How important is it for a guy to please a woman?

To me, sex is way hotter when I know that I'm getting the girl off. If she isn't enjoying it, then it's not pleasurable for me. Obviously, I like getting my fair share of things, but without it being good for her, it's hard for me to really get into it. I like to think of it as building on itself. The hotter it is for her, the hotter it is for me, and hopefully vice versa. If she wasn't enjoying it at all, it would be pretty hard for me to get off.

Pleasing the woman must be the most important goal for men. If he is a lousy lay or merely gets his own pleasure, the woman can and will spread the word around and he is pretty much not going to find another partner soon, particularly if he lives in a small community. Besides, never know if your current partner could be your last. May as well make the most of it, can't have sex all the time.

I have the best time during sex for the simple fact that I'm doing it so pleasing me is quite easy for women. As aforementioned, I don't get to have sex anytime I want so I go thru every effort to make sure she enjoys it more so than I. Never know what kind of extra perks may come of this if I'm really good to her. Should never walk away from sex disappointed.

I put her needs before mine just so I won't get kicked off the bed when I am through pleasing myself by penetrating her or after she sucks me off. So to answer your questions, somewhat important.

Younger guys in general don't care; older guys are much better at making women come. The only time I ever came in college is when I did a threesome with my boyfriend and his roommate, and the whole atmosphere wound up arousing me. But other than that, I had to wait until I dated a guy over 30 to consistently get good orgasms from a guy.