Is it cheating to flirt or have on-line sex with someone, if you're in a relationship with someone else. I don't have a boyfriend, it was only a question. So is fantasizing cheating too, just like on-line flirting, both things only happen in your mind, and not physically.
Honestly yes. Now I'm not much for bible teachings but I think you can stand to gain a lot about this subject from it read on. I know sometimes the bible can be a bit overwhelming, and a bit harsh, and also a bit brash, but here it has a valid point. Also, I personally say it comes down to what goes around comes around, or do onto others as you want done onto you, wouldn't you be upset if he did the same? Then why do such things?
Read the bible.
The Lord Jesus had much to say about adultery. He went so far as to say that even the very thought of adultery is sin. The Bible teaches us that those who practice this and other types of immorality will surely come under the judgment of God. "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, no idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. " (I Corinthians 6:9-10)
So is fantasizing cheating too, just like on-line flirting, both things only happen in your mind, and not physically. - 7 months ago
Answerer
That's not true. Fantasizing is normal, actually communicating with someone on-line and doing something that might be considered cheating in real life is still cheating. You can't cheat on someone in your own mind. - 7 months ago
I think anything beyond simple flirting is cheating; and that's even skirting the line! When you have cyber sex, its the same as real sex in your mind. You are being intimate with another person. Its like cheating on him for real. Even though its not physical, its emotional. And both hurt the same when found out.
I wouldn't say flirting is cheating, a bad idea perhaps. Cybering on the other hand, I would say it is, but then again I think it's just plain stupid. Fantasizing... not cheating, but you better A. Keep it in check. B. Stop and reevaluate your relationship. and C. Make sure you don't carry out your fantasies.
Ask yourself this... Would you be comfortable with your boy if he did it? If you can honestly say yes then go right ahead, but I would suggest not to. Doing so would give him the freedom to do the same and can go one of two ways. You both can do it together and have fun with it or you both do it seperate and drift apart because of which.
Flirting could be fun, unless it is a habit. When you are out having a drink it could be harmless unless you decide to pursue it and try to make something else out of it. According to a recent research, a significant majority of people meeting online meet to flirt, mingle, date, have sex and so on. I don't know whether that was your intention of meeting this guy, but I would certainly consider having online sex as cheating.
If you want my personal opinion i honestly don't think that stuff is actually cheating. because unless you actually meet this person an do stuff with them then its not cheating. but that's just the way I look at it.
Honestly, if you didn't think it was cheating, you wouldn't be asking this question. In my opinion, if your doing something that you wouldn't feel comfortable telling your boyfriend about or doing it in front of him, then it's cheating. Would you want your boyfriend having cyber-sex right in front of you with some other chick who's not you?
Fantasizing is a different story, we all fantasize, even if we have someone we love. It doesn't mean we don't love them. We're all human beings and we all wonder "what if" every once in a while, men and women do it.
Years ago I would say no. But if you are in a relationship with someone than I believe it is. If you are really in love with a person than doing this would hurt the other person and why would you want to do this. If you are in a relationship and doing this than maybe that person really isn't in love.
It's kinda cheating if you flirt with someone because sometimes that person that you flirt with you can get feelings for because if you chill around that person alot mutual feelings will begin to grow.
So is fantasizing cheating too, just like on-line flirting, both things only happen in your mind, and not physically. - 7 months ago
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crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
It's wrong if you feel guilty but if he finds out he might end your relationship yeah it is wrong but I don't know about cheating. Would you want him to dot hat to you? You have to re-consider!
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
