Ok, me and my girl have amazing sex. That part is great. The problem is, She says that I'm the only person to ever satisfy her, and she faked it with everyone else. I'm the 8th person she has been with and I'm also the smallest, not by much. She had a "friend with benefits" for about a year or so and says she also faked it with him. But also says that she has told him that he never satisfied her. So what's the deal? Do girls always do this to make their man feel better? We have been together for about 2 years and says that she cums every time we make love. She says that the other guys were good but they never hit the right spots. It was 2 1/2 years after she lost her virginity that we got together, and she was with 7 people in that time, and never came not even once? Are you serious? Why be f*** buddies with a guy for a year if he's not satisfying you?
By the way, he was also the biggest she ever had and only f***ed him in the first place because he had a big dick, "she wanted to see what it was like to be with a guy that big". So what's the deal? Is she full of shit, or because she is engaged to me telling me the truth? I know what I think, but what do you think? Thanks
She could be telling you the truth...I didn't have orgasms until my ex and my current boyfriend and this didn't occur until about three years ago. One is big, the other average and they both were able to make me orgasm. I had to fake it with my past relationships. I think, for me it is because I've felt totally comfortable with both and not with the others...maybe that's the reason for your girl as well. Why keep a friend with benefits? For companionship I think.
She was comfortable, believe me. She took me to meet the "friend with benefits" and that's how this whole thing got started. She had 3 one night stands, 2 guys finished, one didn't because she made him stop. 3 were boyfriends, 1 was the f*** buddy, then there's me. - 6 months ago
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She full of shit and yes I have the same question why be f*** buddies if he didn't satisfy her??? Oh by the way she probably isn't cumming with you either.....! Here's the deal most girls don't cum until they are a bit older...........usually it take oral sex to get her to climax....cum! And my friend just because a guy has a big dick doesn't make him good in bed.
Heres the thing. She didn't like oral, giving or receiving until we got together, now she loves it. I "kinda" know because she wouldn't let me perform on her, till I finally just went at it, now she loves it. And she wouldn't perform on me, till I asked her enough, now she loves to do it. And she didn't like doggy style. She said she always buried her head in the pillow and laughed, now it's one of her favorite positions. Does that make any more sense? She's lied to me before about other stuff. - 6 months ago
From every magazine article I have read, every one of them discourages women from faking orgasms. What happens is that when women fake it often enough, they lose the ability to have a REAL orgasm and thus they always come out feeling left out during sex. I find it difficult to believe that one out of eight men is good enough to give this woman good pleasure while the other seven sucked. The odds are a bit unrealistic. I don't buy into her story at all.
The problem is not of her having sex with 7 men, we all can't be committed to just one person our whole lives. I would not want women to judge me so poorly because of all the women I have had sex with, it's unjustified. The real problem is her honesty. I hope this engagement does not lead into a disaster for you in the future. I don't feel optimistic about this at all for you. Good luck.
Well she says that the sex was good with them, but she never knew what an orgasm felt like till she was with me. She says that the first time we had sex, the feeling freaked her out. She didn't know why her whole body was tingling or what the feeling was, but she liked it. Then after we made love a few more times, she figured out that she was having an orgasm. That what she tells me at least. She never made a big deal out of letting me know she was cumming until after a big argument we had. - 6 months ago
I think that I wouldn't be engaged to a girl that's been with 7 guys (had sex with all 7) before me. I really don't care to have a girl that experienced to be frank with you. Maybe you are a better lover than all the others, but I hope that's not why you got engaged to her just because you have great sex. A good marriage is going to require from both of you than good sex. I'd say if you're enjoying having sex with her and she says you're better than the previous 7 guys she's been with, then why not just leave it at that and believe her. If you don't believe her when she tells you this, what else do you think there is that you shouldn't be believing her? It sounds kinda unlikely that she'd faked it with all the guys and wanted to be fucking a guy with a big dick just for the hell of it. Your relationship doesn't sound like one I'd wanna be in.
She says she was only f*** buddies with the guy because they were really good friends and that he was just always there if she wanted sex. That the size never mattered. But she had plenty of other guy friends. And she originally lied about how many people she was with. She said I was the 6th, then after perpetuating the lie for about a year, getting angry with me if I called her out on ever lying to me. "she denied she ever lied to me", admits that I am the 8th, after careful thinking... - 6 months ago
Who cares. The person she is hurting is herself if she is lying to you. Does it make you any less of a man if you do or don't make her cum? The answer is no. What she does by lying about it to all those other men is that they now think they are really good and know what they are doing. Now when they go to another woman and she is truthful about not having an orgasm then their ego's will get bruised and most likely they will project on to the woman that there is something wrong with them.
My opinion is that most women don't have an orgasm through intercourse. If she is lying to you about it then let her know it is okay if she doesn't have an orgasm through intercourse, but if she does then that is great too.
Actually she's hurting me by lying. We are engaged. - 6 months ago
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How does that hurt you? What difference does it make? It doesn't make you any less of a man whether she is lying or not. I will agree that lying never helps anything, but this may be an area where she feels it is more important to have you feeling good about yourself than what she might consider a "white lie" if that is what she is doing. Women have a tendency to be motherly around us guys. They like to take care of us. Maybe that is what she is doing. - 6 months ago
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How could it not hurt me? She is my future wife to be. Why would she lie to me? Trust is one of the key points in any relationship. When you break that trust, what is there to believe in? We made a promise to never lie to each other at the start of our relationship. She broke that promise, along with many others. I understand your point about me still being a man and all, but how can you truly be happy when you have to carefully consider everything your partner says to you? - 6 months ago
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I guess it is a matter of which battles you intend to fight. If you think as a human you are never going to be lied to then you are in for a shock. I agree with you completely that she shouldn't lie to you. It is inauthentic and has an impact, clearly, on you. Tell her that impact. Like I said she may be doing it because she thinks it is what you want to hear. Just like a woman asking if the dress makes her look fat; a question is looking for a particular result. Let her know that isn't you. - 6 months ago
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