Not every time, but most of the time when me and my boyfriend have sex I have more than one orgasm. I think it's because we switch positions during sex which changes the pressure and where he comes in contact with me.
I've had sequences of them... it sort of feels like waves. later ones have always been better than earlier ones if I'm getting multiples from clitoral stimulation, or about even if it is triggered internally.
Unfortunately, no guy has ever succeeded in figuring out exactly how to do this for me... I can't figure out why. not to say I haven't had great orgasms with various guys, but never a sequence of them. closest I've gotten is separate ones the same night... Have to work more on this...
Are you saying that that was only from masturbation? It's sad that no guy has been able to give that to you. What about through oral (see archer86's answer) stimulation? - 4 months ago
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I think there is a big difference between having a sequence of orgasms (like waves without any down time) and having a lot of orgasms the same night (with down times). Girls generally seem to have shorter down times, so maybe some guys aren't clear about this distinction. And yes,i've only ever had lots of orgasms with a guy's hands,mouth or cock,and never had sequences that are almost like one long orgasm any way other than masturbation. Not sad,the singles with someone else are better in a way - 4 months ago
I answered regularly, but really occasionally would be more accurate. Like maybe once every other month.
As for technique, I don't know, I've had them doing different things. It seems like it's more mental and just about how into it I am. The last time it happened was when he was being really rough with me. I'm not always into that, but that day I wanted it so bad and he just got it perfectly. It was really intense and I couldn't even tell how many times I came.
Was that any better (or more special) than the times where you only have one sweet orgasm? - 4 months ago
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Oh yeah. I mean that's great too, but it only lasts like 30 seconds or so and this is way longer. - 4 months ago
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Sheesh! For a guy it's over in 20 seconds or so. How long is the longest you've had? - 4 months ago
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Not sure. I think it probably seems longer than it actually is. For just one, maybe like a minute and a half? I mean I know that when we've come at about the same time my boyfriend is done way before me.
For multiple I really don't know. It starts and stops and I've really got no sense of time when it happens. I guess I wouldn't be shocked if it was up to ten minutes, but I'm counting downtime there. - 4 months ago
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Same question I asked dakadan: Do they get better as they come, or does it slowly taper off? - 4 months ago
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I think they stay about the same. Except I remember the last time the last one was just a little one. Might've been worn out. - 4 months ago
Why stop? Keep going until you drop! The more orgasms, the better.
Best technique I can give is oral, oral and more oral sex. Giving to women really makes them explode with passion each and every time. For penetration, add foreplay and romance to the thrusting. And don't stop for any longer than going to the bathroom. Can't have sex anytime you want so make the most of it.
Guys can have multiple orgasms too. Unfortunately, I just learned recently instead of a long time ago. For me, before having my final one, each one gets bigger and bigger until I explode. I have had as many as nine before I couldn't stand it anymore.
Do they get better and better, or does it slow down? From my experiences with masturbation, when I've had multiple times (like five or six) within two or so hours, it actually gets to REALLY hurting. - 4 months ago
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I'm not talking about ejaculation then waiting an hour and doing it again. I'm talking about a single continuous self-pleasuring and yes it can get painful. When I learned to have multiple orgasms I had a good bottle of water based lube in hand. :) - 4 months ago
I find that when I do this, the first thing that starts killing me is my PC muscle. I get brutal PC aches from holding back and I have found that if I hold back for too long the final orgasm isn't as good because the muscle is just too exhausted and overworked I guess. For me it's about achieving a happy medium and by then the girl I'm with has gotten off at least once. - 4 months ago
My ex had multiple orgasms all the time. I wasn't doing anything special. Just having sex, with a few sex position changes but nothing out of the ordinary positions. The only thing was that we would have sex for an hour or more easy. This gave her plenty of time to have them. A lot of it depended on her mood, how we reacted to each other and how into it I was. The bigger I felt the more they came on for her, especially when I finally came, she said it felt like I grow double and she would have two or three at that moment. A lot of times after sex she would say she lost count after ten or so. If you have fun with it the more fun she will have with it.
An hour? That's pretty long. How do you get that sort of endurance? I didn't know it was possible to have a few orgasms all at one time. I thought it was one blessed time, and if it was multiple, then it would be one after the other. - 4 months ago
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Yeah for me it is one big one, but for her, she said it just like that. One after the other making one big sensation. As far as the hour thing, it started off as being nervous. I couldn't stay concentrated on everything going on and as a result I couldn't finish. I stayed hard so continued to have sex until I did cum. After getting over being nervous I realized how to have that mental control of knowing if what I was doing during sex but blocking out the urge to finish until I knew she was ready. - 4 months ago
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