Extremely horny and I don't know what to do. I'm a virgin, and I really wanna stay abstinent, but I don't consider oral as losing virginity, so I don't know what to d, or how to release my sexual feelings and desires! I also like to watch guys and hand jobs and possibly even gay porn! I don't know what's wrong with me! Is this normal? Because it just came outta no where, I looked it up, and now I am HOOKED on it. Any advice please?
To answer your main question, I'd say it's NOT normal to look at porn daily on the internet. It might be very common because unfortunately the internet is filled with it and it just fills a personal head with stuff that's NOT normal because real life people don't do all that shit like they do online. They only get involved in porn for the money and probably go home at the end of the day feeling like crap and looking towards the day when they can get the hell out of it!
Many of the reasons we get addicted to thing is because we have needs and desires. You are going through a stage in your life where your hormones and various other chemicals in your body are raging. For whatever reason you have a believe that abstinence is the right answer for you, however, by nature your are being driven towards procreation.
I would say that viewing porn has become a release for you. It is a way for you to relieve your sexual urges. I assume you self-pleasure and there are other ways to relieve your sexual tension too if you do not want to have intercourse (i. E. Dry humping, oral sex, hand jobs, etc. ).
I would say there is nothing wrong with you. I think there is something wrong with our society that causes things like this to manifest.
Everything dakadan said is right. You don't need advice because what you're doing isn't wrong. Sure you might look at porn more than most girls, but that doesn't make it abnormal or wrong, or make you weird, or anything. It's just part of who you are, and you shouldn't feel bad about it. At one point or another those girls that aren't looking at porn as much as you are are going to learn the rewards of sexual pleasure, you're just one step ahead of them! :) - 3 months ago
this is something that isn't good. I'm not condemning you or saying your bad but I think you should work on this. one day you will have a boyfriend and it could be potentially hurtful to him to know this. the best way to release yourself is to masturbate.
I don't think it's abnormal. And I also won't call what you are doing an "addiction". Addiction means that the thing that you are doing prevents you from normal everyday functioning (i. E. , school, work, relationships, etc). You are simply indulging on what's good and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. But do be careful and not let it turn into an addiction.
I do the same thing. I'm not abstinent but when it's been a while for me, I'll watch every day or every couple of days. There's nothing wrong with that. I even find that I'll pick up techniques and stuff from watching, so when you do start having sex, you'll be one step ahead of the game!
Well, looking at porn is normal due to curiosity and such, but watching it everyday is NOT normal. It seems that you are becoming addicted, and you seem kinda young to be into this stuff. I suggest fantasizing more, maybe masturbating more WITHOUT the porn. Because the more you watch it, the more it will dominate your life. That, and if you do get into a relationship in the future, you may resort to porn more and ignore your partner (this is what usually happens to guys and why girls get so mad at them). It's normal to be curious and see different things, but what they do in porn isn't how it works in the real world. I hope this helped.
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