Should I just hit and run?

You know what ? I'm going through the same thing. This guy that I've like since high school got back in contact with me. It's been six years. He lives in texas I'm in nc. He would text me all the time and call me. I really like him still to this day. I went to visit him about a month ago. We still talk occasionally but only if I put forth the effort to communicate with him and its only through text. I know realize that he doesn't like me as much as I like him. It hurts like hell, but that's life. I want him sooooo bad but I know that the feeling isn't mutual. I can't make him like me sooo I've been backing off a lot! I have to move pass that and soo do you man. I had sex with him too but that's all it was. You lose some and you win some boo but you get over it and start all over again. I'm in pain too but damn I feel like I deserve better and I don't have to hurt if I choose not too. You feel me. Sooo take this as a lesson learned and don't make the same mistake twice. You can't help who you love or like but if the feeling isn't mutual then what can you do. ? only one thing! get over it and move on and believe me I'm taking my own advise.

Don't play yourself...... You need to let her go boo...... She is using you ok... Don't have sex with her again you're giving her exactly what she wants..... I know it's hard to let go of people especially if you like them... But sometimes you have to do what you have to do... Life is to short to be hung up on someone who doesn't have any respect for you.... If she doesn't call you or text you first she's not thinking about you. are there for her when she needs a fix and that's it... Women are very emotional and if she wanted to be with you in that way she would do a better job at showing it..... If she doesn't make you feel good as a man then its not worth it..... You only live once so do it right and enjoy yourself .... Don't waste time playing other people's games and trying to figure them out ok..... Ignore her... She " may" come around!!!!!

Have you tried letting her decide where you go and what you do? Let her make some plans something she wants to do, if you really want to be with her let her know how special she is to you and how you want a more complete relationship with her. Be prepared to let her know however, that the current relationship is not working for you its actually hurting you and she needs to decide if she wants a relationship with you or not. This way would be better, in my opinion, than just having sex with her and leaving. I hope things work out for you.

Dude I'm in the exact same situation as you are. The girl told me that she liked me but didn't want to date me. it is so hard to tell yourself that you won't be able to but you have to let her go. I haven't done it yet because I can't accept that but I know once I do I'll find another girl for me. trust me, do it.

This sounds more like a relationship question, but what would be accomplished by having one last time with her and then leaving right away? Is that a form of punishing her by using her? When you told her how you felt what did she say?

Some people show emotion and attachment differently than others. I know with my ex-wife she had expectations of me that weren't realistic of who I am and she couldn't deal with that. I don't know her, but she may think she is showing you attention because she sends you text messages and may just be uncomfortable with talking on phones. I know I hate talking on a phone.

Regardless, I would not use sex as a punishment. In my opinion, sex should be used to connect with someone not harm.