How can I make my sex life better?

He may be thinking the same about you! It's called communication. If your old enough to be having sex than put on the big shoes and tell the man what you like and want.

Physical chemistry is very important and some people have and some never get but usually because your afraid to talk about it.

I suggest communicating out of bed what your sexual needs are. Talk to him and make it about both of you. You don't want to hurt his manly ego.

Make plans to spend a sunday afternoon in bed exploring. Tell him lets try some new things. Go for it if you love him it will definitely be worth it. Be more agressive.!

Normally I would say to just tell him, but it puts a lot of pressure on someone to just say "I want to be surprised. " I don't know, I guess if that's what you need you should tell him that, but I think it works better if you have something more specific to say.

Well, talk to him about it. If you're both having issues, then you two could talk about experimenting with different positions and such. You can also go online and find out some stuff as well. There's a site called: www.cosmopolitan.com (the magazine), and they give good advice and tips. You can also go out to the bookstore and buy some books on how to make it better. I hope this helped!

You should take the initiative and try something new. If that doesn't work then you should move on (on the basis that you believe you want something more in the bedroom).