Is it bad?

If you want to have sex and the man is ok with it, then go for it. You feel comfortable with him and know for sure that this nothing more than a booty call yet are ok with this. Therefore, it should be ok. Who's to say that this will only happen in a one-night-stand? You could be the love of his life. If he sees that, he just may want to keep you forever. Never turn down sex with a man you feel comfortable with and agree on no taking it further. You know what you are doing as does he. After all, you are not having sex with just anybody and everybody.

Sex is a good thing and always have been. I commend you on not waiting until marriage.
I wish the best for you and hope he turns out to be a pleasurable experience.

A slut sleeps with multiple people so by fulfilling your physical needs, you are still not a slut.

For the guy below, the double standard only exists because the term "slut" is generally applied to women. If a guy bangs 5 chicks or a chick bangs 5 guys, they are both "players." You only see yourself as "the man" but you would just be lacking morals and still be a slut.

Let me ask you this, if the same thing were happening to your husband, while you were pregnant with a second child, would you find it acceptable? Trust me, this is unhealthy behavior that will deteriorate. If you want affection, talk to your parents, together, about the fact that you need affection that is healthy. It may be a hard subject to talk about, but my experience indicates that too many fathers are afraid of their daughters, leaving them to seek affection and affirmation elsewhere. Your parents should negotiate with you so you can receive the affection you need from them, in a healthy manner, until you find a man who is worthy, and respectful enough, to earn a place in your heart. Until a man earns that place through respect and honor, he doesn't deserve the privilege or touching you in such intimate ways. You are, by the fact you are asking this question, far to precious to let someone take advantage of you like this.

Part one: you are definitely not a slut. The fact that there's a double standard out there which says that I can go out tonight and bang 5 chicks and be the man but if you do it your a slut is just wrong. Your a big girl, you have the right to do whatever makes you happy and if your friends feel otherwise they're not really your friends. My only worry with this situation is that judging by your language you seem to be looking for some kind of connection ("I guess it makes me feel wanted") which leads me to believe this is a dangerous set up for you. If he's taking the place of a meaningful emotional relationship in your life, which it seems he is, don't get tricked. When he finds someone else you'll feel empty and he'll feel fine.

Know way! He is using you! What part of that do you like. You deserve a guy that cares for you not in a sexual manner.

Nothing wrong with that at all. Everyone has their sexual needs and sometimes they're conveniently met by someone who you don't want to be in a relationship with or someone that you don't even necessarily love. As long as both of you are on the same page that it's just sex, then there's no reason to stop yourself. Just make sure you both have the same idea, because if either of you thinks that it's more than just sex, then you're risking disaster. Be safe, have fun.

Totally up to you, in every way.

Just remember. The path you choose, you will have to live with.

Answers: (1) No, it doesn't make you a slut, but (2) if you know he is "using" you, seek another man who will LOVE you.

You will find this infinitely more rewarding. There is only One love for you out there, but it is the one you will choose, if that makes any sense (at your age).

Thats exactly how I feel. it feels nice when he rubs my legs and back but I'm afraid if I have sex with him ill end up feeling used and I don't want to feel that way.

You know he only wants you for sex so get it out of your head that he is rubbing your thighs because you are wanted. He is trying to get you horny so you will screw him. He doesn't care about you. If you are just looking for a hookup then this is good for you. If you are looking for something meaningful then you need to go pursue that with someone willing to give that to you. This guy isn't it. And no. It doesn't make you a slut in the least.

Definitely not
I have a friend who is in the same position basically just friends with benefits and at first it was like whatever but now people think she is easy and every time a guy likes her it ends up that he only wants to get in her pants. Come on girl there's a guy out there somewhere for you that will treat you right and not just want to get it your selling yourself short you could do way better