So me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now and I haven't had an orgasm yet :p he's the first guy I've ever been with and I don't know I just think I should have by now. He's is really good tho. And it does feel good. But I haven't had that OHHMYYGAWDDD moment yet. You know? Blah anyone know why? Or what we can possible do?
Haha I was about to ask that same question. like my boyfriends really good and its really enjoyable but I don't know why I haven't. but apparently it takes awhile for some girls to reach that. maybe try a vibrator on yourself when your alone. that's my next step lol.
Women typically can't have an orgasm through penetrative sex. There usually needs to be some sort of clitorial stimulation for an orgasm to occur. Are you able to have an orgasm by yourself? I personally have never had an orgasm while I was with a guy. Don't know why. And majority of the guys I've slept with were pretty good. But just can't get me over the edge.
No actually I've never had on. Like at all. This sucks lol - 7 months ago
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I think what you should do is try to have one by yourself first. You need to know your body. Then hopefully it'll come. :) if I try to get myself off without any aid (as in, only using my imagination), it takes about 20 minutes. If I through some porn in there, I can get there as quickly as 3 minutes! But that really depending on the material :P. - 7 months ago
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When: 7 months ago
Well you can stimulate yourself down there with your hand while he's doing his action on you try it maybe it helps.