband. You go girl, and kudos! You are NOT doing what everybody else is doing, having sex. You know, the guys who are getting sex from the girls who are giving it up, won't marry those girls because they are used up, they are not pure. When those fellas are ready to find a girl to call their own, they are gonna look for a virgin, and if a guy meets you, and finds out you are "PURE", you are gonna be the one he wants, he'll feel like he has struck gold, because virgins are hard to find, and don't let nobody pressure you to give it up, if a guy cares for you he will wait, a lot of these guys have sex because it's readily available, but there is gonna come a day, when they want a girl like you to settle down with and get serious with. Keep it up girl!

I think that you shouldn't worry about things like that because that means that all they want is sex and your virginity is something that once it's gone you can't never get it back and losing it just to get a boyfriend isn't something that you will be pleased about later on in life. Hold on to your innocence until YOU are ready to let it go.

Honey, it is never shameful to be a virgin if you just haven't found the person you want to give your virginity to. And ESPECIALLY at your age. You're sixteen years old, you shouldn't be worried that you're not attractive to guys if you haven't had sex. And if you have sex just to lose your virginity and get it over with, you will probably regret it. I saw it happen so many times in high school. The guys who don't want to be with a virgin are guys you don't want to be involved with anyway. They're only in it for the sex, not for the girl herself. There are definitely guys out there who respect and honor virginity.

I'm still a virgin and I'm proud of it. Don't have sex just because you feel like you should. Have sex when you feel that the time is right and you have the right partner to share it with.