I've been together with her (and having sex) for 12 years and married for 3. The only time we have sex anymore is when we plan to. I feel weird now trying to just make a move and have it happen without her spoken approval. Any advice on how to do it or anything else? I feel like a 30 year old woman would want an advance to be different than a 20 year old even though its the same girl. o I feel funny trying the stuff I used to do. Am I off base here? How should I approach this?
Tell her she is beautiful every day, do things she don't expect, take her flowers and show her you love her more. Maybe she feels the same way. I know I did with my husband. Maybe she just don't know you truly love her any more . And soon she will want to rip your cloths right off.
Being old and married myself, I learned that if you don't plan time to have sex, you won't have sex. It isn't because you don't want to, it is simply that everything else expands to fill all your available time.
Save yourself a lot of trouble and just ask her what she wants. When she tells you, do it. If she says she wants to be f***ed on the hood of the car, do it. If she talks about hitting a swing club, do it. If she wants dinner and dancing, give it to her. Your wife is the most important person in the world and she should be able to tell it by they way you treat her (and f*** her). Make a big deal about it, look forward to it and be excited about her. It makes a huge difference.
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and almost every time we've had sex he starts it. Don't get the impression I don't wanna do it,...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My first date would have to be simple and thoughtful [from the guys side] full of love!!!! somewhere like the beach.... normal and comfy but yet sexy clothing...
with him dropping me at home ....and saying sweet words
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 3 months ago
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