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Why do guys get weird on you after you have sex for the first time

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foggpheh (Age:36 to 45)     When: More than a year ago
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Why do guys get weird on you after you have sex for the first time?

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
For some guys, their guard comes down and they feel comfortable enough to be themself, because they don't need to be on their best behavior now that they got what they wanted.
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Giddyup (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
I hate to be so short, but most guys get weird because once they get what they are looking for, it is like they won the lottery and don't know there gonna do. Getting in your pants is there number one goal, after that they are stuck. trying to figure out if they really love you or if they should run.

Again, as a guy who knows guys, this is a statement based on my general experience, not my experience. For the most part, guys are what you see is what you get. Most guys rarely think to far in the future when it comes to relationships.
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Short-Bus-Super-St (Age:Over 45)      When: More than a year ago
He was probably weird to begin with. Did he make your toes curl? Maybe he knew his performance was lacking and was frightened and feeling like less than a man? I don't know really........hmmmmmm
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mandingo (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
It's not guys it's some people. Maybe it's because there actually is a lot of emotional attachment to sex and people forget this. Also guys feel guilty when they feel that emotion because we are taught by society to supress that kind of emotion. Sucks huh?
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Does it ever annoy you that you're single?
random-ren asked 12 days ago

Yes, most of the time! I really wish I had a boyfriend/girlfriend!

A little, because I feel left out.

Not really...

Nope! I have too much fun being single!

What's there to be annoyed about?

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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal date would be somewhere where we could talk and get to know each other like bowling (my town has nothing else to do but that and movies so I'm limited) skating would be fun. I'd try to look as nice as possible but still being me. Do my hair all perfect and stuff like that:). I'd take her home where hopefully a kiss might happen. Just on the lips no tongue. It is the first date after all ;)

Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Hopefully that I'm a great guy who will be himself around you or anyone. Do anything to make you laugh. That I'm not afraid to show that I'm with you in public or in front of "the guys". That I'm rather sensitive but can still stand up for myself. That I can be both independent and dependent. & I'm dependable. Also that I'd do a lot to impress you. =]]

Would you date me?
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