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come on we all know guys do there's no need to ask and to be honest we shouldn't see anything wrong with it or think oh I can't satisfy my boyfriend !like porn and masturbating doesn't mean are guys cheating and to be honest once its his hand and not some girls I'm happy.lol. your girlfriend has to know you do and don't worry I don't think she would have any problem with it as long as its your hand lol

I think she wanted to know because she may want to know how highly sexed you are. The thought may turn her on. Ask her if she masturbates and she may ask you again.

I've stopped asking guys "Do you masturbate?" and started asking "How often do you masturbate?" Haha. the fact is, guys masturbate, we all know it. I'm personally very intrigued by the thought of guys masturbating. 4 or 5 times a DAY is a little much, but it shouldn't weird her out. But if you don't want to tell her how often you do it, tell her that you do it, at least.

The only way I can see her being offended, is if she's very uptight, prudish, and religious. But otherwise, girls know guys do it, and we appreciate it when people can admit to it.

I know it's not exactly relevant to your question. But have you ever thought of holding off? and NOT masturbating every time you felt it? I find that if I wait a week (which may clearly seem like an ETERNITY to you) it usually feels much better.

maybe she was just wondering because she could be playing with herself as well. you'd be surprised how often girls play with themselves when they get all worked up and no man around. but I'm sure she knows that you play with yourself and just wanted to see if you'd admit it.

Maybe she was just curious. I think it's hot and I like to watch and get upset if I don't get to. Not saying, just saying.

If she has a brain in her head, she thought you were weird when you told her that you don't jerk off. lol . Maybe she asked because she wanted to see you do it for her. Maybe she wanted you to know she knows that you do it, and it's normal. Who knows, in fact the only way you will ever know is if you ask her.

The first thing a lot of guys would think is "am I not satisfying her?" But some girls get extremely turned on by the idea and would want to watch. So ask her "what if I said yes? What then?"

The truth is that pretty much everybody does masturbate. She probably laughed at you internally when you said you didn't. Maybe she was testing to see if you could really tell the truth or not.

Define weird. Since everybody does it, except the sexually repressed and they have bigger problems to deal with, you would be weird if you didn't do it.

Absolutely tell her. 99% of us guys do it, the other 1% lie about it. It's a completely natrual thing (and depending on the expert an evolutionary thing as well, some scientists now claim it to be a part of natural selection, expelling sperm that has gone bad, etc). I lied about doing it until I was in my sophomore year in college.

Chances are good that she does it too. Men generally don't have a problem 'getting off' but in many cases for many women 'getting off' during regular intercourse can be a problem, a problem that they generally don't have by themselves (but not always the case).

Sharing this with her could open up new avenues for you, if not bring you closer together on a new level. Mutual masturbation can be fun, and a learning experience. Watching her masturbate or helping her to do so can teach you invaluable inforation about sexually satisfying this one particular woman (like snowflakes, they're all similar, but vastly different). And believe me, there's nothing more beautiful, or rewarding, than a sexually satisfied woman.

If I were you I'd run right back to her, apologize profusely for lying about the subject, proclaim your embarrassment and fear of loosing her (which I assume were your reasons for lying in the first place). But be prepared. She WILL most certanily, if not today then at some point, ask you what you think about while you masturbate. Tread -very- carefully here. I've found that this situation ranks right up there with "Does this dress make me look fat?" and "How do I look?". It's another situation where a white lie is acceptable. She is the object of your desire while masturbating. Noone else. No matter what perverted or absurd thoughts you may have while doing the deed. If you tell her you're thinking about anything other than her you're just opening a whole new can of worms (this may not hold true for everyone, but for the vast majority of us it's certain truth). It's doubtful she thinks about you every single time she masturbates either, and that's all ok. Also, once she knows that you're masturbating and thinking about her it'll probably turn her on whether she admits it or not, don't forget, women want to be wanted, it's no secret.

The only exception to this would be her religeous beliefs. If she's super-religeous she may frown on masturbation, as masturbation is frowned upon in most religeons.

That being said, she asked you because she already knows the answer. I'm 99% sure she's not going to think you're weird unless she thinks the whole planet is weird. She was probably testing you. So run, run like the wind, and tell her what's up. Best of luck.