the first time you have sex, blood will go everywhere and the sheets will be covered and you might even pass out from the pain. no I'm just kidding. lol. that's what my older sister told me before I had sex. it all depends on the girl. it hurts more for some than for others. for me, it didn't hurt that bad. it hurt a little obviously but it wasn't as much pain as I thought it would be. maybe its because I went horseback riding a lot when I was younger, I'm not sure. but just make sure your one hundred percent ready to do it and that its with someone you want to lose it too. and make sure that you relax when you do it. don't tighten up and stuff because that will probably add to the pain.
It all depends. I know a girl who said it was extremely painful. I also know a girl who bled the first 5-6 times when she started to have sex (not trying to scare you or anything. lol). But, it wasn't painful for me though my boyfriend had a hard time getting it in because it was so tight. When you lose your virginity, you may regret for a little while. But once you get over that feeling, it's a beautiful way to share and express love with that special someone. Enjoy! lol
It didn't hurt that bad for me. Maybe because I masturbated a lot. I didn't bleed at all or anything, and he was big. 8". The day I lost my virginity, we did it 3 times.
So just finger yourself a lot and you'll be fine.
And no it doesn't hurt for the guy. Unless you are dry. Or really tight and he is really big.
Well, depends on the size of him. My first was when I was 18 and he was smaller.so uh, didn't hurt at all. Second guy I had sex with he was bigger and it HURT quite abit. He asked if I wanted to stop but I wouldn't let him. We had waited 6 months for that to happen soooo I didn't want to quit then! LOL. So yeah, second guy popped my cherry.
it didn't hurt me or most of my friends either! it all depends on the person. and most girls hymens are broken anyway from sports without ever realising
It varies. It hurt a lot for me, but my friends are split on this. One of them said it barely hurt her at all. It's rare for it to hurt much after the first few times.
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner, drinks and lots of good conversation. We'd talk about our sexuality and what we're looking for. What we've enjoyed and what we want to try. If all goes well we'd go back to her place and experiment.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm honest, sincere, not going to lie to get her into bed, or lie to keep her out of it.
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