Guys, does it put you off if a girl is fat?

Myself, I find stretch marks unattractive.

As far as the word "fat" is concerned, that can have different meanings. American Idol's Jordin Sparks is not a petite girl, but she's still super attractive.

Well, it depends if you care if she is fat or not in the beginning. If I do not care, I will go out with her. If she wasn't fat to begin will, and she became fat, it may not bother me, but since I am in the health and wellness profession, it would bother me that she isn't taking care of herself. If I were married and she gained a little, no big deal, and when we age, we don't care because we both know we are not going to look good forever.

Depends....

Define fat. Honestly. I like a girl that has some meat in the seat. You know, an ass in her pants. I am totally not attracted to these plastic, bony-assed, bottle-blonde babes that are taking all these pills and starving themselves.

That's what I love about my wife. She's a sweet, gentle, lady, that's all stacked-up and packed-up. She's got a real swing on her back porch, if you know what I mean.

At the end of the day, you should find a guy who's into you for YOU. F-the guys who don't like you, there are plenty more where they came from. Honest.

Yeah, it's a big turn off to me if a girl is overweight. Stretch marks aren't as big of a deal if the girl has lost the weight though.

The only real question is whether you can pull it off. Confidence is sexy. Are you confident? If not, do whatever it takes to feel sexy and you will be. You'll act different, and you can't fake it. You have to believe it.

For me, if I am concentrating on physical attractiveness, then yes it's a turn off. However, if this girl won my heart, she could have two heads...I'd still be into her.

Stretch marks aren't a big deal. And a lot of guys like thicker girls if they are proportioned. Some guys are into big girls period.

But traditionally a girl who is physically fit will usually attract more than one who dosen't take care of her body. Health is important for not only you, but also if you have that man's kid. So genetically men look out for that.

Real love is about building lasting positives to help forget about flaws. Just grow and improve yourself to be the best YOU can be (don't compare yourself to other people with different gifts) and be secure in being your best with the gifts you have. (I agree with bigdaddy 100%)

Personally, if you have a pretty face I wouldn't care.

Well let me just tell you, I'm a guy and I happen to like women that are "full figured". Nothing worse than a skinny woman with an attitude. It's my experience that a larger woman is more friendly, easy going, compassionate and fun to be with. Trust me you'll find the right guy! And as for strech marks, who cares?? EVERYBODY has something they don't like about themselves. Don't worry about the small stuff, just be the best person you can be (that sound too corny? lol)

Don't associate with a shallow dude who is immature. He doesn't know what love is if he can't love you just because you're curvy and have some stretch marks. He's looking for lust. He has a lot of growing up to do. Which he probably won't ever do. Just dump his ass. I'm a lot smarter now to pick guys who will accept me for my soul and heart not because my eyes are brown or some stupid shit that men think of.

No they make a person more beautiful and who they are don't judge and don't let ppl judge!

I agree with bigdaddy 100%. LoL, he reminds me of Eddy Murphey in the stand up comedy RAW.

Some men like more cushion for the pushin lol.. Sorry.. I thought it was funny.

But seriously, if the man is an anal prick, he'll care about the stretch marks. And no one likes an anal prick. If he cares, dump his ass.

Not all guys care. If they really love you, then they wouldn't.
But like she said, it depends on the guy. :)

In my opinion it depends on the guy!!