The second time I met this man I had sex with him. We have been together now for two and half weeks and we have sex at the least twice a day, mostly more. Is this a real relationship cause to me it seems like we have just fast forwarded to the good bit and now we have done everything. I feel like he might get bored as he is very sexual, he's just come out of a three year relationship I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing what do you guys and girls think?
There is at least a 50/50 chance that you are the rebound girl to him, but that doesn't mean that there isn't a chance at a real relationship. If this concerns you, you need to bring it up to him soon. But if you aren't concerned, just enjoy yourself for now.
I think that some of us guys out there just LOVE having sex with our girls all the time....There isn't anything wrong with that. If you cut him off though your showing him that you don't enjoy the same. He could possibly take that as a personal blow no matter what you say, or appologize he'll take it personally. IF you enjoy the sex too. Then enjoy it. Thats just my thoughts, i'd stop worrying so much about his past realationships, he's doing you not his ex. Thats the major thing. If he's doing it with you, he wants you not somebody else. And you should in your head take it as a compliment that your good obviously or why would he wana do stuff with you. Obviously your doing something right.... I guess it goes back to the old mechanic saying, if it's not broken don't try and fix it you know? Unless your unhappy and want it less. Now I have forewarned you that no matter what if you make that decision with a guy that likes sex he's going to hold it against you period the end. To him it's saying we'll I don't like this. And if he said that to you, you'd get upset inside with him. He's no different. He may be a guy but never forget just because he's a guy doesn't mean he doesn't have emotions, he just chooses to show them less than you do.
I agree that guys want more than sex.. To a point. And I also agree to the "slow down" thing. To the extreme.
Think about this. If you were a horny man (and 100% of men are horny), and you just got out of a 3 year relationship, and you meet a girl you're attracted to and you sleep with her almost immedietely. Would you want to start a relationship with her? I doubt it.
Men don't think the way girls do. He might like you, don't get me wrong, but he also might not want a relationship. Ask him what he's looking for with you. Tell him you're aware he just got out of a long relationship, and you're concerned he might not be wanting another relationship now. Leave it at that.
Don't tell him you want a relationship with him. Just vocalize your point and see what he says. If he's not wanting a relationship, he will NOT say that he wants one.. Garunteed. You'll get your answer. Just ask :)
Slow down. Sex is great if that's all you want it to be but once you lay down the rules it's hard to go back. I guy will always go where a girl leads him if isn't looking for anything serious. If you turn a relationship into a friends with benefits before getting to know each than that's all it will ever be than eventually when the fire dies and you want more it'll push him away because guys like girls to say no to them and he can easily lose his respect for you if you keep giving in to him. If you don't say no to him and you are only having sex with him it will start feeling like a routine when you do see him and then before you know it he'll be gone. Make him wait if he's serious about you. Guys want more than sex but you have to let him know that you do to.
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