Alright, lately I've been turned off to the whole dating/marriage/finding your one true love subject. I honestly don't feel that I'll find any one in my entire life. Well, since I've always felt this way since I was younger (I do have occasional attraction to guys, though, when it comes to the subject of dating them, I get a little freaked out and I immediately think "no", but then again, since I was little, I've just always had bad impressions of guys). So, I had this dream that I was playing video games, and this girl was in it. We became friends and she just started to kiss me on the cheek, and in my dream I was kinda happy, and kinda wanted to be in a relationship with her. Though, when I'm awake and I see girls, I get these feelings to kiss them or be near them. (Like If I'm close enough to a girl, I feel this really strong need to just go and kiss her). Also, I sometimes get really turned on around girls, and most of the time this happens If I'm not attracted to them. And I've never felt this way around guys. For guys I guess I focus on them and what they're like and if I do want to be in a relationship, but this is all sooo confusing! I have no idea what to do, and people keep telling me I can choose my sexuality, but it's just getting really hard! That, and since I have such a bad opinion on guys and they're behaviors and such, I'm pretty sure that I'm just going to be happy being by myself for the rest of my life. HELP!
There might be something inside you that is telling you to experiment with these feelings. I know I started to crush on girls when I was around 14 I started to notice them and think about them more than just a pretty girl and shrug it off. I however pretended to the rest of the world that these feelings and thoughts didn't happen until last year when i was 21 so for 7 years. I am bi sexual I like men and enjoy being with men but I also like women and enjoy being with them. experiment and see where it takes you
Welcome to the chronic confusion and lack of understanding that is bisexuality. Though from what you're saying, it looks like you might be leaning toward the more gay end of the spectrum - it's really something only you can answer.
For me it's almost constantly fluctuating. Some days I'm more attracted to the ladies, but I made the choice to spend my life with one incredible person, who happens to be a guy. Doesn't mean I love him any less. And I can tell you from experience that ladies aren't all roses and sunshine either. Lots of drama. So there's just as much potential for a bad relationship there as anywhere else. But there's also just as much for a good one.
Anyway, the only advice I can offer is to try not to focus too much on labels and defining yourself a certain way, and just take life as it comes to you. If you fall for someone who happens to be female, then fine. Doesn't mean you have to put yourself in a box, or resign yourself to a life of solitude.
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
I love clothes that are sexy, chic, and comfortable. It all depends on where we're going, but whatever the occasion, place, or outfit may be, I always make sure to accent my outfit with enough accessories to dazzle, but not too much to wear it looks gaudy.I wear shoes that make me taller, either stiletto boots or strappy sandals and also a lot of pink and black because those are most flattering.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
My hair is naturally curly/wavy, so I'll either wear it like that or I'll straighten it. It goes down to the middle of my back so I like to play with a lot of different styles. And as for makeup, I go through a lot to make it look natural. When I go out at night though, I'll create a dramatic look with a little extra eyeliner and some lipstick, because I always wear gloss during the day.
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When: 4 months ago
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