Is it necessary?

It should be the same for both. I love it when they shave down stairs also. I mean I don't want hair in my mouth do you.

Have you told him that you want him to shave down there too?

Well, I find it necessary just because of hygienic reasons. It feels cleaner and just better. Also more likely to not smell bad. You don't have to wax or shave it all, just the parts closest, on the inner part of the outer labia.

It kind of is fair, since guys hair isn't as close or bothersome as girls. And it doesn't cause any problems with being clean. But if he wants his balls sucked on, I say he better shave or trim!

Tell him you aren't shaving or waxing again until he does.

But let me just say it is THE HOTTEST THING EVER when guys ASK to go down. Ohhhh my godddddddd. Haha. So hot!

"I just can't be bothered most of the time? " if you just shave the necessary parts, it takes less time than it does to rinse your hair!