I agree that there is definitely a double standard. And although it's not fair, I can definitely see a difference between the 2. Guys will stick their thing in anything they can to get pleasure. Sex for guys is all about pleasure and getting off.
For girls, sex is more emotional, and takes a lot more for a girl to have sex with a guy. So if a girl has sex with a lot of guys, it is really different from a guy having sex with a bunch of different girls. But should guys be praised for having sex with lots of girls? I don't think so.
Social expectations have been formed over centuries to expect a woman to be more prude and discerning than a man. This is probably based on a lot of things, such as men wielding their traditional power to influence perceptions, as well as the nature argument that man's natural instinct is to "spread his seed. "
Honestly, though, these days those stereotypes are far weaker. Personally, I've never judged a girl on how many people she's slept with any differently than I judge a guy on how many people he's slept with. Most people that I know are the same way.
It's not so dichotomous anymore. Women are way more liberated than we used to be.
If you're easy and indiscriminate, well it's not a good thing no matter what sex you are. Chicks don't dig studs, no matter what they'd like to think. And the people who buy into it will probably die alone of an STD with the word "super-stud" tattooed on their chest. Whoopie for them.
That said you're probably still in high school, which would explain a few things. It's generally a really (really) immature attitude to have - you'll find that once you graduate, you'll see it less and less.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I don't use any lines.. leave those to the cheese balls! I usually start by making a joke, complimenting a part of their outfit, or ask if they are having a good time or like the place.. if they are interested in conversation I will have no trouble making her laugh!
How do they typically respond?
If they don't respond positively or have that look on their face like there is somewhere else they need to be, I drop conversation and move on... otherwise my smile, laugh, and constant eye contact usually causes them to be interested in getting my number or hanging out for a while longer!