So I am having an affair with a guy who has a live in girlfriend. We had sex only once but we talk just about everyday. I know nothing could ever come out of this. He has his life. I feel like I am holding on to this. Another guy friend of mine is single and has offered a casual(sex) relationship with me. I am not looking for anything serious with anyone. No one knows about the relationship I have with my guy friend and I like it like that being discreet. But I know its wrong because he has a girlfriend. If I decide to have this relationship with this other guy there could be consequences. He could brag to the whole world about it, he may want something serious because he is single. You know I don't know what to do.
Affairs are ugly, real ugly and wrong. Say you are married for example. If you would be highly upset if your man was cheating, then it is equally wrong for you to get involved with someone else's property. Plenty of single, available and willing GOOD men to have a sex-fling with out there than to get it on with another woman's boyfriend or hubby. This can and could easily lead to something dangerous if not homicidal. Seen it happen before: violent wife killed a man I knew in the Army for cheating. NO fun. This is not a rare occurrence either.
I strongly urge you to break off all contact with guy with the girlfriend. Find a single mature man with a good head on his shoulders and knows about discretion and how to run a sex-fling.
I'd put the relationship with the other guy on hold for awhile unless it reaches the point where you know for absolutely certainty that he won't talk with ANYONE! Even if he does, well the guy with the girlfriend should he ever find out, can decide what HE wants to do. Besides he has a girlfriend anyway and he can then just sit pat or leave her. Up to him. Either way you can just "walk! "! I'd keep both relationship very casual regardless how much sex is involved just so that there's not any excessive emotional attachments attached to anyone. I can tell you'd enjoy both so just keep everything as discrete as possible! By the way, why would this other guy "brag"? Tell him it's "shush" or not at all!
I think the discrete relationship is not meant to be... To be honest...try to imagine if that was you in the position of his girlfriend. Not to cool right?
Well you have a chance to do better and I'd say do that...but first, make sure he understands you don't want a relationship with anyone at the moment. Understanding & Comfort always makes the situation better.
Make sure you have both of those with the single guy, and everything SHOULD be alright. Just don't you go falling in love with that penis, because if he wants someone else, it could be over for you and him. Good Luck
Stop it all. First with the guy who has a girlfriend. Girl, why would you do that? I almost had sex with a guy who was already taken but couldn't because for one he would be just using me for sex. 2. Its selfish and wrong 3. Disrespectful to the girlfriend. I guess you didn't care but its best to fool around with someone single. FWB's stuff. At leas its safe that way. Now the guy who wants casual sex. Do that. Have fun but let him know thas all itll be. If he still wants more, move on. - 6 months ago
Well, your behavior with the guy is risky and if you believe in karma, then you may be blocking your own blessings. I would say have a casual sex relationship with a single guy who can handle it and won't ask for anything more than you are willing to give. Good Luck.
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