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Do girls ever think "wow I just want to go down on him"

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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My point in asking this question is that I want to know if girls able to separate sexuality from emotional attachment. Guys will often see a girl from a distance and think "wow I just want to f*** her. " But I don't understand how a girl's mind works when it comes to sex. Are they able to just want it even from a stranger? Or does that kind of desire come only after some kind of emotional attachment has taken place?


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xsamanthax
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xsamanthax      When: More than a year ago
I can't speak about all girls, but I know I do. I would rather have a relationship but if I see a really hot guy yeah I can think that, but I would never do it. I would rather be in a relationship.
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
If a girl sees a really amazingly hot guy, we usually think "damn I want a bf like that" and sometimes we do let our minds wander but for me at least when I think about f***ing a guy I don't really think about blowing him because even though I am a virgin, it doesn't take a scientist to figure out that its not going to taste very good. bottom line is that basically we can think a guy is hot and want to f*** him, but if we want a relationship, we have to have some sort of emotional connection. You can't build a relationship off of only looks.

To actually answer your question now: yes we can look at a guy and think about doing him, but if we do actually end up having sex with him, we usually end up wanting more than just the physical. It doesn't take an emotional connection to feel sexually attracted to a guy but if the emotional attachment stuff doesn't happen before having sex, its probably going to end up happening after.
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archer86 Disagree. Women are only going to have relationship with men they are attracted to physically. I posted a question 3 months ago about this. Women told me that if a nice guy is not their type: forget it. Nothing he can do will change her mind and have sex with him, even if he pays 2 months mortgage for it! Only 2 women made exception to this,demanding discretion so nobody discovers they had sex with a man of lower expectations - More than a year ago
Answerer Yea I know I agree with you. I wasn't saying that we will have a relationship with an ugly guy I'm just saying that we don't always have to have an EMOTIONAL connection in order to like a guy. The emotional stuff usually comes after the physical attraction but there are exceptions. I probably just worded something wrong. - More than a year ago

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Merry-Heart      When: More than a year ago
Well, I've got to admit - I'm totally not into relationships at this time - Only sexual relationships! I'm not looking to commit to anyone. Don't get me wrong, if I find someone I like, I may like to keep them around for awhile, but I don't settle down well, and if a piece of ass is all I want, I don't want all the emotional bullshit that goes with it!
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archer86 Hoooray! A woman who thinks as I do about sex-flings! There just might be a God after all! Too bad you are in PA, you are just the right age for me too(^_*) - More than a year ago
Answerer Ha ha - thanks! - More than a year ago

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wildncrazykid      When: More than a year ago
Haha, I love all the scientific bullshit that has guys trained to think that women all want emotional attachments. I think the person who spouted this probably wanted to believe that women weren't capable of being just as nasty and superficial as men.

We do see guys that we want to mess with and then drop. Hit and quit, whatever. We probably don't think these thoughts as often as guys do, but yeah. We think about it.
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Genesis5 Yes, you ladies can be freak nasty. I have overheard girls talking about sex, & it made me blush. :) - More than a year ago

LoverInTheSnow
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LoverInTheSnow      When: More than a year ago
Damn, good question.
My answer, Yes!
Women and men have the same sex drives, just different genders.
If they didn't, do you think there'd be playgirl? =]
I know that when I look at my boyfriend, I think that.
And when I was single, sweet jesus, was that a trip. Haha.
An emotional attachment is a great thing to strengthen a relationship, but to have sex or go down on a man, it's often not required. Just the desire to have sex is all that's really needed. =]
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gravygirl      When: More than a year ago
Hell yeah. The last time I was single I spent most of my morning train ride looking at guys and imagining doing things with/to them.
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Merry-Heart Cool! - More than a year ago

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Jessica32      When: More than a year ago
F*** emotional attachment. Girls have f*** buddies, too! I mean, I would rather have a relationship, but I love sex! Not all girls are those stupid psycho bitches that become obsessed with you when you have sex with them and won't stop calling you and asking you to hang out and shit.

Lots of girls are just like guys and just wanna f***. Of course, they are called sluts and whores, thanks to double standards. Guys say things about girls like they are loose and such if they have heard they have been with guys, yet, you know if she offered, they would f*** her. Guys are looked up to and worshiped by their friends if they bang a lot of chicks. Girls are like shunned and harassed about it. Which sucks. But then if they don't put out, they can often be called prude or uptight or whatever.

It sucks. I'm not a feminist by any means, but I just hate how stupid that is. Sometimes, yea, I like to f*** and be eaten out or give head or whatever. If I find a guy I have an EMOTIONAL attraction to, then I hold out on the sexual things.

Many girls probably masturbate more than some guys! Everybody loves orgasms. :) And physical touch from another whom they are attracted to.
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LoveDoctor WOW! WELL SAID! I totally agree with you! I think about sex everyday! And Yes, I've had fantasies with other men (even though I'm married) And I masturbate a lot even when my husband is around! But you know what? (Pssst, don't tell anyone, I have to say this softly) Women can't really talk about stuff like like that because like you mentioned before most men will view us differently! It's a shame! I wish women can be more sexually open like men are! It's not fair! - More than a year ago
archer86 Talking about sex if fine, long as it is done tactfully. I don't think differently about women who talk about sex because talking does not mean she going to do it with me. Similar to stripping from screwing. A woman who is a stripper is not a slut who will screw anyone they get money from at the strip tease. - More than a year ago
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archer86      When: More than a year ago
Women have the urge to breed just like men do. The problem is that they are far more selective in who they get naughty with. Basically the 5 requirements are in the minds of all women that a guy MUST possess:
Tall
Very handsome
Financially secure(rich of not more so)
Race-specific
Fit or athletic
Personality counts ONLY if you meet the 5 requirements. There is some leeway to these but you better be handsome.

Disbelieve? I am living proof of this. I represent the majority of the male population who is just not anybody's "type". Thus, my sex life is so pathetic, I have to hire women to avoid going over the edge and go ballistic on the world. I'm a very nice guy with skills, intellect, manners, goals, drug disease free and a good cook. But women look at me and. Well. Um. You get the idea.
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Merry-Heart Did you ever hear of David DeAngelo? He's on the web and he gives lots of dating advice to men - It doesn't matter what you look like - you can learn how to pick up hot women too! Check out his website - just google David DeAngelo! - More than a year ago
Jessica32 Silly bitch. I like chunky boys. So screw fit or athletic haha. Financially secure, yes, like not in debt. No need to be rich, but it is an added bonus. Race. It doesn't matter if you fall in love. I wouldn't say "VERY" handsome, I just want to be attracted to them & think they are cute :-p - More than a year ago
Merry-Heart Well, maybe archer is a guy for you then! Enjoy! - More than a year ago
 
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