Did it hurt the first time?

I obviously can't tell you from personal experience, but from a medical point of view if differs from woman to woman. The first time I had sex lasted about thirty minutes because the first twenty involved my girlfriend getting past the pain of getting it in, but once it was all the way in, she said, it was the most amazing feeling she had ever felt.

Do kegel excersizes its where you clench you vagina and it teaches you to learn how to relax, Women do it to help pregnancy go along with less pain. If it works for something coming out of you, it should work while going in. My first time it hurt like a bitch and a half but I was young and didn't know what I was doing( not to mention , he had no clue either). But you are older and as long as your comfortable with your body and knows how to work it it shouldn't be that bad. Try and have an orgasm before you actually have sex because then it feels a lot better and your already relaxed and your vagina knows what coming. Try Kegel excersizes clenching it repeatedly for a bit.

Haha. It hurts but if you have the guy fingerbang you b4 he puts it in it should hurt a lot less than if you would just go straight for the sex.