So, when I just got with my now fiance, I joked about a threesome, and how I would have one of my friends.. now we are engaged and randomly he brought it up again. so I'm wondering.. why though? am I not good enough? does it mean he wants other women? we have a great sex like I mean grrreeeat...so why? be as blunt and honest as you can.
I think it is completely normal and not something you should worry about. It is good you can be honest with each other. You'd better tell him if you were just joking though.
It's exciting. It's sexual glutton, and men want it for the same reason women want 2 pieces of chocolate more than they want 1. He can be entirely satisfied and still like the idea of a threesome because it's so exciting.
If you're under 18, I'd advice you wait with the threesomes, because you need a level of trust with your partner, a level of intimacy and a strong desire and conviction that you are with the right person because threesomes can confuse you with respect to the role of sex in a relationship; do you want it to be an intimate expression of love, or an adventure with unknown consequences?
Hormonal connection through sex is a mechanism best left alone unless in a relationship that DEFINITELY will stand the test.
You brought it up, don't get mad at him for doing it, and don't get too insecure. 'Good enough' for what? To make him totally ignorant of other girls who are hot? Maybe, who cares? Do you seriously need to be that good? Why does it matter? I'm not sure any girl is really that good. Guys who don't see girls besides the ones they're with don't get that way because the girl's 'good enough' they get that way because they decide to be that way, or they fall so deeply in love they get obsessed with you or force themselves to ignore women by repressing their emotional responses to them.
I think that's pretty unhealthy, if the guy has interest in other women, he's probably more mentally healthy, and you should be happy for him. Similarly, you should feel free to like other guys. If you don't, maybe you fell in love, and are a bit cuckoo, but in that case, why care if he's cuckoo for you too? This is irrelevant to love, whether or not it is exclusively returned to you or not, a guy really in love should love a girl even if she likes other men. Vice versa's the same.
Threesomes are hot because women are hot, and the more the better, and also the idea of women in proximity with potential lesbian interactions is hot to a guy. Guys want taboo hot stuff, it doesn't mean you're not great.
I like threesomes (MFM, FMF). They allow for some interesting play and great visuals.
Personally, I like some variety in my sex. My wife is the best sex I ever had in my life but I still like sleeping with other people too. Threesomes are especially good because I get to share the new person with her.
Just keep in mind that I love having sex with my wife and I have no interest in leaving her. A desire for different sex need not be a threat to your relationship. It can be an experience you share and makes your relationship stronger.
Well honestly you brought it up to him! Sure you were joking with him and took it as such, but he might be think it is something in the back of your mind that really wants to do it. Because he brought it back up doesn't not mean in any way shape or form that he thinks any less of you or wants to be with other women without you. I'm sure your sex is great, and will continue to be, but he just is testing to make sure you were really joking the first time you brought it up. Just be honest with him that you have no intention to having one. If my girlfriend told me she was up for a threesome jokingly, I would have the question in my head of is she actually serious about this, until I found out for sure. In my opinion you have nothing to worry about, you just got to be honest with him that you were joking earlier.
Threesomes are fun. It doesn't mean anything against the girl in my opinion, though it can be seen that way. I think they are just really fun. I mean there are two or four of everything. Double the pleasure. I guess Id equate it to taking scoops of ice cream. Nothing wrong with one scoop, but the second scoop is good too right?
What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I walk up to a girl and say 'Giant polar bear', she responses 'Huh', or 'What', then I go 'It broke the ice'. This one never failed me. I always get a smile back. Even when I come across with someone who answers with 'It broke the ice', I throw another one until I come up with something she doesn't know. This line always follows with a counter question about the success rate.
How do they typically respond?
As I said, somehow this line always works. It is witty. As the conversation goes a bit further, just as I am introducing myself, I say (very cheesy) "Name is Bruce, but you can call me tonight". This gets a puzzled response at first and a smirk -if they don't know it already-, but if they do, I squint my eyes with a big smile :)
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