Today, I don't know, me and my boyfriend were kissing, and then he fingers me. Well I think that's what it's called, where he sticks his finger and moves it around in my (you know). Well I think he went a little deeper than usual, and I don't know why it hurts when I go to the bathroom. I cleaned it in the shower, but the water hurts! When I checked my vagina, it was really red, and I tried looking up pictures of what it looks like before, and after an intercourse, to see if my hymen or whatever is broken.
But I think it looks like it was about to tear. Is it because his hands weren't clean? Or he went to far?
It's quite possible that you have a small tear. Possibly even one you can't see such as a fissure. The stinging you're feeling is possibly urine or the natural acidity of the vagina getting in the fissure. Like salt in a wound. It will heal.
Sounds like fissures... which are just tiny tears in the skin. Anyone with sensitive skin in general will be more prone to tearing, especially during "energetic" activities or if your partner happens to be on the big side. Ahem. Something to keep in mind for when you're ready to take it to that level.
Lube helps, but only on a preventative basis. Anything you can do to improve the elasticity in your skin is going to help if you're one of these people... things like essential fatty acids in your diet and the like.
Once you actually get a tear, all you can do is take care of it until it heals. It hurts a lot more than it looks like it should, but it's nothing serious and nothing to worry about. If you're getting them on a regular basis, you can get a numbing gel from your doctor to ease the pain during healing.
Just be mindful of it and make sure your guy doesn't tear around too aggressively down there. They can get carried away in a hurry and most of them don't know their own strength.
That makes me want to stay a virgin more! imagine if fingers hurt what a dick would feel like xD oucccch omg I am so locking my cooter up haha! seriously. I would say go ask your mom though me, and my mom are so close, and she is so cool like that I could go to her since your under 18 like me. I don't know if your mom would be as ok with it as mine!
No he didn't break the hymen. You can't do that through fingering. I would give it a day or two to see if it feels any better, if it doesn't then maybe seeing a doctor is what you should do. Sometimes, for some girls, it might sting afterwards. But if the pain doesn't go away, then doctor time.
Gotta correct you. You certainly can break the hymen with fingering. A hymen can break from activity in sports or even riding a bike. But any insertion of an object, such as a finger into the vagina will break the hymen. - 4 months ago
I agree with AJtogo. I read about the biking thing somewhere, plus any phallic (sp? ) object inserted far enough could break the hymen. Keep an eye on it. Good luck. - 4 months ago
You can naturally break the hymen with extreme biking, or exercising its natural it all depends on the thickness of your skin if you don't break it naturally, if you use toys during masturbation like a dildo you can break your hymen like that..... so easily enough if your boyfriend shoves his fingers up there you can break it.. or even rip it a bit - 4 months ago
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Ok ok goodness. I read the question wrong. chill. - 4 months ago
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O_O? I have the solution. I think it's just my bike. Because I'm really into riding my bike, like bmx and I think it tore a little when I went off a jump. And the fingering just made it worse. But thank you. - 3 months ago
Jeez how old are you? Yes its called fingering. And no if you broke your hymen you would be bleeding all over the place so your good on that note. That usually happens after the first or a few times after the first times you have sex. Basically he must have just made you sore. Since your not used to him going so deep. The more you do it the less it will hurt. Then it won't hurt at all. You'll be fine.
Hmm, is it supposed to sting? Because it does "/ - 4 months ago
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Could just be a common thing. It really wouldn't worry about it. But if you want take cranberry pills they clear out your urine tract and it won't burn - 4 months ago
So are you a virgin or not? If you are a virgin, you can get a little sensitive if he's fingering you "aggressively". Sometimes it also has something to do with you're not turned on enough. Or he's being way too rough. . Or he hasn't clip his nails. Did it hurt while he was fingering you? Or do you only have pain afterwards?
Well hm, it felt really good while he was fingering me. But I guess he was being really rough, because I think I was pushing him harder. But, I mostly started feeling the pain afterwards. It stings when I sit& go to the bathroom. & yeah, I'm a virgin. - 4 months ago
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Yeah, he probably went a bit too rough. I usually get sore when the guy was too rough on me in the fingering department. - 4 months ago
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Thank you for answering. It helped. - 4 months ago
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