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GUYS. If you put a girl's hand on your crotch while making out?

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(Age:18 to 24) When: Over a year ago

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Do you EVER just expect her to stroke it? Would it be too frustrating , having her stroke it then moving away without you cumming or without it going towards sex... Would you ever JUST want her to TOUCH it- NO STRINGS ATTACHED?

Inversely, if she seemed OK with YOU PUTTING IT THERE would you expect a hand job , blow job, or sex?

Would you loose interest in MAKING OUT in general, after putting her hand there, if none of the aforementioned were provided?

Would it be a deal breaker , if you did not know her very well yet? I.E it would seem like she had a hag up with sex , or sexual things etc. & sex , was something that you are very comfortable with, & would only want to date people who are comfortable too... ?

Update: WANACOT: "Pretty much any guy is gonna be disappointed if you just stroke it a bit then move away." What if you stroked it fora loooooooooong time? Do guys ever like there penis to be stroked Lightly, or just Hard? What about Slow Vs. Fast? Over a year ago


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11 months ago

I love it whenever my girlfriend touches it, no matter when or for how long. Once we watched a movie at her parents house and we had a blanket over us. That's when she did it for a really long time and I cummed, but usually we don't have enough time together to make that happen. It's okay though cause I really love her and I just want to be with her.

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happysexyman

Over a year ago

I LOVE SLOW BLOW JOB A GIRL GIVES ME.
I EXPLODE.

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0004matt

Over a year ago

i would honestly love being stroked while making out but if you don't intend do get him off I would rub it through the pants or underwear.

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thank you! .. so clear :)
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Pollji

Over a year ago

f***, so bored!

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  :) Commenting on the length of the post, or is it more of a personal existential thing?
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AkilJoseph

Over a year ago

Not this guy.I personally love when am making out and a girl touches me the and strokes it.i have had times where am making out and the girl would unbutton my shirt ad kiss down my abs slowly, which is my A+ spot,I mean if a girl does that to me that's is way in.I have make out for half and hour plus non stop and being stroked and touched and it never went to the bed,after this the girl and I either dated or remained very close friends.

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  Over a year ago
  Thanks a lot that was really* helpful :)
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stalinhornsby

Over a year ago

First thing is if the guy loses interest in making out then he was never for you ; AS, SEX IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT, TAKE CONTROL. The touching his crotch is pretty much where the control begins, and a Nuva-ring may be for you. Or, if you have given your first blow job you might want to expand your horizons and keep your love making in a room not the back seat of a VW.

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  :) "The touching his crotch is pretty much where the control begins"
  
  meaning that is how I initiate sex, or just that I can control a guy that way?
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  Over a year ago
  Yea...she just wanted to get things started. He wasn't interested. Most guys would have already been pulled out of the given area and on their way to getting it on. And, the few that were left standing there would be in complete shock.__Experience/ both situations - That is all I got.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Hmm ok so that would mean that by feeling his crotch she was getting things started...?
  
  or is there something else you mean, I mean I was not thinking of a three way situation, just one on & one- no cheating either :)
  
  I really just want to know what guys expect , not literally what I should do - I was curious as to how guys THINK about it, I'm not worried about what to do in general if I'm not interested I say do or stop or w/e.
  
  Just wanted to know how the other half thinks -if it is diff:)
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  Over a year ago
  She was being stupid, because the guys girlfriend was standing right there. She was just feeling him up ! Crazy huh. They're all friends and she claims to be a lesbian although she is all over the men. She has to have issues with the pill ; that is what the two women were talking about. Knock out body, but not much to look at.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  You mean she was being stupid or that she INTENDED to get into something - sorry, still not sure what you are saying lol
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I was at the pub by my house and I saw this gal rubbing on this gentleman and my take on that was she had to get an idea in her mind what she was in for. ;)
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  First thing is if guy loses interest making out ..never 4 you" - yeah I agree :)
  
  umm lol we were standing up & we were only kissing (hence my surprise)& if I was in a relAtionship & liked someone a car might be a fun place to make out I would not leave that out.
  
  I am not currently sexually active so I'm not worried or interested in a ring lol but thanks.
  
  What did you mean by : "The touching his crotch is pretty much where the control begins"
  
  What do you mean by that exactly? Thanks.
N/A

Over a year ago

yes stroking is good

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Also coud you tell me the different implications of each different thing. without judgement - haha
  
  Thanks!
  
  :-)
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  :-) Ok. but don't judge ( just clarify) cause he is not a jerk, it was a confusing situation & having been there I really do not think he did I in a creepy way (I am very reserved , I do mot make excuses for people sexually - this was almost innocent lol) he was under misconception that I def. wanted to have sex, & he tried to talk me out f it for a long time.. Plus, it was OVER his boxers.
  
  Ok, having said that, as you can assume he sort of guided my hand there, but it was slow & gentle :)
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Np, lets make things a little clear, did you put your on hand, or did he take your hand and put it there?
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  Over a year ago
  Yeah if course I guess am trying to figure but what would have happened if I had not moved away...
  
  I am a bit curious to know how carried away he can get - asking him would be really awkward right now-
  
  Hey if lets say my hand was there while we were making out , but idid t know what he meant by it, should I just stop everything or ask him about it...
  
  Is it immature to just stop & go away or is it ok cause you know you can't do what he might want?
  
  Thanks!
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  Over a year ago
  Well just be open with him and ask him if the stroking is gunna lead to something more your not ready for, and if that's the case then your not gunna do it at all =)
  
  and see what his reaction is, that way there's no silly confusion and no extra pressure on anyone
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  Over a year ago
  That is great t know , but so many people say it means he wants sex or a blow job that I would worry I was leading him on cause I know am not ready ti have sex, & I do not intend to give anyone a blow job.
  
  I wonder why some people are satisfied that it just feels good & others have such strong opposition to anything short of a hand ob , & really think it should be sex.
  
  - What NOT to do so he does not get the wrong idea.
  How many minutes could you handle being stroked, before going nuts?
  :-)
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  No just feels good while making out, you don't have to get the guy to bust
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  It iust not like just teasing you because you want sex?
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Tanner34

Over a year ago

I think that is kind of four play there and depending on the guy they might think some form of sex. The update, Well depending on the relationship you don't wanna give the guy a full handjob so just go light and slow.

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dtaylor31906

Over a year ago

just stroke him while your kissing him and stop when he isn't kissing you then if he wants you to keep stroking it he willl kiss you more so then you both get what you wants if he wants to come he will kiss you till you make him

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well maybe you too need to discuss your boundires pertaining to sex
  
  and yea I did come up with that lol
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  Over a year ago
  Omg Someone ACTUALLY answered my question. Wow.. hahaha
  
  Sooo did you just come up with that- case it is clever, or is that a common thing.. It makes a lot of sense... Great idea, sto[ when he stops so he gets the idea.. I was worried he would think it would mean sex tho - & I am a virgin & I amount ready to have sex, but I thought he knew& he doesn't s e may have expected it... I wish there was a particuar way you could stroke or something that would let him know I was not having sex lol
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ArizonaRX

Over a year ago

NO to it all. It's just stupid.

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  Over a year ago
  Sorry you are so uncomfortable with yourself^
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asmith

Over a year ago

Slow isn't too bad but if a girl starts touching my crotch its going to lead me to believe were about to have sex. Just saying don't be a tease. if your going to touch you might wanna finish the deal.

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  Over a year ago
  I'm glad you made that point. - " It depends how comfortable you are with the guy to make it ok. - An hour ago "
  
  I do not think their is anything inherently disrespectful about it but people seem to.. & Basically if a guy thinks you want have sex, he probably figures you're ok if you touch him - on top of boxers too, so that is like a warning.
  
  " wouldn't exactly expect sex but if she didn't move it away that's pretty much a sign "
  You mean if she does not move it you think she WANTS sex?
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  Over a year ago
  Well if I was the one to guide her hand, I wouldn't exactly expect sex but if she didn't move it away that's pretty much a sign. Being dressed doesn't make that much of a differrence becasue your still touching his crotch. It depends how comfortable you are with the guy to make it ok.
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  Over a year ago
  Yeah, I would probably not want to do that unless meant to OFFER. lol
  
  I wonder if you could tell me tho, if YOU were to guide HER hand to your crotch, would you still EXPECT sex, if she did not remove her hand? Would it make a difference if you were dressed or not? ( I mean would you expect it more if you were half dressed rather than fully dressed? _ boxers instead of jeans, for example?
  
  Do yo think it is ok for a guy to do that, if you are already making out?
  
  Does it make it cheep?
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Dorby

Over a year ago

No I wouldn't =p
But I sure should if she only would standing like frozen too the ground, not even touching me when I'm touching her (that would be frustrating AND a turn-off).

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Ok. YOU mean you would have little to say ,, in THAT situation...
  
  Got it- thanks! lol
  
  :-)
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I mean analyzing is good, but this is really deep. haha=p
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Cool answer- Perfect really I mean it is how I would look at the scenario, & just so you know, I don't think I would be able to do what the hypothetical girl would, but I was curious about hoe guys particularly think about the person on the other side of THERE request. ;-)
  
  By the way, what does this :
  " Uhm..now you made me think....so many questions so little to say. Lol " - Refer to?
  
  Sorry - I am slow today. ^^
  Dont think I would be acting so much different there. =)
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  Over a year ago
  'Deep discussion' lol!
  Well, I will just find it helpful, kinda flattered of that she "wants me". =)
  I guess it would be all mutual since we're both doing it. So NO, I wouldn't categorizing her of being a cheap slut casue she shows what she wants. Its just a big turn-on, but if I don't want her to, I'd confronting with something else her or just stop.
  
  Uhm..now you made me think....so many questions so little to say. Lol
  Dont think I would be acting so much different there. =)
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thanks for responding.
  
  Do you think if a girl did something back she would be 'easy' or just 'helpful' ?
  
  Do you separate thinking like that? I mean do you categorize?
  
  & By girl you just met do yo mean dating or just met off the street ? lol
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  Over a year ago
  Though lets I want to go a step longer, wanting her to do something with me like a HJ or BJ. It depend on who the girl is, if she is my girlfriend I would feel free to do anything, putting her hands "somewhere" at my body, whatever=p
  But if she's just a girl I've met I wouldn't do so, I'm too shy for doing that, as I said I wouldn't expect her to do anything, though if she did it by her own initiative I would surely find it a big turn-on!!
  
  Maybe stop kissin maybe not, anyhow I would like it alot.
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  Over a year ago
  THATS WHAT I WAS WONDERING, haha.... Yeah, do it & sk her what she was thinking & let me know lol
  
  Well, what wold you be thinking. If you did that would you expect her to jut take her hand back, or DO something.
  
  It happened to me.. I just stopped everything , cause I did not know if it meant he wanted sex, & that was not an option for me, & I did not want to find out, that if I took my hand away, he would STOP kissing me, so I stopped first.
  
  Do you think guys would just stop kissing?
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  Over a year ago
  ...OR maybe I would =p
  I am more curious about what's running thru her mind if I would do so.
  Bet she'd think ( uhm...what now?...should I do?...maybe...no...hmm... ) Lol
  
  Next time I'm gonna do so, just to see what she does and her reaction =)
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  Over a year ago
  That sounds totally reasonable... & I agree, it really takes away al the appeal, if only one person is doing anything... :-)
  
  The question I a asking is a bit weird in that I was just wondering what a guy would expect, if HE putHER hand on HIS crotch... ( you know since he DOES that, she should probably not be EXPECTED to do anything in particular.)
  
  Tho maybe YOU would not put a girls hand on your crotch lol
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  No I'm sorry.. ;)
  What I mean is that there would be a really frustrating if I would be the only one taking initiative and touching her, while she is not, I want respons of things.
  I wouldn't really expect anything, if I put my hands on her stomach and stroking, its mainly because I want to feel her and hold onto something when kissing =p
  I don't think that much, it would just come spontaneously.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  I m sorry what did you mean?
  You would not expect her to do anything, but you would LIKE her to if you are touching her?
  You do not want her to do noting, but you would not expect her to touch your penis?
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Strait_Shooter

Over a year ago

If he put your hand on his crotch sue him for sexual harassment... JK

No he wants something sexual perferable something that starts with you using your hand but it esculating to either a bj or full on sex.

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  Over a year ago
  Haha, I was about to start explaining how I disagreed*
  
  .. Do you think that a guy wold EXPECT someone to be on board, or just hope that they would - well, you can't speak for everyone, but you could speculate*
  
  Also, do you think guys think of it as something EVERYONE likes ^^....
  
  .....Or do they look at it as someone doing them a favor*, or something they deserve* -depending on what happened* before that particular move?
  
  I am just curious, what kind of thought goes into it - if any. haha
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Nakor

Over a year ago

he put your hand there so he's clearly asking, so you should either do somthing or do nothing. being blueballed is horrible .i do like a bit of a tease tho so personalay I wouldn't mind if you just did a liitle so long as it actually was a 'we will continue this later' kind of thing, but if you do that be clear that you will help the poor fellow vent some steam later on

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  Over a year ago
  Do not have hang ups about sex, which I am beginning to think he does not.. He has hangups about OTHER things lol, but not sex^
  - So I ws wondring if aguy would see that as an anti -intimate move or an intimate one - he is not shallow &most things he does is pretty well thought out..It is not that I think he did it without thinking ,cause it was REAL SLOW & GENTLE, just wondering WHAT he was thinking.. I know guys do not THINK while their Penis is- supposedly,-probably a vague thout at least^
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  Over a year ago
  As before, he would be ok with just kissing , but maybe that is not the reason he feels he needs more, & I guess now that I think about it, it only happened ONCE that we kissed without lying down & I guess grinding, but back then I just thought that was a COINCIDENCE^ lol.
  
  I guess I am wondering, that if you - a guy- REALLY LIKED A GIRL, he would be more careful about that, or he would not see that as insulting.. I could see som people thinking that is actually an intimate move^ People who do
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  Over a year ago
  I know he is attracted to me, & likes me & we have already fooled around, & he kissed me when we barely knew each other, so it is something else.. I mean it only happened once when it was late & he had to get ready for work, or wanted to go to sleep cause he was trying to be a FRIEND, & once when he was real upset ^
  
  - We used to fool around all the time without having sex or me giving him a hand job, that the only thing that makes it strange, I can't help thinking, if he LIKED me as much as-
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  Over a year ago
  Tanks that was VERY descriptive & very helpful, & I appreciate you taking the time,:-)
  
  -The thing about not wanting to kiss cause it won't go anywhere, sooo guys have to have it go somewhere?
  
  I mean that is what I was wondering about, would you rather NOT kiss if you will get nothing else? I don't think it sounds hrorible just depends where you're at I guess. I was just wondering, if a guy figures it is not a good idea to go further, would he make up an excuse for NOT WANTING TO KISS?
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  Over a year ago
  Mess he's going to make. be prepared to get some on your hand tho (or you could use a condom, but I prefer to have the girls hand directly on me).
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  Over a year ago
  But basic advice, use a firm grip NOT a hard one your not trying to choke it to death haha that way you get some decent friction and he gets a decent feeling, and stroke reasonably fast. not as fast as you can but a decent pace, save top speed for when he's coming. then go balisitic, and you will rock his world. ask him to tell you when he is coming so you can get ready, I used an old pair of boxershorts to catch the mess, so your hand and his junk will all be inside the shorts to contain the
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  But yeah just try and communicate so you both know where things are headed, just let him know you will start doing these things when your ready and not before (stock standard common sense advice really). when you do start I suggest you get him naked so therse nothing in the way, and at night in bed with the lights off...taking it sloooow. for the actual technique (hard/light, slow/fast) well youd use a combination of everything I guess, but it depends on what he likes, so you have to experiment.
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  Over a year ago
  Asking for you to do something for him, and he seems to have done it in a pretty nice and respectful way rather than anything forceful or blunt. but eventually after a while when nothing happens when your fooling around (i.e. making out) and you really want something to happen it can get frustrating so that might be why he's taken to not wanting to kiss you so much anymore, because (as sh*tty as it sounds) he might feel like he's wasting his time.
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  Over a year ago
  Really really uncomfortable, although I know a guy who reckons it hurts him physically. basically what's happening is that the boys body 'loads the gun' ready to shoot then ....nothing happens but your body is still primed and ready and trying to replace the 'bullet' loaded into the gun (haha man what a great metaphor!). like being all dressed up with no place to go.
  
  personally I like to take things slow too, but I don't think he's being a creep by moving your hand onto his junk, he is just
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  Over a year ago
  Hmm time wise that depends on how much I want it and how long its been since the last time she actually finished me off. and also it would usually be at night so id get denied then pretty much go to sleep. but id say probably an hours worrth of sulking would be my top limit but if it keeps happening it can build up and id just get stay mad for ages (like days at a time) and it would affect everything I do, id even be short with my friends and lecturers. and I wouldn't call it painful, but its
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Ok with just kissing.
  
  Is it worse to do a little if it does not go all the way^ Would that be a reason why a guy might be extra sketchy about doing ANYTHING physical?
  
  (I have not done very much & as far as sex goes I am not against it but it is NOT a need for me right now, & I would much rather go slow the do something dumb... The thing about it is I really have no problem with most things but HE gets weird & then I feel WEIRD & THEN I think of why. He talks too much while kissing - haha
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Worse off id like lets say a girl started turning things SLIGHTLY physical but had not intended to do anything INTENSE lol Try again. Ok. Is it better for a guy to have NO fooling around if he is USED to sex, & he will NOT be getting any - most likely^ (I have never had sex, & to me a kiss is a kiss, but things can get confusing real quick when people are at totally dif. levels^
  
  I mean how painful is it if you are young & used to sex, & REALLY attracted to someone who maybe leaving soon, & is
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  I'm not trying to tease him, I am actually trying to think of it as ok. I am worried since everyone keeps saying it is inappropriate of him, then what would that make ME? Plus I would always be surprised . But I still want to know, do you mean time as in a day or an hour... I mean how long do guys stay angry once that happens, & THANK YOU for explaining the mental thing. That makes A LOT OF SENSE & it helps explain what happened after^
  
  - Also, can you tell me if he or you or a guy would be
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  Over a year ago
  Welll the time frame is up to you haha, how much do you want to sweat him out? blueballs can be physical for some boys, but for me its mostly a mental thing, its very frustrating and can make me very unreasonable and angry. being teased is one thing, but being messed around with is another. I don't think the girl making the first move is bad, I mean if the boy can do it why can't the girl?
  
  you can only get experience from practice, if you want to do it, ask him to show you how its not very
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  This idea that being that direct might be seen as um, too aggressive?
  
  honestly I really have no problem with except the obvious one that I don't know what to do with it lol, but lots of people including guys seem to thin it is HORRIBLE^ Now I guess I should have said ' what does it mean to the GUY' not to your moral code cause I really can't get an answer without someone saying ' it;'s wrong he is a pig etc' & I do not think that at all - well maybe two % but just cause I have NO experience^
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  Over a year ago
  Hahaha, how much later on, I mean does that make me like 'committed' lol
  
  Seriously you mean like within the hour or like that day... HOw come some say blue ball is myth, & others are like it is real & it is about the worst thing that could happen to a guy....Now being a guy, & not a stupid one, I would assume that he would figure his chances are better if he DOES NOTHING. I mean, I am not exactly - well I do not know what the word is, but we have never gone there before, & don't guys have-
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CallMeLucas

Over a year ago

If you start stroking it, it had better lead to going all the way. Otherwise that's just mean, lol

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  Over a year ago
  Whoa. . Thank You for helping. I just looked at this, & I must have confused it with another post or not slept or SOMETHING^ anyways, thanks I think your first answer was totally ok.
  
  Maybe I could have worded it, " will a guy think the same thing if he puts your hand on his crotch rather then YOU putting it on his crotch lol
  
  & maybe 'does he EXPECT the same thing he would WISH to have happen?
  
  haha. Anyways thanks for the replies^
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thanks.. Course I don't know if he is sorry or just embarrassed .. The thin that bother me was that he was 'capable' of it.. Not so much that he DID it....... You know, the fact he did not MIND.
  
  Thanks.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well if he's genuinely sorry about it then forgive and forget, I say.
  Hope I helped :)
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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  You're a black & white kind of person aren't you?
  Or maybe you have sex on you ind {Joke}
  
  I don't think it was an accident by any means, but maybe it was just with no particular purpose well ok you made your point.. U, I am not gong ti talk to him about it. He has been so hyper non physical it's funny.
  
  He is obviously trying to get the message that he feels bad about it,so I don't want to talk about it & make him feel worse, I was just wondering about it, that's all.
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  Over a year ago
  Well I can only judge by the way you describe it. And if he "intentionally put your hand on his crotch" he must want some kind of gratification. It could be a handjob or a blowjob. It doesn't matter, but he wanted some kind of pleasure. Again, I am only giving my opinion on the way its described. For all I know, it could have been accidental and not mean anything at all.
  
  Basically, it LOOKS like he wants sex. But if your entirely unsure just talk to him about it.
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  Over a year ago
  Why di guys all say it has to be sex? I meanhe us not a stpid person & if he ws confused about how he felt that does nt mean hehas tomake a stupid move - wh does it have tomean sex? It was over his pants you know that right?
  
  But you are thinking he was completely aware of what he was doing?
  
  oh, & I did not think he was necessarily using me, just when you said he could realize he was being selfish.. So that translated into using me - for me.
  
  Confused about feeling- move still makes no sense
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  Over a year ago
  Well he made a move which makes it obvious he wants sex. He may or may not be trying to use. I don't know. Or if he was honest that he doesn't want sex, he is just weird. Perhaps he doesn't even know what he wants.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Sooo, you thin he was using me, sort of,& he was aware of that?
  
  But I thought he did not WANT to go any further, that is why it is weird.. if he had not made such bog deal about it, before hand, then I would just figure he is a guy ,but he made such an issue out of us not dong ANYTHING.. Do you think that maybe while he was talking tome about not doing anything , he was already turned on, & he was trying to do 'preemptive damage control' ?
  
  Maybe he KNEW he'd loose control if we did more?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I meant that he'll probably feel embarrassed because he's being selfish. So then he would probably want to make it up to you.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  What did you mean when you said, "He will want to please you" ?
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yay! Good answer thanks..
  
  Well, I did not want him to feel stupid, it made me feel kind of stupid cause I was so surprised... I just wanted to smooth things over as harmoniously a as possible.. I can't imagine he would do that on purpose, but guys keep saying he wanted head or hand.. He is never like that, & he's been ultra careful & respectful, since then.
  
  I just assume if you like some one you'd want to be careful...
  
  I would... Maybe it's dif. with a penis.
  
  What did you mean "He -
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  If you decide to not give him a handjob he should feel like an idiot. It sounds like a really stupid thing to do. He shouldn't expect it in the first place, either.
  Most likely he'll feel embarrassed. And that's ok because he'll want to please you then. :b
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Nope. Te question said what would a guy expect if he put a girls hand no his crotch not what should she do.. I was asking what guys expect. NOt hat girls are supposed to do.. Sorry for giving ore of a question, I forgot that I did not write it.. But I asked if HE PUT HER HAND ON HIS CROTCH, I wanted to know if he'd be ok, with her just not giving him a hand job, that was what I was asking, & why/ HOW a guy could expect something that HE INITIATES?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I was just answering the question. You were really interested on how a girl should react to this, and that's what I answered. I was not referring to you, personally.
  
  Anywho, if a guy tries putting a girls hand on his crotch.... that's a little weird.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Around anyone when they 'came'.. I would not know what I should do, I mean how could I just stand there, & I don't know how intense he reacts to things.. So I was wondering if a guy could just want it stroked, or maybe he just wanted to share with me, how turned on he was?
  
  Sometimes guys just want yo to know how you make them feel right?
  
  I'm asking, BECAUSE he just finished saying he did not thik we should have sex . He covered that base, & he seemed genuinely concerned, if not convinced.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Does any one actually read the post.. I did not put my hand on anything lol. :) He sort of guided it there while we were kissing.. He did it so gently, I did not realize it till it was there. I stopped stuff right away, cause in case he would get really aroused{ he already had a very erection ^^} since I knew that I would not be comfortable with ANY KIND OF SEX.. But I was wondering what wouldhave been ok.. I mean if I was expecting that, I'd be fine playing with it, but I have never been
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mrledzep

Over a year ago

Nope, if you are going to go there then you need to finish what you started, teasing is not going to help a situation. If you want to know what a guy wants the best way to find out is to ask him

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Not saying he can't be nice if he puts your hand there, if it were me I would be searching for something else and would be in a relationship where her and I know it is ok for me to be trying to start something that way. If you start just stroking a guy the immediate reaction is hey I want to take you somewhere. If I touch a girl in a sexual manner and start rubbing her, I would expect her to think I am wanting this to go further. Its the same on the other side, If a girl touches me
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  But you sound like nice guy & above you said you would feel teased - but you mean if she put her hand there, not in reverse?
  So yo are saying if a guy does that he can't be nice?
  
  & Or, he is looking for a 'job' of sorts?
  
  Guys can not just be stroked?
  
  Why?
  
  It happens with woman all the time. A guy could touch you , & it does not mean he is going to 'finish' anything... ?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well I've never put a girls hand on my crotch unless we had been involved and were in an already sexual relationship. If a guy is putting your hand on his crotch he is looking for something more than just touching. A nice guy isn't going to say that he feels teased if you touch and stroke and nothing goes further then that, just because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  It's not teasing if you did not pt your hand there.. It's not so comfortable asking what he wants, I guess that is why he may not TELL you.
  
  'If YOU put a girls hand on your crotch' I agree things should be clear, but if she should ask, then why can;t he just tell her. Is it s obvious, I mean it's NEVER just ambiguous?
  
  People never just have there penis stroked?
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thakhon123

Over a year ago

i hate when girls do that, but ima nice guy so I let them know that its ok. usualy when you put sum1s hand on your penis you want a handjob tho

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Another time.. I've got your name- Thanks. :-)
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Friend request me, I'm going to log off, send me a message or sumthin k:)
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Nope. I am curious about this. My personal situation may have sparked it, but I would like to know how guys feel about this. If it was just my situation would ask about a particular guy & me. I want to know about the contrast of how different people see it.
  
  I undesatnd if you don't feel comfortable talking about it. But I do ot wnat info for myself. Sex is so diff. from reg life that you can't necessarily read people the same... I have discovered lots things I took for granted are not the case.
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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I think what ur trying to ask me can only be known by you...i don't know how close you and him are. go with your instincs
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  - You mean when they just stroke it but don't give an actual hand job? ..If you put their hand there, then maybe you should wait for them to do it themselves. Maybe it's not 'a NICE guy' if you put it there.. I'm not judging I am just trying to figure out both sides. Do you think you could have respect for a girl, if you put her hand there, & she gave you a hand job.. Would you do that in the beginning of a relationship, or when you know them well?
  {How do you let them 'know' it's ok?)
  Thanks
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anysound

Over a year ago

um, if its outside the pants then screw that cause it doesn't do anything and might just be uncomfortable with the zipper and all, as for slow or fast it would depend on if I'm trying to come or not at that point cause if its really fast for a good amount of time I'm gonna come and as for hard or gentle...pretty much same concept as the first answer if they are respectively together, if its slow/hard or fast/gentle it probbaly won't do much exept for a good feeling for a while until it gets repetitive, I don't see why you don't just go for it because what's really the difference between just givin the guy the full hand job or teasing him forever other than he isn't going to cum?

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Well, I guess because I've never been around someone who 'came'... I don't know what I'm supposed to do while he's like in 'abandon'.. Anyways, obviosy if I was 'planning' o playing with him I would be prepared to give him a total hand job , just in case.. The situation I was I was where he giude my hand there - it's fine I am not botherd I just really did not expect it & I wanted to know if he actually was skin me to give him a h/j, or just did it automatically & I couldhave juststroked it.
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williamright

Over a year ago

I put a girl's hand on my crotch while we made out she stroked harder and harder until man juice came out.

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yeah pretty much
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Oh. YOU men your too busy making out to think of guiding her hand anywhere for at least like thirty mn.?
  
  {In response to yo saying you' like the salty taste of a hot make out session'.}
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  It was planned spontaneity
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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  You mean you wait on purpose, till there is more' juice' ?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yes I like the salty taste of a hot make out session
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Oh, Ok. Thanks.
  
  So you think ten is kind of quick?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  About 30 mins into making out
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Are you guts still friends, or whatever you were, & how long into making out did you put it there?... Or maybe there was no making out before hand?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  I knew her for two week before this
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  How log did you know her for before that, are you friends, & how long were you making out before you did that?
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  What'd yah do after -- Tissues? :-)
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ironman52241

Over a year ago

alll of the above BUT for me I'm ok if it was just a touch or lingering touch because I know at some point it won't be once she see what's in store for her

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bigdanny

Over a year ago

if you stroke his **** a little there's nothing worse than not being jerked off to completion, if he puts your hand on his crotch and you move away straight away that's fine, but if you start you have to finish, hope that helps a bit ! x

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  I did not mean to say she HAS - or I HAVE to , I am really just trying to get a sense of what guys normally expect, or what usually happens, when you did not have an elaborate discussion prior.. Honestly, I did not want to talk about anythig. My choice was eother just stay & continue with stuff I was more comfortable with - which might have made him feel weird, or just explain 'I HAD TO GO ' - which would make us both feel a little dissapointed, but at least it would be for the SAME reason.
- Julian
  Over a year ago
  #bigdanny,
  
  "if you start you have to finish"?? I don't think so. No girl or woman HAS to do anything, and is free to change her mind about doing something once it has started. Do GUY'S finish what they start when touching girls and women's genitals? Not from what girls and women tell me! So why the double standard? It's not cool to imply any female "HAS" to do something. Please check your words and advice. If she stops, you can finish the job yourself, right?
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yes. That s what I have been asking F. O. R. E. V. E. R. Not, is it ok? "Will he still like me?" "Is it too soon?" " Does he REALLY like me?" Or, " How do I give a blow job" Or " Is it ok if I put my hand there? " Will he like it if I pt my hand there? " " Does he expect sex if I put my hand there?". ETC. I want to know if a GUY puts a girls hand his crotch, what is he most likely expecting & is he ok if she JUST strokes it without having an orgasm,& if NOT what should she do?
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stevenmakaveli

Over a year ago

Well if I was with a girl for 1 night stand and I put Her hand on my d*** I would want Her to start jaking me off a bit then after that expect to get some HEAD from Her. But if I put Her hand on my d*** and she just moved away I would think strait away that she wasn't going to have sex or give me HEAD .

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- rdabby
  Over a year ago
  Yeah you re sure selfish stevenmakaveli, you don't just want a hand job you also want a blow job after that, yet you didn't even mention anything about eating her out or doing anything for her.... Cmon!!
  With that attitude, trust me all what you re ever going to get is a One Night Stand!
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Wow Julien, I neve heard of that? How can someone force them to give them head, I mean doesn't the guy sort of have a compromised position?
  Is it like shoving her head so hard that she almost chokes kind of thing?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  YEA ok
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- Julian
  Over a year ago
  @stevenmakaveli,
  
  I hear those are your expectations, and I get why you have them. I think what you express is very normal and typical. And I'd just like you to keep in mind that you ought to be willing to do the same. So if you put your hand on her crotch, please be prepared to also go down on her, if she welcomes you too, and please don't expect her to give you head. She's not obligated to, and that expectation can lead to coercion and oral rape. I've heard about it happening too many times.
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jon123

Over a year ago

hand job blow job and sex but if not its fine

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yeah well if you was to do it to me I would would feel that you wanted to so you did and I would be pleased with any of them
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Of course, I would not do it if I did not want to, I was just wondering how guy would FEEL about it.. not even how the would respond.. But what they think & feel about situations like tat . Yah, I know MAJOR generalization but well even within that different views still help.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yeah and if you don't want to do it at all that would be ok he would have to get over it
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  Over a year ago
  You mean it is reasonable to expect all, but one would be ok?
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Subotai

Over a year ago

Well I don't tend to just put a girls hand there but if I did it would be obvious what I wanted. Well If a girl purposefully touches is only to tease that could be a little irritating. If she unzips his zipper and whips it out there's almost a humanitarian code of ethics that require she go through with at least a handjob, a perfectly asseptable and enjoyable thing. If a girl took mine out with no intention of sex or a blowjob or a handjob at all It would make me angry and frusturated. Blue balls may not be deadly like some teenage boys lie and it can't be triggered that bad by just kissing this could trigger some serious and irritating blue balls

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Haha actually not - I grew up in a city that somehow had this 11 year old girl- radar
  -Suddenly, I could not go anywhere without getting the request of what you just said ether verbally, with their eyes or some other physical gesture. lol
  
  I always assume guys want it & if they really like you, it would make them want it less -
  lol clearly a conglomeration of bad movies & personal projection.
  
  The stronger feeling I have for a guy the LESS they need to do have an impact on me in a major way^^
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  We always want to. would you like to be approached on the bus or at school or at work by a man that said well I caught a glimpse of your t*ts and ass and I would like to f*** you if you would be alright with that. Perhaps you can get down on are knees suck me and then bend over. Too forward. Well that's what all men your dad your brothers all your male friends ur trusted male teacher/church leader, Gandhi all men want to say and do. And yet they don't Timing self control hard to believe huh
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  That last comment you made was really helpful. How long had you guys been going out, & did you eventually do it?
  
  We agreed not to do anything more then kiss, because it had taken us so long to be friends & he said he did not want to mess that up.. Do you think it Is horrible for him to make that move, after he said he did not think we should?
  I did not think so cause, I d k I just felt like he was confused & I was not being clear. -I hope he was not lying about not want to do more then kiss
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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  It starts to hurt emotionally not physically we can always jack off to our favorite "movie" at home after a night of bluballs. Hopefully the guy likes her personality but he is also crazy about her physically. If she holds out forever it starts to feel like the woman may like you or find you reliable but doesn't find you sexy and/or doesn't really want to please you. It makes a guy feel ugly in a way. I had a girlfriend who was a "virgin" and it sucked
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Makes sense... And, morally, everyone is supposed to be ok, with the slowest person... But morality not withstanding, how comfortable can a guy be when he is hoping for sex, & gets stuck at 2nd. Base.. D you think NOT going as far as you want, is comparable to going FARTHER hen you want?... How bad does it actually feel to not have sex. Is it just 'blue b'. Or does it have a greater overall impact? Can you compare it to anything else of importance?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well if he puts your hand there he's being a little impatient. Maybe he is hoping you want to do that but your shy. Well if you don't you don't. If you put your hand there than yeah it seems only fair to help seem him through to some kinda "happy ending" but if he puts your hand there. Well its up to you. Men vary there are certainly some who try tp push too much too quickly all I'm saying is the more patient guys want the same thing as the impatient ones in the end
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  - be ok with just continuing lie 2nd. base, or is it too frustrating after tat.. I want to know, how serious a cry is it, if a guy actually puts your hand on his crotch, instead of just waiting for you to find it yourself.. & Is he doing to 1.Let you know its ok, 2. He 's asking for sex ,3. he just wants you to play with it & he does not think you will get there yourself? :-) Do you think it is giving direction, request or permission? #2 & 3. Are awkward cause they are presumptuous.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Ha, ha. It' when you went on the moralistic tangent.. I was asking bout what a guy might be inferring from a situation.. then you said 'openminded', so it had me think abaout what it s that I think of when a guy 'expresses' deire for sex.. & I thought that I like not moralising about it. Sex is sex, but I still am a bit suspicious, tho I do not wantto be... The original question was along the lines of, if you guys are making out & he guides your hand to his crotch, can he -
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yeah we are all a bit "scarred"by previous relationships. We can't help subconsciously seeing all women or all men as the same person. I am not sure where this conversation is at but it started out with hot arm around shoulder making out hand on d*** poking up shirts moments on the couch with a sweetie and all that wonderful electricity and excitement and nervousness in the air.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Hmmm.. The thong you are talking aout is very inteesting t me. I know tat I will - despite my self , I consider that perhaps a guy JUST wants sex, if he expresses an interest I it. I do not like that I get so suspicious with a person that I really like - I resent it really.. It makes communicating difficult.. It is always a fine line between 'not thinking too much' & 'Not 'naive'... Certainly, I would ALWAYS prefer,things in the open, as it is not my AIM to reject- Just to be responsible.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well its a good thing you are so open minded. A lot of girls are weird kinda moralistic. they want a man to want them sexually but will say he's just using them if he expresses. A lot of girls want to play games with mens hormones and hearts. Why I don't know but rejection hurts, so men are a little less direct. Because women tend to be a lot indirect Just like some men brag about sexual conquests some women brag about how many men they grabbed their heart and/or balls and broke them
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thank YOU. Very helpful.- Ha, ha.You said I should make my intentions clear early on, which I do not love the idea..Then you said guys can't just say 'let's have sex'. I think whoever knows they def. want sex, should say 'let's have sex'.. Least for myself, it won't make me like the person less, or want to have sex in the future less. Come right out & say it... Matter of fact I think I woud appreciate thoughts confirmed.. I can assume someone wants sex, but you never know - even with guys.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Its automatic guys always want sex. If we could we would have sex with about three good looking women on the bus on the way to school and then with our hot teacher and you get the idea. Want to and a good time are two different things. Its complicated becasue we can't tell very well what women want with men its more obvious
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  So, would guy assume that a girl knows he rally wants to have sex when he said eh does not not.
  Like. I was not supposed to believe him--I feel like an idiot - ha, ha. case he obviously seemed physically like he wanted to, but he said it was not a good idea.. But why don't you guys just say you want to? As long as your not a pig abut it, what's the problem?
  
  If I had known in a prticular situation, at leat icould have thought about it.. Instead everything got really complicated.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  "Sooo, he is just saying no, but if the girl seems to want sex he will immediately be ok with it?" the answer to this is yes. A guy is always testing the waters for when its gonna happen. There are times when a man don't want to have sex I assumed you were talking about a relationship where you hadn't had it yet. The answer to your first question is yes. The third one about making out, tell him what you want or don't want early on is best. And a handjob is a handjob and greatly appreciated
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yes, I guess that's what I am saying.. Can a guy go from wanting to have sex, to settling for less? Also... There must be some occasion where guys DON'T want to have sex.. Are you saying that if a guy says he does not want to have sex, he is just being polite?
  Sooo, he is just saying no, but if the girl seems to want sex he will immediately be ok with it?
  And, I want to know how to NOT make him assume I want sex, just cause we make out.. What he think a hj is a prelude to sex - a green light?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Im a little confused are you saying guys should just come out and say wanna f*** and then you can say no but lets have fun anyway. Lol well all guys wanna f*** those that take their time are just trying to be polite or smooth or whatever. We don't assume you just wanna f*** we don't know. Men vary I am pretty patient some aren't. I think giving a handjob after a lot of teasing playing around is good and something any man should enjoy its a release. If he complains that's a problem with him
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Question, but , why can't you stop & say 'wanna f***' ? I am just asking cause I have been in that situation, where I would not mind giving a guy a hand job, but not want sex, & I would not want to give the idea that I want sex, just by giving him a hand job...I mean if he does not say what he wants, I assume he wants sex, then I have to break it up..Where as if he did not then we could still play...So, is there any way to let a guy know you'll go this far bu not sex,without saying anything?
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thank You! That makes perfect sense &it sounds VERY reasonable & not at all creepy - It does not sound creepy right? I me not when you already with the person& making out & al... it's not like some guy just comes up & does that & if they do it very slowly too, it gives you time to pull away& if its on top of cloths then its even less creepy.. It's like asking for thing to go further right? But not necessarily sex, or maybe sex, that part I don't know at all... This might sound like a dumb
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  1 he's horny. Maybe he thinks you want to too so he wants to get it started. I mean I find the moments when a guy and a girl are sitting kissing cuddling holding hands and its just on the edge of something sexual and there's tension there that's very exciting. Our intentions are obvious but we don't know yours we can't just say matter of factly "hey wanna f***" We want to ask subtly so a rejection will hurt less and not ruin the time together or future chances
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Ha, ha. Ok well I guess you woud not put your hand there.. I want to know what someone would be EXPECTING if they did that - not the girl. I don't mean like forced or anything like that. Just sort of subtle.
  Put it this way, what would provoke a guy to do that - I don't mean that he was necessarily enticed, just what sort of want would elicit that response.... I know not everyone is the same that I why I am asking different people?
  It just may not be something you do.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Well if I put her hand there I cannot expect her to automatically have sex with me that would be like rape. If she intentionally puts her hand there I am expecting at least a handjob
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yes, I understand you do not put a hand there randomly. I mean if you guys were making out, & you instinctually guided her hand there} "It would be obvious what yo wanted" Did you mean sex, or just that at the time it would be obvious, whatever it happened to be?
  Umm, if YOU guide HER hand there, then would yo be irritated if she ddi not do anything with it. Cold you just continue making out without that? { What if she did not know what to DO with it? Ha, ha. But seriously ? }
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wanacot

Over a year ago

Typically if a guy is putting your hand there it's because he wants something. Whether that something is a handjob or sex entirely depends on the guy and the situation. Pretty much every guy is going to be disappointed if you stroke it a bit then move away. However, your limits are your own so do not do anything you're not comfortable with.

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thanks.
  & Course I will not do anything I am not comfortable with, but I also don't want to make him uncomfortable because of that.
  If it was a spur of the moment thing, talking would be kinda REALLY awkward.. I did not want to do anything that would inspire too much thinking- we have a problem with that already.. We both way over think things, so I was trying to find a more neutral response, which is hard since I had NO idea what he wanted... We kind of agreed not to go that far {his idea} -?
- Julian
  Over a year ago
  Great answer, wanacot! To the questioner: I would assume a guy wants some action if he puts your hand on his crotch. And I hear you saying that you're not so comfortable with bringing him to orgasm through a handjob, and if so, I recommend you ask him if you can play with his d*ck a bit, but not necessarily to do any more than that. And ask what he's open to, but as wanacot says, only do what you enjoy! And learn from sites like Make Love, Not Porn. Let someone know if you're new at something.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Also, what if a girl just did not know what to do? Could you just go back to making out without that or would it kind of kill things?
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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Thank You... Just curious. & Yah, of course I would not do some thing I was not comfortable with.. Somehow if I did, it seems disrespectful to him as well, I am not sure why .... I also wanted to know what a guy expects because , while I do not mind touching him there, I've never been around anyone having an orgasm, & I would worry about making him feel uncomfortable, cause I might get uncomfortable. So I l would not do it if he was expecting HAND JOB... - May have problem talking after.

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SIS21703

Over a year ago

ok first off just because a girl strokes your penis doesn't mean she is going to give you some I left plenty of guys with blue balls especially the one's that was bold enough to just put my hand there in he doesn't even no me like that I show him by stroking it real good then leaving him there with a hard penis lol so good luck at that nasty boy.

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Oh I get it lol :-)
  
  & Good pont, I don't see why you can't ask....Also, she may not want to have sex but might be ok with fooling around- it makes it very confusing.
  
  I guess they don't ask because
  1.they do not want to think about what they really want.
  2 she might say no. lol
  
  "No matter what when you take her hand ask her is it ok if I place my penis see what she says and yes "
  
  Do you really leave with blue balls on purpose..like you rub it to make them Suffer?
  What do you say when you leave?
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  No matter what when you take her hand ask her is it ok if I place your hand on my penis see what she says and yes all guys are nasty be it in public or behind closed doors you know what I mean jerking, p*rn etc.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yes and no to being rude who should put it there if you touch it in he didn't ask you to and he said what are you doing then you would look dumb and fast-- So are you saying it is equally rude for him to put it her hand there without asking, as it would be for a girl to to put it there without asking?
  
  What if he did it cause he trusts her, like if they had known each other a long time- years?
  
  & lol not ALL guys are nasty ha ha
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  Over a year ago
  Yes and no to being rude who should put it there if you touch it in he didn't ask you to and he said what are you doing then you would look dumb and fast. No this doesn't happen to me often when I was younger it happened more often but guys are just nasty
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Lol .....so you think I should have made him feel good, then left?
  
  >does that happen to you often- that a guy just puts it there?
  
  do you think in all cases it is rude?

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