I had sex with my new boyfriend, (it was our first time with each other and my first time ever. ) and I just want to say that it was wonderful and I really enjoyed myself. But my boyfriend didn't come. We had been doing it for a while, at least over an hour--not counting him going down on me. He said it was good and everything, that he just wore himself out to quick. So I finished him off with my hand. I feel kinda bad that he didn't come, he said it wasn't me. But I still feel like it was my fault?! Anyone else have this issue?
Most likely being it was his first time the pressure of the situation and the thoughts that goes in the mind of a young man is that situation are surreal. Therefore, don't feel ill about the way things end up believe me it was a great moment for him (maybe the best of his life). Cheers!
It's that way with me sometimes too. It's nobody's fault, and it really shouldn't bother him. If you want to change that though try different positions see what works for the both of you.
Some guys are just like that (me being one of them) its not a bad thing I mean c'mon girls love the stamina from a guy but its not the girls fault or anything at all, some guys are minute men and some go at it all night its different for every guy
It Was The Same Way When I Lost It To My Boyfriend. I'm Guessing He Was Taking Things Slow. And Trying Not To Hurt You? Yes. So I'm pretty sure he wasn't hard all the way and when a girl is having sex for the first time the guy can't go very fast so he doesn't hurt her more then needed. Believe me. Wait until the next couple of times you and you boyfriend have sex. He'll cum. =] and don't worry love you didn't do anything wrong. It was your first time, its expected to go slow and not everything will feel the best. =] You'll learn fast. =] just ask questions on here. Lol that's what I did! =] Good Luck!
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