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Girls: Why do you spit?

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Jessica32 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Ok. This is a huge pet peeve of mine. Girls that spit after giving a blow job.

How does this make sense. He cums in your mouth, and you hold it in your mouth until he is done, the whole while tasting it and feeling it. Why would you do that and then spit?

Maybe like in porn where they hold it in their mouth or on their tongue or whatever and then swallow it, but what's the logic behind spitting?

I just don't understand.

If he's cumming in your mouth, why don't you just keep gulping until you know he is done?

It's easiest and more pleasurable.

Would you girls like it if a guy ate you out and kept spitting it out? THAT even makes more sense to me because the taste is in the guys mouth for so long and lots of girls don't seem to know proper hygiene from what I hear.

Please, any girls that spit, help me try understanding wtf you are thinking?

If it's because of the taste/texture, just have the penis as far back in your mouth as you can when he starts to cum and just gulp gulp gulp. Then you don't taste or feel it.

If it's because you feel it's demeaning. Then I sure as heck hope you never get eaten out or don't request it.

If you aren't going to swallow, it would make a lot more sense to not have it in your mouth at all, like let him cum on your boobs or something!

This drives me NUTS and I'm not even a guy, so I don't know how guys put up with it!

Update: EDIT: PLUS, then the guys don't get the added pleasure of his penis still in the girl's mouth as he becomes soft again, after cumming. I never take it out of my mouth until a little while after they cum.    4 months ago

Update: So if you have to run and go spit it out, you can't do that! Fuck that. I guess this will never make sense to me.    4 months ago

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Crapshoot
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Crapshoot (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Awesome question. I've tried to solve this mystery myself but most girls just say it's a personal preference. I'm pretty sure though that it's because they think that it will make them ill or they don't like the texture of it going down, one of those two things or a combination of both.

First of all, you have to understand that a lot of girls don't generally take a guy's cock all the way to the back of their throat during oral sex. Also, I imagine that having ejaculate shot into the back of your throat isn't the most plesant experience.try drinking a glass of water without using your tongue, it's generally not comfortable if you have an active gag reflex.

Women spit because they want to pleasure their guy by keeping his cock in their mouth as they cum without having to swallow it. It doesn't turn me off it they spit, but I find it so sexy when a girl swallows.most guys do.

It's still kind of a mystery to me though. All the responses here from girls don't really say anything other than critiquing the asker's approach, or that the girl actually does swallow. This is a similar question along the lines of why a guy won't kiss a girl after he cums in her mouth. Generally it's because the guy doesn't like the taste, or buys into the social stigma that it's wrong.

To be honest, I've had a girl kiss me after swallowing and I definitely don't like the taste of my own brand. In general women have a much more plesant, sweeter, taste than men so going down on a girl is definitely no problem for me especially after that experience. Also, for those guys who don't know, pineapple makes your cum taste way better.

To add to your rant though, I think what upsets me the most is when a girl won't let me cum on her at all. I can understand why she wouldn't want me to cum on her face, she doesn't want to get it in her eyes, up her nose, on her hair, etc. but not letting me cum on a girls tits or ass and instead into a towel, or a condom, or making a sprint to the bathroom.that just pisses me off. I've been involved with girls like that and it was just so frustrating especially since one was a squirter and would drench me every time she had an orgasm.
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Superstrength79
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Superstrength79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
It wouldn't be the end of the world if the girl I was with wanted to spit it out. just leave the room to do it though.

I agree, the taste is already there for the most part, might as well swallow and get it over with.
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Question Asker It's not the end of the world but COME ON! And if you just deepthroat it and swallow, there is virtually NO taste. It's so much hotter to swallow it and know that's the result of the past like 5-20 mins of giving head and you made somebody feel so good. - 4 months ago
Answerer Right. It's like sawing through your own arm and stopping halfway. You already made the commitment, and it's not really going to get any better. Might as well finish the job and live with the regrets if you have any. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Wtf kinda regrets would you have?? lol it's so ridiculous!! - 4 months ago
Answerer I'd be the least qualified to answer that. Not a woman, and I don't give out blowjobs LOL
There isn't really a lot of positive sexual education out there, perhaps those women who spit have misconceptions about swallowing being harmful or something? - 4 months ago
Question Asker Well I believe in evolution and survival of the fittest so I think we should just get rid of all the spitters to help the future :) - 4 months ago
Answerer I'll do my part LOL - 4 months ago

archer86
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archer86 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
I believe that most women have a taboo against swallowing. From what I have read and heard, swallowing is supposedly the ultimate "acceptance" between man and woman during sex. The progression is that a woman doesn't have sex with just anybody(which explains why I don't get enough). From choosing that special guy(if sober) just for a date breaks the first barrier, sex in itself is the second barrier. Finally, to swallow means that the green light is on and the trust and intimacy will now lead to long term love if not marriage. It almost follows the logic, no woman has ever swallowed my stuff until we have dated for a while(none ever lasted more than 4 months) and we have felt very secure with each other.

That is how I understand it. then again, I'm a man trying to understand women. Now THAT does not make sense(^_^)!
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Question Asker Ok that's just ridiculous. I've never heard anything like that. I think you are reading way too far into it haha. Don't give them so much credit! It's just f***in swallowing some damn protein. - 4 months ago

Jarett
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
lol why is this a pet peeve to you? How often do you see girls spitting? You almost sound pissed off, haha.
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Question Asker It DOES piss me off! I don't see it, but it just shouldn't be allowed! It's so ridiculous that I don't even have to be a guy or experience it for it to piss me off. I hear about it from guys or girls and I just freak out. Sheesh. Now you got me all worked up about it again! Damn you. You're lucky you're so damn cute! - 4 months ago

Genesis5
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I think I speak for all the guys that haven't responded when I say:

"How do I find you, and when can we get married?" :)

I have wondered this myself too, like it actually prolongs everything, like s l o w l y pealing off a band-aid.
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Question Asker Haha well thanks, I just see it as common sense

I hate girls so much... haha. How do you guys do it?!! - 4 months ago
Superstrength79 Good question... little to never is my answer lol. - 4 months ago

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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
I have always wondered this myself. If you don't want it in your mouth then don't be there when he comes. Great question.
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Question Asker It's an honor to be accompanied by such an expert! haha. And I think this is the shortest answer I have ever seen you submit... SCORE! :) - 4 months ago
jaykay I agree with dakadan 100%, its a small effort (especially with the adequately put gulp gulp gulp and not tasting it part) and makes the guy SUPER happy, which ladies... he will return the favor.. simple equation, make the guy happy, then guy makes girl happy and the cycle begins ! - 4 months ago
 

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 25 days ago
because its disgusting. uhm DUH. seriously. just because you don't spit doesn't mean its wrong. do watever the f*** you want and let people do what they want. people spit because its gross. if you think otherwise its YOUR opinion. jus leave the people who spit to their own business and forget about it.
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SEXY-little-KITTEN
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SEXY-little-KITTEN (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
I spit it into his mouth so that I can watch him swallow,
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Reason: ITS DISGUSTING. I don't like the thought of that crap being in my stomach!

PLUS my thought is. I'm already giving him pleasure, so I get to do whatever the heck I want. telling a girl to swallow after she gives something good to you, is rude in my opinion, unless she likes it and thinks its kinky or something.

and about giving girls head. a lot of guys do it because they WANT to do it, and if they want to spit, I don't see why that's a big deal because they can just spit it back in! girls. can't really spit anything back in.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Ok well I don't enjoy it because it hurts when I swallow. Yes you can say that when a guy is going down on a girl he does the same.blah blah.but no one is telling him to go down on me. I mean I have swallowed before but its not something I enjoy, and would much rather just not do. But I mean obviously in the heat of the moment and knowing that its a rush of pleasure for him, you have to sometimes make sacrifices.
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Question Asker Well if it hurts you should go to the dr - 4 months ago

vezna
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vezna (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Seriously grow up, if you don't wanna spit than don't. No one is forcing you too. This is a site where people ask questions and others state their opinion, this isn't a question, it's a lash out at girls who don't swallow. Since your not interested in spitting why do you care so much about girls that do? Anyone would think your the guy that doesn't want his misses to spit! I swallow and your questions and comments pissed me off, I could just imagine how the girls that actually spit feel! That probably explains why no girls that spit have answered your question. It's pointless for anyone to answer your so called question anyway, if anyone says something you don't like you just lash back out at them too! Did you ever think that girls who spit would wonder why the f*** you swallow. god man, different strokes for different folks and I don't know who you think you are giving girls that spit a lecture, get over yourself!
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Question Asker I'm trying to be understanding and learn and see if there actually is a reason! The reason none of them have answered is because I guess there IS NO REASON! It's just being prude and stuck up and selfish and snobby and bitchy and stupid! - 4 months ago
quinnfitz1121 I thought it was actually a legit question. and seriously vezna... chill the f*** out prude. - 4 months ago
Answerer Oh okay so all girls that spit are Prude, Stuck Up, Selfish, Snobby, Bitchy and Stupid... That's the most narrow minded thing I've ever heard and this maybe a legit questions it's just been asked in a Prude, Stuck Up, Selfish, Snobby, Bitchy and Stupid way!!! Did you ever wonder what girls who spit think of girls who swallow??? Everyone does what they feel comfortable with, you are no one to judge!!! And I hope to god girls that spit don't think they are doing something wrong because of you! - 4 months ago
Question Asker Well you are telling everybody to do things with no reason behind it. So. Hmm... I think I'll go kill somebody. Why? No reason... Personal preference. - 4 months ago
Pretty-Lady How is she telling everybody to do things with no reason behind it? - A month ago

NatalieChristine112
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NatalieChristine112 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Why do you suck a guy's dick anyways? Unless you're married what's the point honestly.
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Question Asker Because pleasuring each other is fun. I'm a very selfless person, so what makes me happiest is making other people happy. And it's just fun, like I said. You're too young to understand, I guess. :) - 4 months ago
Answerer The temptation is there but why get that close with a guy it's not even intimate.You probably don't even have feelings for the guy so why do that? If people would do that if they dated the guy for a long time but I still prefer being safe in the lines of marriage-different story. God gave us these emotions; not sure what your outlook on Him is, but being sexual with a guy should not be wasted. The people that wait for marriage to have any type of sex are known to have the best of it. - 4 months ago