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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant?

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snazzy (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant? I don't know the words to tell him. And is it still ok for me to be having sex when I'm 4 months pregnant?

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FATMAC (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
You new the words while you where having sex. Oh yes, oh baby,ANYWAYS you need to step up to the plate and tell him not matter how it comes out sweet hart you just need to.
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johnny19hundredand88
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johnny19hundredand88 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You definitely need to tell him. He is the father of your child. It may freak him out but he needs to know
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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Just like you told your mother you will need to tell your boyfriend. It isn't fair to him not to.

Do they teach birth control where you are from? I'm not being sarcastic here, just curious.

Yes, it is safe to continue having sex with him. You can't get pregnant at the moment again. You will need to be little careful as you progress, but you should be able to know based on how it feels for you. If it hurts stop.
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Question Asker Yes they do teach us about birth control and condoms. I was a stubborn child when I learned about it. I don't know what to do about school. I don't want to drop out do I have to. I want to be a doctor someday. I don't think the pregnancy is helping. But thanks for the advice. - 3 months ago
Answerer Dropping out of school depends on the support you can get to help take care of the child. If you truly want to be a doctor you can still do it. You will just have to work a little harder. You have chosen a difficult path and my hat is off to you if you can do it. I do know people who have gone back to school while in their 40's and received a law degree. You can do it. Go for it. - 3 months ago
Question Asker I will try. - 3 months ago
Answerer There is no try there is only do. Take try out of your vocabulary and you will see that the world works for you instead of working you. - 3 months ago
Question Asker It is hard to say "i will" when I'm afraid. - 3 months ago
 

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jessi-rabbit08
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jessi-rabbit08 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Just tell him,

If he really truly cares about you then he will be there for you through it all.
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deefacex3 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
You should tell him like everyone said, it'll be fair. But I don't think you should have sex. How would the baby feel inside? Besides, your body especially your breasts and your vagina are probably adapting to the incoming baby, such as breast milk, and your vagina slowly getting bigger and bigger for the baby to come out in 5 months. If you really want to do it anyways, it might hurt because when your breasts "erect" or whatever it's called, it'll probably develop some breast milk. And your vagina glands will probably hurt a little.
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dakadan In my experience with pregnant women this is really not the case and in fact during the last two months my wife was more horny than she had been in a long time. If your breasts hurt as a result of having sex then stop. If they don't then continue. Same goes with your vagina. - 3 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Thats a hard situation but you need to tell him. I notice you are under 18 so it won't be easy you got to do it. good luck . I hope you and your bf have dated for a while and can come up with a plan.
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jackf (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
First tell your parents. You're under 18? You're going to need all the help you can get from them! Then you just have to tell your boyfriend. The words are "I'm pregnant, I'm having the baby, we need to discuss a plan for the future. " After you have the baby get on birth control stat.
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Suzannehope21 Just to add after you have the baby and get on birth control. STAY ON IT! Not trying to be rude, but this is what my 18 year old cousin is going though she has 2 kids. (we are also from Oklahoma) - 3 months ago

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holder1396 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well you have to tell your boyfriend sooner or later you know and if he truly cares about you and he will be understanding and about the mom thing when she see's how cute that new baby his her heart will turn to gold. Good luck. And no don't have sex that's what got you into this LOL!
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