Why do girls like sex?

size does matter and usually it's tough to let a guy know that's the reason you don't want sex from him.

weird. I am definitely not shy about admitting I like sex.
1) I care if I come (if she says otherwise, I think she is lying or trying to protect your ego - I've made the mistake of saying it in the past to prevent partners from feeling bad).
2) I don't think of it as "waiting". I enjoy the sexual intimacy and I also enjoy being stimulated even after I've come.
3)I don't treat sex or even bjs like a favour. They aren't. I do both because they turn me on.
4) I do initiate foreplay. I've even initiated relationships.
5) And I definitely think sex is important and I sort of assume that that is obvious when I speak.

However, there are a lot of double standards about women and sexuality/sex and I think a lot of women think that certain behaviour & attitudes are appropriate and necessary. A lot of women think that wanting/liking sex makes them trashy. WHile very unfortunate, I think this view probably affects a lot of women and their attitudes towards sex. Maybe you need to be more conscious of this, or if it really bothers you, try to date women who are a little less restrained by these ideas.

I hate to even mention this, but the other possibility is that you aren't satisfying your partners and that is why you are getting these responses. They don't want and aren't interested in sex with you. They actually really think it is a favour because they aren't enjoying it (with you). etc. Maybe you need to focus on her pleasure a bit more, find out what a particular woman wants from a sexual encounter, what she enjoys, etc.

As a comment to your response to tammymac's points (you said your girlfriend wanted sex in the afternoon but not at night), maybe she's burnt out at the end of the day. Try meeting for lunch of sex before dinner, or in the morning. and sounds like she was trying to initiate. maybe you should have taken her up on it right then and not waited!

1.) we do care if we come. I don't know about other girls, but I usually just focus more on him coming because it takes me more time to get there.
2.) it takes time and effort. some guys just don't understand that. I don't know why it would be painful if she's wet. but if you keep going with the girl for awhile then she'll definitely get pleasure out of it.
3.) I have never thought of having sex with my boyfriend to be a favor. I enjoy it a lot and look forward to it. it brings us closer together and lots of pleasure.
4.) id say my boyfriend and I both equally initiate it, the only time I don't initiate it first is if he's busy or really into sometime on tv or is mad or something.
5.) I can guarantee that girls know its important. its an important part of a relationship because it brings the couple closer and stuff.

i think that its just the girls that you dated or something. maybe you always go after the same type of girl. I always hear [even from my boyfriend] that guys don't think girls like sex. and that is not true. we do enjoy it and get lots of pleasure out of it.

1) we do care if we come!just some guys can't satisfy us!
2) well I like sex for as long as I can get it and so do most girls less than 20 mins and its a big disappointment!
3) sex as a favor? nope I like to please the guy as he would like to please me its a 2 way thing not a favour its something I want and enjoy!
4)foreplay are you serious everyone I know loves it and is a bit dissapointed when it doesn't happen ! can be better than sex a lot of the time!
5)some girls are private about sex which is there own business and why talk about it when you can do it right girls?

and don't mean to be bad but stop putting the blame to girls not beng interested in sex if you have had 22 girlfriends and only satisfied one I think you need to look at yourself and not the girls! or maybe you just pick the wrong girls or need to switch it up a bit you know?different strokes for different folks !

As for your 1 through 5 summary not all women would agree

1. I always want to cum, if you can make me, I’ll do it myself, while you watch ;0)
2. If sex lasts less then 20 mins I feel ripped off, unless of course it was meant to be a quickie
3. Sex is something I really do enjoy, I look forward to it, I think about it, and I want it.
4. I will start something every chance I get
5. You say women don’t talk about sex like it’s important, I’m talking right now, are you listening?. Lol

It really sounds to me like you always pick the same type of girl. Maybe try for someone a little different next time. Actually get to know the girl before having sex. The more intimate the connection between you two the more intense the sex will be. Other then that prefect your oral technique, no girl in her right mind will be able to resist a man of all your obvious qualities who has that particular skill. And above all don't think you know it all because all women are different, listen to what she is telling you when you are having sex, pay attention to her body movements and adjust your technique accordingly.

You may just need to find an attractive older woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, they tend to be more open and honest about what they need & want out of sex.

hmmmm that's interesting. In my opinion

1) We DO care!, it's frustrating when we don't come!, I personally tell the guy what to do to help me come

2)We don't have to wait but we do it because we also care about your needs and we want you to be satisfied. If it' painful for the girl even when she's wet, she might want to go to ask her Gyno

3)Sex is never a favor!, sex is a need (physical and emotionally), I'd even venture to say that sex is a requirement in serious, long term relationships!

4)Are you serious?, from my own experience and from what I've talked with my girlfriends, foreplay is when the shirt ripping, blindfolding or when the pole show begins! are you serious?, why wouldn't we like foreplay?

5)She might be giving you a different vibe but when we are with our girlfriends, we share tricks, etc. Sex IS important in a relationship!

To me you sound like a knock off, I'm sure that you are able to turn any girl on, I'm pretty sure that for some weird coincidence your girlfriends are not in touch with their (physical/emotional) needs. Communication might be another issue, you can also try sex toys.

Maybe its not them, maybe its you, maybe you suck at sex man I don't know every girl I've been with enjoyed sex. Why do you care man you've had 22 girlfriends so obviously you can get women who cares what they think . Just do what I do have fun with them for a while and when you get bored trade her in for a new model.

Your main question doesn't match the questions you asked. My opinion of a man who'd had 22 girlfriends and has only had one that said she likes sex is probably because you look hot, have money but are a sexual pervert that's only interested in in YOUR OWN sexual pleasures at the girl's expense. You want your di*k sucked all the time, want her to swallow your jism like it was peach tea, and your idea of having sex is fuc*ing her brains out with no regard for her emotions, her pleasure of treating her like a woman. What kind of needs of hers are you putting in front of your own?

I have been with a large number of women who all liked sex very much and didn't fall within your 5 reasons at all. Please hear what I'm about to say not as a slam but an observation. You are the constant with all 22 women you have been with. Maybe you should take a look at how you are being that is creating or bringing these women to you.

In your short biography you highlight that you are published, successful, rich, etc., but who cares. What does that have to do with being a good lover. You say you put her needs before your own, but it sounds to me like there might be an ego that gets in the way a little bit. You might "work" on her until she climaxes and I know you didn't use that word, but that might really be who you are being around it. What I mean by that is you might be putting out the energy of you are just waiting for her to get off so that it will be your turn afterwards and I would argue that she can probably sense that.

Nothing I said is necessarily true, but try it on to see if it fits and go from there.