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Are you still a virgin if you have dry sex?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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Answer dis question respectfully. I go to church, I was just wondering.

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quietbutsexyman
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quietbutsexyman (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Yes you're a virgin if you just grope around with a guy. don't worry about the church too much...they're way too hard on you guys. just have fun, be safe, and don't engage in any behavior that can hurt you physically or more importantly, emotionally. that should be enough to keep your conscience clear.
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Quackpotty (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
No. Dry sex is still sex. The only dif between dry sex and sex normally is that the vagina is dry. That also makes it potentially very painful and also more dangerous for spreading some STI's.

That is unless I'm mistaking what dry sex is. Isn't dry sex intercourse with full penetration but where you dry the vagina out first? In some South African cultures (I'm South African, but not my culture) there is a superstition that says that if your wife gets wet in sex she has been unfaithful, so many women dry their vaginas out with old tea bags. They don't realize the potential dangers of that. It's highly ignorant, and sad as it means that many women don't enjoy sex.

The way that some people here seem to describe dry sex it makes it sound as if it's supposed to be with clothes on or with no penetration at all. I wouldn't call that dry sex, but rather heavy petting or just grinding or something like that. If this is the case of what you meant, then I'd say that you need to ask yourself where sex starts. For some they say that they lose their virginity when they break their hymen or when a guy gives penetration the first time. For other people, sex starts and therefore virginity is lost long before then. They say that it's when they're throwing clothes off.

You say that you go to church. I'll take it from that view. The Bible says that it starts with that first lustful look, or at least your heart is already committing the act when you first have your eyes bugging out of your head and your jaw hitting the floor. Sounds hectic, I know, but that's what it says (my paraphrase, anyway).

You just need to decide when sex starts, because that's when you lose your virginity IMHO. Just know that if you are pregnant, I don't think you're a virgin anymore. If you've never so much as touched a naked guy, you still own your virginity.
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Question Asker Well are you still a virgin if you jus touch and no boot shorts come off? - 4 months ago
Answerer I'd say so. That can just be making out. Personally I think that you lose your virginity when you give consent to penetrate. As far as the bible goes, though, in your heart you lose your virginity long before then. If he's groping and you accept that, then I'd say that that's when the bible would say you've given your virginity away. - 3 months ago

ilovelegs
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ilovelegs (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I'd say technically "yes" and honestly "no" So I'd say whichever answer you're looking for answers your question. Actually, that's a tough question. If I was a girl I'd wanna say I'm still a virgin.
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bigbear (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
If the penis goes into your vagina. Guess what!
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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
It depends on your definition. One of the original definitions I came across of virgin was lat a virgin is a woman who was in control of her sexuality. Are you?
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BugginMint
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BugginMint (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Yeah, definitely need penetration to swipe the v card.
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Question Asker The words you use make me laugh. - 4 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Yes. Until you have penetration and rip that hymen in your vagina, you are considered a virgin.
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Lis4Loca
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Lis4Loca (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Because there is no clear definition to being a virgin besides clearly having sex, it is up for you to decide what makes you a virgin or not. Some people view oral sex as sex and if you have given oral sex you are no longer a virgin, so it's all up to you. I say when you have consensual sex you are no longer a virgin.
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holder1396
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holder1396 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Ya pretty much
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
To tell you the truth I'm not sure.
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Caramel
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Caramel (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Technically , you are still one , But In the Church Meaning then No you are not. Because you are experience physical pleasure with a man /women although you are not married to this person therefor you are fornicating!

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Question Asker How do you know? Are you married? - 4 months ago

tammymac
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tammymac (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
Yer still a virgin honey, you're not going to hell yet lol
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wildd "you're not going to hell yet. " lmfao - 4 months ago
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