I'm a virgin, about to have sex with my man, what are ways I can not be so tight?

When I took my girls virginity I ate her out making her as wet as possible . Than I went in her slowly as possible taking my time.

I am guy but have a really good advise to you , go and buy DUREX play any kind the red is the best , before sex ask your boyfriend to apply it and its gonna help a lot , trust on this one , DUREX PLAY is really good , for play , for sex and its really sweet :)

A couple suggestions. A lot of foreplay, make sure you are very very wet. Wet is lubrication. First time get on hands and knees on the bed, let him stand on the floor by the bed and eas it in from behind. That way you can move away if it is too tight. It may not hurt at all. Just go slow and careful. :)

Repeat topic. Look up the other one, might find more info.

Finger yourself.