Why do girls dress super sexy then are offended when a guy gets turned on

i think she probably liked the attention from you.. but she wanted to act like she didn't to make herself seem like THE queen bitch. that's just the stupid hoes you try to avoid. even though she might be the hottest thing

because we like the atention

I was turned on by the way you described her dress :D (shoulda took a pic) I guess she might have went there with someone, or found you unattractive. When you're the girl, its a turnoff if a guy you don't like is checkin you out.

I think a lot of women don't realize that males are hardwired to reproduce; it's their sole purpose when ya think about it ( I'm not kidding). Of COURSE a guy's gonna check her out if she's got all of her goodies exposed to every tom d*** and harry in the room.

There are women that dress sexy to feel sexy, or dress sexy to one up other females, or dress sex to pick up men. You probably just set your sights on the one that was dressed that way due to options A or B lol.

I don't think they are offended.
When girls say you're creepy, it means they are not into you.
It means they want the kind of guy they want to hit on them.

Also, its also rude to stare at people too long or look them over, that's just etiquette.
U have to be more stealth when checking people out.

I have to agree 100% with you. If a girl is going to dress the part, don't get p*ssy if someone who doesn't trip your trigger looks. What does she think guys are going to do, maybe even some women are going to look. That's what pants and sweatshirts are made for.

hey I love it if a guy stares and I love it if he gits up and smacks my ass its hot and I love the attenchen (btw I'm not a hoe)

1st - Girls dress for other girls. 2nd - We like the attention (Look, but don't touch). 3rd - We love to feel sexy for ourselves . . . If we got a bod, then we wanna show our hard work and natural genetics.

becos ita annoying we cnt even dres like tht becos we ave the fear of men raping us we shudnt have tht fear ..! I wore a dress out in soho men trying to touch mi fannie all nite won't leave you alone like ur sum peice of f***in meet ..! y shud wehave to rap up to go ot clubing ..! shud dress how we please ..!

Girls don't want to be portrayed as a slut or easy just because they dressed sexily

Simply because we girls like to dress attractively but don't like to be touched quickly. We want a guy to truly love us.

Just a little advice...If you want to impress a girl or not seem like a creeper, watch the way you grin or act.. Facial expressions and actions say alot...or if she accuses you just be like I was trying to offend you or anything, you just look different/rlly pretty and thts a compliment...

U never wanna say oooo ur hot or sexy to a grls face, tht just means ur a meat head and just want ass...

A grl when she goes out doesn't want to feel like a piece of meat for every guy that she sees she wants to feel sexy, beautiful and respected at the same time, just try a different approch nexttime or watch the way you look at someone...Dont look her up and down, just glimpse, smile and look away...

that girl was just trying to get even more attention telling you the creeper line. not all girls are like that.

obviously her intentions were to get looked at. its like a confidence booster, but a secret one. she doesn't want to admit she is getting satisfaction from men checking her out. I know many people like this. girls only do this when they are insecure about their bodies. so of course she knew she was getting looked at, and plus she knew you wouldn't yell back at her if she cursed ar you for looking at her, because you actually were looking at her. so basically, a slut would do that. for attention (attention whore)

Its the way you look at the girl. Sexual tension. Its like that feeling you dress nice to go out and the guy at the bar is whacking off to you. Its nice to get attention - but not feeking like that guy over there wants bone 2 you. I don't know if that makes sense to you.

I have noticed that there can be a difference the way you dress when you go out. Most of the time I dress in jeans and a nice shirt, not really showing too much. My friends and I used to have theme birthday parties all of the time, pj's, goth, 80s, what ever. Well my one friend wanted to have a T&A party. So she wanted little shorts skirts or shorts with revealing tops. So I wore my black leather knee high boots, little yellow and black plaid school girl skirt with a black lower cut tank top. Well I do have to say that it was the first time that I went to the bar and had guys telling me I looked hot, wanting to buy me drinks, dance with me, and everything. Most girls even would ask where I got the skirt and my boots. It was very different experience. I know that the attention that I got was probably not the best attention and probably for different reasons, but I think I could see how that could make you feel a little good about yourself and would do it on occasion.

That's stupid. When a guy checks girls out it just boosts our ego. The only reason I can think she'd do that is if you were being creepy about it

The problem lies in that society is telling women that in order to be beautiful or sexy they have to meet this unreachable standard. That doesnot help women to feel good about themseves. So sometimes drssing up makes a girl feel like she is sexy. It's not that she wants to be oggled and stared at. Actually, the opposite is usually true.
If you were staring at her in such a way that you were called a creepr, you probably creeped her out and deserved to be called one.

Girls who do this can be really fooling themselves. Truth is they have no idea how male sexuality feels and what it does to a guy to see a provacatively dressed woman.

On the flip side, there is a reasonable level of a man's attention to a girl like that and then there is a creeper level. I know too many guys who are totally going to look at a girl like that but they do it on the down-low and are unlikely to get caught. I have caught guys checking out my cleavage but they are so quick to slip a look I am sure there are others I don't notice. I am fine with that. I look at other women myself. How couldn't you? But a guy who stares is a creeper. Don't stare. Keep it on the DL.

I don't understand it either. But I think dressing slutty is all about getting attention and the reassurance that you are looking for. It isn't like she looked in the mirror and didn't know what she was getting herself into! Maybe she is insecure, likes the attention, and feels better about herself being able to turn people down.

she's weird or stupid to think no one would look at her in that way. tell her to grow up

maybe she isn't aware of the fact that she looks like a whore? she should know that guys checking out girls from head to toes is normal. usually we just pretend to be annoyed by it but actually we're flattered ;) its creepy tho if guys mistakes you for a whore...i would be (and was :P) offended.

lol OK woman love feeling and looking sexy but depends how you look at a woman she be creep out..Best to admire a woman his to smile with her and make eye contact then look away she will flirt back most of the time

It sounds like a pretty slutty outfit to me, but SOME girls might like to wear things like that to feel empowered. Like they're thinking "yeah, I can wear this and look good and it isn't for anyone but me", and then they forget that guys are going to look at them. But if they start to feel objectified it's a whole nother ballgame. The aim is respect not to be an object.

Personally I wouldn't worry too much. Seriously, if she's going to be like that about it then she's probably not worth the hassle.

Girls crave attention. That's all we really want is to be noticed, good or bad. What we do with the attention however is rather cruel. She was probably just playing it up to other people to try to seem cool, you know the whole cool and careless thing.

It's also quite possible that you may have made a comment and she'd heard it too many times before and was annoyed and just snapped at you.

Girls are crazy I'm not gonna lie, but just shake it off.

idk lol thts a good question...in my group of friends I'm the one who dresses modestly because I don't really like all tht kind of attention from guys...it makes me feel weird and I just don't like showing off my goodies for the world to see but like some of my other friends dress sorta skimpy and then get all worried if a guy is checking them out...its kinda dumb for them 2 dress tht way and not expect to get tht kind of attention

lol yeah she must've not thought it was that bad... but I agree with u.. if you wear something like that ur gonna have people giving you attention/checking you out. I'm sure tons of other guys were checking her out too, so she shouldnt take it all out on you calling you a creeper!

Because girls want guys to notice them not start thinking wrong things about them

Woman want to test men and be notcied but not be thought of as slutty, yet checked out but not notice the guy whos checking them out, WHAT? Yes, women do have a sick sense of humor hahahahaha.

that was her fault personally and you shuld not worry about her.
i wuld take it as a compliment...
if she doesn't want to be checked out then she shuld just put on a freakin potato bag and walk out to a club and lets see how many people wuld be checkin her out.

Damn, that doesn't sound sexy, that sounds slutty! I can't imagine that she wouldn't want the attention and the stares when she's dressed like that, but at the same time she probably doesn't want to be seen as only an object.

Seriously, though, if you have the nerve to wear a dress like that, you're usually hoping for someone to compliment/admire/whatever you. Don't know why she was so bent out of shape about it.

Girls are extremely complex creatures. I would never wear that I just think its trashy, you turn guys on for the first instant but isn't it much sexier to wear a bit more and when they finally see it its just more amazing? I'm not talking like a long nuns outfit or anything I say bare one leave the other covered (boobs and legs) if I bare both I cannot be bothered with all the attention because most guys who go clubbing in AUS are freaks old freaks, I'm sure USA is much different. Plus you have sexy black men.

well, I do it because I like the attention..

Well I don't know about other girls, but with me, I like dressing super sexy cause of the attention. When a guy is turned on its one thing. Its good to turn them on. but if the're being a pig about it then I start to think that that might be all they want frome me is sex. hope that helps!

i think girls do this because they are insecure of their looks
they want to feel liked by men so they dress like sluts to get attention
i know from experience

You have to know how to act. If a woman was dressed provocatively in a bar, I'm sure you weren't the only one noticing her. If she got mad at you for checking her out and called you a creeper, I have to wonder if you weren't going overboard and being rude about it. What made her target you and not the 50 other guys who probably checked her out that night? Act like you've seen a sexy woman before and don't leer and ogle. No one's saying you can't look but you probably crossed the line.

If I dress sexy I know guys would look but I don't accept someone disrespecting me either.

LMFAO. Trust me she wasn't oddended, we just act like that too get atantion.

Complete her nicely, and use something first that's not really about the "super sexiness" like her smile, eyes, laugh, anything like that. Then talk to her, when she seems interested let her in on more of the other thoughts your having about her.
Girls want to look sexy for guys to see, and yes we get offended when random guys do such things like that. We have issues haha. When that happens we think "typical guy", but if you try to talk to us first it makes us more comfortable and we gladly accept things like that. It helps if you're attractive. haha
Hope I helped.

Sometimes a girl wears something for herself because she likes the way it looks on her. Of course when she goes out to a club or a bar she'll want to look attractive. And she's probably flattered by the attention. But if you're going overboard by how you're reacting to her, it'll only make her uncomfortable.

Just because she's dressed a certain way doesn't mean she wants attention from everyone. I think she was probably out enjoying herself trying to be sexy or on a revenge mission towards someone else.

for example..

There's a really hot guy in my class o I wear low cut shirts and always bend over and ask him questions. but then there's this guy who's completely socially inappropriate. who walks over to my desk and stands over me looking down my shirt. and he's a CREEPER. Because he makes it so obvious what he wants wihtout tlaking about it he always talks about uninteresting stuff and he's in his 40s living with his parents.

Clearly she wanted attention, but there are guys that simply check you out in a nice sort of way then there are creepers that are lecherous and stare at you in an "I'm gonna slip you some roofies" kinda way. Plus it can b creepy when a girl is like under 21 and a 33 year old or older is staring at her body. So sometimes girls want attention but get p*ssy when the wrog guys check them out insted of there idea of prince charming or whatever.

first of all I would never wear that; I have the body for it and I like things that show it off, but I'm not the type to dress like that. if I'd seen her, I probably would've been thinking hoooooker. on the other hand, when I do dress up for going out, I do it for myself because it's fun, because it makes ME feel sexy, and because it's not something I do every day. it's a girls' thing. my friends and I blast the music, pre-drink a little, and spend about 1.5-2hrs with make-up and clothes. I swear, half the fun if not more in going out is the part that comes before even leaving the house.

so I agree with i_be_grey_c in the sense that just because a girl dresses up and goes out, does not mean she's looking for sex or a guy.

on the other hand, once again, she sounds like she was dressed as a hooker. so she should expect to attract creepy attention whether wanted or unwanted.

anyways, overall I think that regardless of what she was wearing, I don't know what you said to her and what she said to you back, but you should treat everyone with the same amount of respect. it doesn't matter what people are wearing, how they look, age, color, etc. - you should treat everyone with the respect you feel should be given to you, unless their actions disrespect you first. meaning, I guess, that you make it sound as if since she's dressed like a "playboy model in public, what did she expect", then you can treat her as playboy model and therefore just as something to hit up. yes, she's dressed provocatively, and I personally have no respect for her outfit, but I still feel that until a person's actions deliberately offend you without you having disrespected them in any sort of way, then that person should be treated with the same amount of respect you believe is due to you, without any judgment.
i'm not implying you disrespected her since I don't know who approached who and said what, but it sounds like you hit on her, and she didn't like it and called you a creeper. just because she was dressed like a hooker does not mean she IS a hooker or that she should be treated like one. rape is not okay because the girl was dressed provocatively. of course, that is an extreme example. but neither is derogatory treatment.

she wants attention so she puts on a whores uniform but she gets mad if you assume she is kinda slutty its just something dumb girls tend to do to boost their self esteem or maybe she didn't see anything slutty about what she was wearing

I understand your confusion. I understand why women do things like dress sexy and put on make up... just try to look good in general. Its because it helps make you feel more confident, not necessarily because we want attention from men...

But you have a point too, women who dress like that really need to keep in mind how men are going to react. It may make them feel good, but if being ogled doesn't make them feel good then maybe they should find a middle ground between revealing and conservative. Either that or just accept that men will react.

No wait, girls do dress to impress. Whatever, you get my point?

Most girls don't dress to impress. They're not looking for sex just because they dress a certain way. I had a short dress on last night at a party, and it's because I have the body to. She's just trying to enjoy her youth and sexiness. Don't freak out when you see people like that lol.

When my friends dress like that, its so they can collect male attention and approval. They pretty much have no self-derived personal image. They decide if they look good or not on how big a reaction they can get from the guys. The stupid thing is, that she probably enjoyed you checking her out. It was an ego boost. And then like iamallstar said, she got a further ego boost by rejecting you. If I had to psyco analyze I'd say this:

-Popular culture tells the girl that sexy girls are valueable, and ugly girls are worthless
-The girl wants to be valuable so she must confirm that she is sexy, by attracting guy's attention
-Deep down she wants her value to be based on her intelligence, humor, etc...
-So while she seeks your approval sexually, she is p*ssed off that you would value her based on her sexuality

I personally believe that no matter how super sexy she is, she doesn't imply anything 'cheap or easy' and so forth... but simply wishes to show off her best beauty and appearance or feeling good and sexy... NOT further than your (men)'s lustful thought or imagination.

For your informatyion, all those 'models' that appeared in magazines, internets, movies and TVs, etc are carefully agreed upon prior to broadcast or publication. Therefore, this still doesn't constitute models are easy or cheap or whatsoever you have thought in your head or even your imaginative feeling.

Treat her as she is normal and lovely person with respect and gentle. Girls are valuable and lovely human being we have on earth and use her wisely usauly for marriage.

It's attention and empowerment. Women put a lot of attention in what they wear for a reason. It's like advertisement. I don't believe that talk that women forget what there wearing when they spend time shopping. Attention gives them a sense of satisfaction when there the center. But its hypocrisy when they get offended. Women don't like when you ignore them totally but if you look at them your a pervert. By nature we are carnal creatures we are attracted to the woman herself. If you call that objectifying then it is. Everything is an object. Women are worldly creatures. More so attracted to men for what he has to offer a women. Sure she can be attracted to a guys physical features. Men don't get offended when women check guys out like a piece of meat. Why should they? Don't dress provocative and be conservative. If a woman can wear what she wants than man should be able to look. Its a free country. Women want a man that will please there feelings. An unattractive man can attract a woman just by his possessions and pleasing her feelings. Make her laugh. For guys were attracted to them nothing else. For women its what a man can provide be it financial or stimulating there feelings. If she was attracted to you she would not have a problem I bet. She's being superficial.

It is not because they don't want to be noticed it is that they want only a certain person to notice them. I pretend to be invisible in a crowd because they can. Trying this excersice in a place like Grand Central Station in NYC would have you sitting on a bench people watching.

This reminds me of the Tom Brady SNL skit from last year. If a guy that's not attractive just mildly hits on a girl she calls him a creeper and gets all indignant. Meanwhile a guy that they do like will do all sorts of inappropriate stuff that would get anyone else in all sorts of trouble, but they give them a free pass because they like the guy. It's the same exact thing. Guys that are not on a woman's sexual radar aren't supposed to check them out or hit on them? Riiiiiight.

if a woman goes out into a public place with half her breast exposed she should expect men are going to look at her. this includes all ages from 13 to 90. that's the way men are and the world is never going to change. cover your breasts and men will not look.

Well, they do need to be careful. But that doesn't mean they have to dress too conservative. The best I can tell you is to approach with a "hello" or "hi". But do not stare at them in a creepy manner all night long.

The number of bullsh*t answers from the girls has made me want to actually answer this question twice, this time in more depth.

Girls want male attention. They want to be wanted. It makes them feel important and valuable. So they dress slutty and flaunt their sexual prowess. Guys are the same way. A common sexual fantasy of both genders to think of being desired by hoards of hot guys/girls.

But that's just it. They want the attention of hot guys or ones they deem worthy to experience them. If an ugly guy looks at them, that's something in the way of their sexual fantasy.

You as the ugly person, are disgusting to them. They will flatter and shower others with their sexual attention and will feel so good about being desired by them. But you, you are not even allowed to look. For you there are only dirty looks or in this case insults.

That's why I hate this part of human nature, it makes you feel so unworthy to experience the happiness that others are constantly being showered in.

So she was showing legs AND t*ts AND stomach?
Slut.

Dude, chicks thrive on attention. They are like plants needing water. They dress that way to show off the goods and make you look. However, they don't want over watered or watered by a creep or ugly dude. Think about it. Would you want a loser staring down your shirt? Look once for no more than 1-3 seconds unless you makes conversation and you KNOW she is feeling you. Even then, be discreet. If you make it obvious they know you don't care what they have to say and all you can think about is motorboating those tig ol bitties and well women don't want to be treated like meat.

basically to sum it up. you looked you stared you didn't talk to her. its creepy to be stared at and not talked to. that's something you learn in speech 101. next time just try saying hi at least. so it doesn't come off as so creepy

you should have told her she is the one dressed like a whore...

Yeah I totally know what you mean man. It's pretty fcking lame, I don't get it either.

Because she wanted other people's attention but yours is insulting.

Makes you feel pretty sh*tty about yourself, doesn't it?

Girls like to dress like this sometimes, because it makes them feel better about their own body 'they feel that they don't need to cover up like a nun'... I guess they should expect guys to like it, but yeah, I'd agree that its an ego boost for some girls to reject guys.

I think they are the female form of "players".

Many women get an ego boost from/get off on rejecting men.