Anal sex...I know why I like it, but why do you?

ok id like to say something different then any body else has.I love it when I woman is willing to shair everything she has with me.Her mind body and sole.Yes there is a power thingy here also.Ive let one girl play alittle " no penatrition"back there but I myself didn't like it. Nothing better then having her wake up frist thing in the morning have a cute tiny butt rubbing on your morning wood. Using a safe word is a great way to get started that way she can still say no it hurts and if she remebers the safe work you'll know to stop. so I guess you could callme a butt man lol

A lot of guys like it because it is something they don't normally get to try and as such, it's a little naughty. A funny fact is that some of the women I know who enjoy anal sex have a hard time find guys who are willing to engage in that activity on a regular basis.

I like anal sex because it tends to give my partners really, really powerful orgasms (clitoral stimulation is generally necessary). What's not to love about that?

Men actually get more out of anal sex than women do. Anal stimulation of the prostate gland can lead to extremely powerful orgasms. The prostate, like the cock is neutral and can be stimulated by men or women to similar effect. Since I am more heterosexually inclined, I prefer my anal sex with a woman rather than a man.

So why do you like it? Because it feels good? Because of the feeling of "surrender"? Because of the "naughtiness"? From a guy's perspective it feels different, like a tight velvet glove. Some guys get off on the power tripping but that seems to have taken (excuse the phrase) a back burner to the general pleasure. Thank you, Tristan Taormino.

Why do some men like getting pegged? It's not a matter of "gay", men's and women's anuses (anii?) are physiologically the same and full of nerve endings. If you like it in the backside, there's no reason a man wouldn't either. But enjoying anal stimulation doesn't mean the guy wants to kiss or hold hands with or live with another guy. In addition, men have a prostate gland a couple inches in. It's not a G-spot; massaging this alone won't cause an orgasm but doing so while doing anything else that would cause him to reach orgasm will increase the intensity considerably.

Anal sex is great as long as the girl likes it. The taboo makes it interesting, the feeling differs from that of vaginal sex, and the climax is exciting, so from the standpoint of a guy who's confident about his own sexuality, anal sex is enjoyable variation with a little zest. I have a friend who dreams of experiencing it, and another who's girlfriend can not convince him to try it. Some view it as dirty, or gay, the first one being valid, the second one a sign of insecurity or of a fear that they might become gay because they like butt-sex. It's irrational, but some feel it necessary to keep that door closed, just in case. The excitement of male penetration might spur guys to try it, furthermore, physiologically, male penetration holds a reward for the male, more so than for the woman. The reason is the location of the prostate gland, located about a fingers length up the rectum. It controls the closing of the urinary bladder during erection, and the seminal bladder during urination, so as not to mix the substances (for obvious reasons). It's stimulus can lead to an orgasm, from what I'm told, different from that of penile stimulation.

Well, I tried it a few times with my ex and I loved it. It was so tight and seeing her butt in the air turned me on. I had to be gentle, but I wanted to be rough. We did it whenever she was on her period.

For guys that don't like it there may be a stigma attached to it - a kind of taboo or fear of feeling gay or that people will find out. But there can be a physical pleasure involved there for both. Some just think its over the edge. It was never something I had an overwhelming desire to do to a girl, but if she really is the one initiating it, then it changes things. A guy may find out there's more to it than he expected. You said you know why you like it. Is it all about the sensation, or do girls like the the feeling of being dominated? It seems like some of both.

I think it is because it is very, very intimate, there can be bleeding and it is obviously a lot tighter than vaginal sex. I think if you are in an exceptionally close relationship with slight tendencies towards a dominant/submissive attitude or bondage, the pain could be a factor. There are obviously drawbacks and the hygiene is definitely debatable.

In fair warning, I have not had the pleasure of giving anal sex. However, my ambition towards this goal consists of the assumption that this orifice is a much more "snug" hole to penetrate. I further assume that snugger is always better. Now, why would we dislike it? I could imagine that it might come from some deep homophobic notions that identify any anal sex with homosexuality. Or possibly because it's "dirty"? I dunno; not in that boat.

Now the last question. You say, so many? Possibly behind closed doors. However, I have known very few (none come to mind) men who have admitted to liking a woman anally penetrate them. I am also not one of those men. Why? Besides the feeling that it puts me that much closer to "just having a guy do it", I imagine it would be uncomfortable. Not to be a hypocrite, I also do not push this act on any women I am/have been with. If it's what they want, however, I will be happy to oblige.

Ok so only on other girl commented on this question. I love anal sex, yeah if you don't have it for a while it can sting a bit for a little but if you do it often enough it doesn't. I will admit that sometimes I want anal sex more than I want "normal" sex because of the taboo and feeling. my boyfriend will usually use my vibrator on my clit while going at it so I can still get all the same pleasure.

Guys have prostates. When stimulated, they can orgasm. Girls don't. So I actually don't understand why girls would like it so much.