Ok. This is a huge pet peeve of mine. Girls that spit after giving a blow job.
How does this make sense. He cums in your mouth, and you hold it in your mouth until he is done, the whole while tasting it and feeling it. Why would you do that and then spit?
Maybe like in porn where they hold it in their mouth or on their tongue or whatever and then swallow it, but what's the logic behind spitting?
I just don't understand.
If he's cumming in your mouth, why don't you just keep gulping until you know he is done?
It's easiest and more pleasurable.
Would you girls like it if a guy ate you out and kept spitting it out? THAT even makes more sense to me because the taste is in the guys mouth for so long and lots of girls don't seem to know proper hygiene from what I hear.
Please, any girls that spit, help me try understanding wtf you are thinking?
If it's because of the taste/texture, just have the penis as far back in your mouth as you can when he starts to cum and just gulp gulp gulp. Then you don't taste or feel it.
If it's because you feel it's demeaning. Then I sure as heck hope you never get eaten out or don't request it.
If you aren't going to swallow, it would make a lot more sense to not have it in your mouth at all, like let him cum on your boobs or something!
This drives me NUTS and I'm not even a guy, so I don't know how guys put up with it!
Update: EDIT: PLUS, then the guys don't get the added pleasure of his penis still in the girl's mouth as he becomes soft again, after cumming. I never take it out of my mouth until a little while after they cum.
More than a year ago
Update: So if you have to run and go spit it out, you can't do that! Fuck that. I guess this will never make sense to me.
More than a year ago
It's an honor to be accompanied by such an expert! haha. And I think this is the shortest answer I have ever seen you submit... SCORE! :) - More than a year ago
I agree with dakadan 100%, its a small effort (especially with the adequately put gulp gulp gulp and not tasting it part) and makes the guy SUPER happy, which ladies... he will return the favor.. simple equation, make the guy happy, then guy makes girl happy and the cycle begins ! - More than a year ago
I hereby dub you the Queen of Blow Jobs! Your boyfriend is indeed a very lucky guy to have you! I wish other girls believed the same as you. Don't every change sweety. You have a great attitude towards the best way to give a blow job. You're a guy's dreamgirl! Hale to the Queen!
I love ur way of thinking girl. I wish you were down on my love snake when I spent a quart of hot creamy come down ur gullet and you let my monster just lie there on your warm tongue until he decided to get soft and go ahhhhh. Thanks for your question. Peace.
hey stupid bitch... why are you getting mad because other woman don't swallow.. Why don't you start a campaign and save money and start going from state to state swallowing come from guys dicks. You can start with mine. You really need help. My advice focus on your on pleasures and not another people's. Woman don't have to do anything. Its there choice to suck a dick and its really there choice to swallow. It you love to swallow so much become a pornstar. P.s Looking at that picture of you, you look very young.. Why the hell are you sucking and swallowing anyway at your age. What's the matter, daddy wasn't in your life and you have to fine other ways to cope with his loss..
What a hostile loser you are. You have problems along with all your other pent-up peers I would guess. Honestly, some people really don't deserve to have sex. Just like I always say about people who complain about food: some people don't deserve to eat. Just stay our of the way of us who do have fun. - 4 months ago
your a little goddess ahead of your time. ya know that? your every man's fantasy: this year, next year and for the next 30 years. I agree with your 100%. I really love what you said. "here let me say it again":
"his penis still in your mouth as he becomes soft again, after cumming. I never take it out of my mouth until a little while after they cum.
there's gotta be a line from New York to Cali.just dying to meat (oops.correction!." MEET " ) you, and go out with you!
lol, your soo funny! I love it! straight forward and blunt, well I have to tell you, there are a lot of women, that give blowjobs, but don't like the idea of really doing it, and therefore, don't have the techniques, can't deep thorat, because they complain about gagging, which of course is the best, because it activates your saliva glands, for the woman to use that for lubrication, and a good percentage of women, talk a big game, but chicken out, and don't like to get messy. another, its the same thing with guys, they guys that like the bigger labia minora vaginas, suck, gently sucction the lips, spit, insert fingers, do all the works, of course. hit that gspot that's on the upper wall. the ones that dont, don't like woman that squirt, and really don't like going down, and I think they are selfish, but besides that, they are self concious, and only want to do intercourse, which is fine, but not in my book, I can oral can be very pleasure, if only the right people together do it right! . anyway, back to my point, the smaller lipped vaginas, is what guys like that don't like to go down, and only do the lick test, and pretend to do something, but can't wait to go back up and do some penetration. . by the way, I had a woman, do give me a blowjob and swallow my cum, and let me tell you, its a wonderful feeling!
Hi, You are awesome! You have just said what I have always thought but didn't say because I thought some girls would get offended. Would love to talk with you some more.=)
Awesome question. I've tried to solve this mystery myself but most girls just say it's a personal preference. I'm pretty sure though that it's because they think that it will make them ill or they don't like the texture of it going down, one of those two things or a combination of both.
First of all, you have to understand that a lot of girls don't generally take a guy's cock all the way to the back of their throat during oral sex. Also, I imagine that having ejaculate shot into the back of your throat isn't the most plesant experience.try drinking a glass of water without using your tongue, it's generally not comfortable if you have an active gag reflex.
Women spit because they want to pleasure their guy by keeping his cock in their mouth as they cum without having to swallow it. It doesn't turn me off it they spit, but I find it so sexy when a girl swallows.most guys do.
It's still kind of a mystery to me though. All the responses here from girls don't really say anything other than critiquing the asker's approach, or that the girl actually does swallow. This is a similar question along the lines of why a guy won't kiss a girl after he cums in her mouth. Generally it's because the guy doesn't like the taste, or buys into the social stigma that it's wrong.
To be honest, I've had a girl kiss me after swallowing and I definitely don't like the taste of my own brand. In general women have a much more plesant, sweeter, taste than men so going down on a girl is definitely no problem for me especially after that experience. Also, for those guys who don't know, pineapple makes your cum taste way better.
To add to your rant though, I think what upsets me the most is when a girl won't let me cum on her at all. I can understand why she wouldn't want me to cum on her face, she doesn't want to get it in her eyes, up her nose, on her hair, etc. but not letting me cum on a girls tits or ass and instead into a towel, or a condom, or making a sprint to the bathroom.that just pisses me off. I've been involved with girls like that and it was just so frustrating especially since one was a squirter and would drench me every time she had an orgasm.
It's not the end of the world but COME ON! And if you just deepthroat it and swallow, there is virtually NO taste. It's so much hotter to swallow it and know that's the result of the past like 5-20 mins of giving head and you made somebody feel so good. - More than a year ago
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Right. It's like sawing through your own arm and stopping halfway. You already made the commitment, and it's not really going to get any better. Might as well finish the job and live with the regrets if you have any. - More than a year ago
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Wtf kinda regrets would you have?? lol it's so ridiculous!! - More than a year ago
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I'd be the least qualified to answer that. Not a woman, and I don't give out blowjobs LOL There isn't really a lot of positive sexual education out there, perhaps those women who spit have misconceptions about swallowing being harmful or something? - More than a year ago
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Well I believe in evolution and survival of the fittest so I think we should just get rid of all the spitters to help the future :) - More than a year ago
Unfortunately, those kinds of people only have straight old fashioned intercourse and so would be more apt to procreate. I think we'd have to weed them out another way. They really are a blight on the future of an empowered humanity. --(Yes, I made several generalizations there. Any responders who want to complain can write to my nearest congress-person) - 4 months ago
I believe that most women have a taboo against swallowing. From what I have read and heard, swallowing is supposedly the ultimate "acceptance" between man and woman during sex. The progression is that a woman doesn't have sex with just anybody(which explains why I don't get enough). From choosing that special guy(if sober) just for a date breaks the first barrier, sex in itself is the second barrier. Finally, to swallow means that the green light is on and the trust and intimacy will now lead to long term love if not marriage. It almost follows the logic, no woman has ever swallowed my stuff until we have dated for a while(none ever lasted more than 4 months) and we have felt very secure with each other.
That is how I understand it. then again, I'm a man trying to understand women. Now THAT does not make sense(^_^)!
Ok that's just ridiculous. I've never heard anything like that. I think you are reading way too far into it haha. Don't give them so much credit! It's just f***in swallowing some damn protein. - More than a year ago
Dude I often read your stories and posts and I have to tell you that you put ladies on the pedestal. Don't do it. I think you often get hurt by societal double standards but the way out to it not to think about the whole society but for yourself and people around you. While you should respect others feelings and everything you shouldn't give a crap to anyone's shit. Be a challenge.This question asked is the single most awesome girl ever and hope of humanity - preaching equality cont. - More than a year ago
In such a controversial subject. Look she is telling you that you are reading too far and she is correct. Women are nothing but the female gender of our own species. Don't take anyone's crap. The other day a guy was asking about the stereotypes surrounding dating rules. Read my reply to him and all the comments. If you don't respect your manhood women would just consider you as a nice guy and "nice guy" is not the same as good guy. Women consider them as another of their girl friend. - More than a year ago
It DOES piss me off! I don't see it, but it just shouldn't be allowed! It's so ridiculous that I don't even have to be a guy or experience it for it to piss me off. I hear about it from guys or girls and I just freak out. Sheesh. Now you got me all worked up about it again! Damn you. You're lucky you're so damn cute! - More than a year ago
It p*sses ME off too and it is because that kind of behavior stems from certain personality types that are just plain a detriment to the evolution of humans into more spiritual (NOT religious) beings. These people are all scared, whiny downers that are in the way. Sheesh the 1950's really royally screwed this country up. ---(more generalizing...congress-person...write if you want) - 4 months ago
I swallow sometimes, but with my ex boyfriend his come tasted so bad I couldn't even swallow. Plus it gives me heart burn and sometimes I gag when I try to put it in the back of my throat. I never spit though! If I am not swallowing, I let him come on me, or on his tummy, and then I continue sucking on it because he definitely does get added pleasure, and I love it.
Gulp gulp gulp. I love that comment. I swallow, slurp, suck, lick and everything and I love it. I originally wanted to say more to the responders who are so negative about swallowing but I decided to leave it alone. More fun for us I guess.
I've been with guys who won't let me pull back, or who don't warn me at all, and they taste *horrible*.. at that point if I can't immediately spit it out on something like a towel or kleenex, I hold it under my tongue where I can't taste it. But that's only with certain guys. Some guys taste better.
And most of the guys I've been with can't stand to stay in my mouth afterward due to hypersensitivity.
Wow. Really? Why is it even ANY of your business if another girl doesn't swallow? It isn't. Maybe you should look at it from a different view and be happy that you are in the minority of girls willing to swallow. Guys obviously like that. And it sets you apart.
HOWEVER! I don't swallow. The reason is, I would probably want to throw up. I have only let someone come in my mouth twice and both times I spit it right out. Its just something I do. Period. And it is absolutely none of your business why and certainly nothing for you to become resentful and hateful for. At all. So grow up and learn that different people have different opinions and habits and that is just life.
Your tone is angry and condescending. But in the end I believe it is up to the woman whether she wants to swallow or spit. It is a choice to suck some guy off and with that choice comes the right to spit or swallow! If guys have a problem with girls spitting they obviously don't want it that bad.
Lets respect everyone's personal choices. Be peaceful!
I Strongly AGREE with all women's comments...you don't have a right to say stuff to those girls who spit and don't wana swallow, if YOU love swallowing, that's YOU then. The reason You're looking for is "why they Spit" right, so here's your answer, we DON'T like the taste of it and we manage to deal with it somehow, and our guys don't even mind! Infact, most of the girls personally don't like the idea of even sucking their guys, but they do it anyways as a part to pleasure their men and end up liking it (without having to swallow)...so Why the hell you're being so dramatic about this and making it sound like an issue? I'm seeing this for the 1st time, that someone being a GIRL herself, can be immature enough to stand up against her own kind! instead of being encouragable and supportive. Get a life I'd say and let girls DO what they're ok with, because sexual pleasures are based on both people's FREE will..and there's NO Existance for "WHY" or "HOW" questions in it!
If it's in your mouth already... why would you just hold it in your mouth longer?? that's all I am saying! If you hate the taste, then why keep it in your mouth even longer? Just doesn't make sense. Nobody likes the taste of it! But my problem is just then why keep it in your mouth for wayyyy longer than you have to??? - More than a year ago
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Well then what do we do when the taste gets stuck on our taste buds? I mean is there anyway to pleasure him and not feel the taste on toungue at the same time? - More than a year ago
Why? They invariably get in our way in life. Bad attitudes are polluting our society. - 4 months ago
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because its disgusting. uhm DUH. seriously. just because you don't spit doesn't mean its wrong. do watever the f*** you want and let people do what they want. people spit because its gross. if you think otherwise its YOUR opinion. jus leave the people who spit to their own business and forget about it.
Reason: ITS DISGUSTING. I don't like the thought of that crap being in my stomach!
PLUS my thought is. I'm already giving him pleasure, so I get to do whatever the heck I want. telling a girl to swallow after she gives something good to you, is rude in my opinion, unless she likes it and thinks its kinky or something.
and about giving girls head. a lot of guys do it because they WANT to do it, and if they want to spit, I don't see why that's a big deal because they can just spit it back in! girls. can't really spit anything back in.
Ok well I don't enjoy it because it hurts when I swallow. Yes you can say that when a guy is going down on a girl he does the same.blah blah.but no one is telling him to go down on me. I mean I have swallowed before but its not something I enjoy, and would much rather just not do. But I mean obviously in the heat of the moment and knowing that its a rush of pleasure for him, you have to sometimes make sacrifices.
Seriously grow up, if you don't wanna spit than don't. No one is forcing you too. This is a site where people ask questions and others state their opinion, this isn't a question, it's a lash out at girls who don't swallow. Since your not interested in spitting why do you care so much about girls that do? Anyone would think your the guy that doesn't want his misses to spit! I swallow and your questions and comments pissed me off, I could just imagine how the girls that actually spit feel! That probably explains why no girls that spit have answered your question. It's pointless for anyone to answer your so called question anyway, if anyone says something you don't like you just lash back out at them too! Did you ever think that girls who spit would wonder why the f*** you swallow. god man, different strokes for different folks and I don't know who you think you are giving girls that spit a lecture, get over yourself!
I'm trying to be understanding and learn and see if there actually is a reason! The reason none of them have answered is because I guess there IS NO REASON! It's just being prude and stuck up and selfish and snobby and bitchy and stupid! - More than a year ago
I thought it was actually a legit question. and seriously vezna... chill the f*** out prude. - More than a year ago
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Oh okay so all girls that spit are Prude, Stuck Up, Selfish, Snobby, Bitchy and Stupid... That's the most narrow minded thing I've ever heard and this maybe a legit questions it's just been asked in a Prude, Stuck Up, Selfish, Snobby, Bitchy and Stupid way!!! Did you ever wonder what girls who spit think of girls who swallow??? Everyone does what they feel comfortable with, you are no one to judge!!! And I hope to god girls that spit don't think they are doing something wrong because of you! - More than a year ago
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Well you are telling everybody to do things with no reason behind it. So. Hmm... I think I'll go kill somebody. Why? No reason... Personal preference. - More than a year ago
Because pleasuring each other is fun. I'm a very selfless person, so what makes me happiest is making other people happy. And it's just fun, like I said. You're too young to understand, I guess. :) - More than a year ago
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The temptation is there but why get that close with a guy it's not even intimate.You probably don't even have feelings for the guy so why do that? If people would do that if they dated the guy for a long time but I still prefer being safe in the lines of marriage-different story. God gave us these emotions; not sure what your outlook on Him is, but being sexual with a guy should not be wasted. The people that wait for marriage to have any type of sex are known to have the best of it. - More than a year ago
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Because they know nothing else...
If something isn't dangerous, and it's free & fun & doesn't cause any harm... Why not do it?
Sex is better than drinking and drugs and smoking... As long as you are responsible.
There's nothing wrong with sex before marriage. How is it being wasted? Experiencing new things & having fun & making each other feel good is a nice part of life. If sex was just for the purpose of procreation, then it wouldn't feel good. Evolution... No God. - More than a year ago
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I'd rather not. Honey, I am an adult and can make my own decisions. Go preach to the girls that are messing up their lives by getting pregnant & getting abortions & STDs and everything. That would be a much better cause. - More than a year ago
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There's nothing wrong with taking advice from somebody else. There are many hidden fears and a lack of trust in what you're doing. - More than a year ago
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I think I know a little more than you. Like I said... Go talk to the girls around your age that are completely messing up their lives. - More than a year ago
Can't really help you on this one, I've always swallowed ;)
Also, spitting brings the cum to the front of your mouth/tongue where all the taste buds are, when it's at the back of your throat you can't taste it anyways.
I swallow with my current boyfriend but didn't with my ex as his stuff tasted so bad-used my hand to finish him off every time apart from the one where I learned my lesson. So I didn't spit but I didn't swallow either! But it doesn't annoy me if other girls swallow or not-each to their own and whatever floats ur boat!
I get what you're saying, but my boyfriend cums a lot more than most, and I just don't wanna gulp a pint of jism. but I do want to pleasure him (he hardly ever comes up for air when he's eating me out). so while I do swallow some, I mostly spit out his cum little by little as he's squirting inside my mouth. That said, I also enjoy him cumming on my boobs, ass, etc.
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